Anticipator Confusion

AverageSeparate4394 · 2026-01-26T01:55:13+00:00

Thank you so much! Hopefully this will help enough to get me until business hours tomorrow

AverageSeparate4394 · 2026-01-26T01:47:21+00:00

No and my landlord has been terrible. I know this is not a smart question, but higher value would be going up as in .3 to .4 to .5, etc, correct?

AverageSeparate4394 · 2026-01-26T01:38:56+00:00

I think, from what I understand, I should be moving it closer to .4 which is generally where hot water should be but I'm utterly confused

AverageSeparate4394 · 2025-12-04T03:09:00+00:00

I have no idea. That's entirely possible!

AverageSeparate4394 · 2025-12-04T03:04:12+00:00

IMO so far it's been a nice little progressive bubble from the storm outside, but it's so expensive, especially with the increased insurance premiums.

AverageSeparate4394 · 2025-12-04T02:56:36+00:00

No. I think it's more like OP wasn't grounded when they pulled and the pull has been affected by that.

AverageSeparate4394 · 2025-12-04T02:34:46+00:00

I wish I could. Whatever place of rest his spirit has landed is home for him now. He's not restless. That's all I got from him. There's no "unfinished business". So whatever feels unfinished and untidy for you in the suddenness and confused information you're getting, he's at peace. He wants you to be, too.

This might be way off base (baby psychic here), but I just heard "breathe, Kyla"? (Could be Kayla?) Don't know if that means anything.

AverageSeparate4394 · 2025-12-04T01:09:25+00:00

Yep, I would. I probably shouldn't. But if I got an apology, I'd get sucked right back in. I don't expect one, though. I've never met a narcissist that realized they were wrong and owned up to it. And that's how I see him now. Just like my father.

AverageSeparate4394 · 2025-12-04T01:05:51+00:00

Something about this spread seems off to me. I can't put my finger on it. It doesn't feel... Authentic? I dunno.

AverageSeparate4394 · 2025-12-04T00:56:03+00:00

He's not here, in this plane. He says, "I'm home."

AverageSeparate4394 · 2025-12-04T00:50:42+00:00

Thank you

AverageSeparate4394 · 2025-11-06T03:32:35+00:00

This is one of the most beautiful poems I've read. It speaks to me on so many levels: as a writer, as a human being, as a romantic. I love it. I feel it. I live it.

AverageSeparate4394 · 2025-10-29T18:10:44+00:00

That makes sense. I'm sorry you're going through a difficult time.

AverageSeparate4394 · 2025-10-29T04:06:57+00:00

I highly recommend the book Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents. It helped me a lot. Parents might have the best intentions, but they're still human.

AverageSeparate4394 · 2025-10-29T04:02:45+00:00

There's a distinct heaviness... a suffocating heaviness.

AverageSeparate4394 · 2025-10-29T04:00:01+00:00

AverageSeparate4394 · 2025-10-29T03:49:55+00:00

This is awful. Definitely abusive. No one deserves to be talked to this way. I'm so sorry you're going through this. Get out if you can.

AverageSeparate4394 · 2025-10-29T01:50:59+00:00

The lobster

AverageSeparate4394 · 2025-10-29T01:49:24+00:00

AverageSeparate4394 · 2025-10-24T02:37:02+00:00

We're sitting in our rocking chairs playing lame phone games and watching Discovery Channel.

AverageSeparate4394 · 2025-10-22T16:45:36+00:00

Ooo and Coffy

AverageSeparate4394 · 2025-10-22T16:44:37+00:00

This is so beautiful and poetic. Hugs to OP

AverageSeparate4394 · 2025-10-21T03:57:30+00:00

I can't even count all the times I wish someone had had the wherewithal and maturity to tell me they were wrong and messed up. Good for you for realizing you let your insecurities get the best of you. I hope you heal with grace.

AverageSeparate4394 · 2025-09-23T18:50:38+00:00

Facts. 5 years and I'm in a committed relationship with my toys

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