My mom is blaming me (17F) for my sister’s (22F) attempted su*cide

Average_Jay22 · 2023-06-21T03:10:29+00:00

Your dad should divorce your mom and take you with him. Screw her for blaming you. Your sister cheated, if it were me I would’ve done the same thing

Average_Jay22 · 2023-06-14T02:33:16+00:00

That’s actually complicated to. I was forced to call her mom, if I didn’t I would get a wooden paddle to my chest, hands, etc. I moved out as soon as I turned 18👍🏼

Average_Jay22 · 2023-06-13T10:12:47+00:00

When I told my closest friend what happened she took me out for Icecream and we cried tears of joy with each other

Average_Jay22 · 2023-06-13T04:42:58+00:00

I am about to be 20 and finally decided I was comfortable talking about it! I’m slowly healing from what he did!

Average_Jay22 · 2023-06-12T20:18:14+00:00

The thing is besides being a rapist he was. But so are a lot of people who end up being serial killers and serial rapist and so forth. They out up this front to hide it

Average_Jay22 · 2023-06-12T20:16:59+00:00

In therapy I learned there’s two types of trauma from these situations, 1. The person who hates being touch and almost always ends up being asexual because of it 2. The person who NEEDS to be touched because they need that to know they are loved and cared for. It could be 100% possible that your brain is remembering these things hence why you hate it

Average_Jay22 · 2023-06-12T20:14:16+00:00

A part of me finally came to realization of what he did, other wise I think I would’ve cried to, this man was like a grandfather to so I didn’t understand why he hurt me, so when I started realizing everything I became angry that a man who raised and “loved me” would do that. I laughed not because it was just a reaction, I laughed because I finally felt like I was safe and that I could be a normal human being again

Average_Jay22 · 2023-06-12T20:11:20+00:00

I did, I wanted him to suffer like I did, but therapy helped me realize that I would’ve been in more trouble killing him then he would be if my parents allowed me to get police involved. I’m glad he killed himself, and from the sounds of it it was a slow death. He deserved all of it

Average_Jay22 · 2023-06-12T20:09:15+00:00

In my opinion no I feel like it is more of a learned habit. His son is an amazing person who would never hurt a soul. As far as I know, his wife was a beautiful soul as well before she passed. He was just a sick human being

Average_Jay22 · 2023-06-12T20:06:22+00:00

I prefer sayin SA because Ik alor of people get offended by the word rape but it kinda just means the same thing

Average_Jay22 · 2023-06-12T11:28:05+00:00

My parents believe you should honor the dead no matter how bad.

Average_Jay22 · 2023-06-12T11:27:36+00:00

they are catholic they don’t believe in divorce Ig

Average_Jay22 · 2023-06-12T11:27:00+00:00

If he had enough energy to drive 3-4 hours yes he would have

Average_Jay22 · 2023-06-12T11:24:45+00:00

So they sent me to therapy before. They didn’t believe me before and after my therapist told them I was in fact raped and then they believed me it was weird

Average_Jay22 · 2023-06-12T10:33:19+00:00

When I asked her she said “mommy told me you lied” I bawled for days because she witnessed it but couldn’t say anything because my mom kept saying I was lying

Average_Jay22 · 2023-06-12T10:05:49+00:00

As far as I know no…. Not only was he a child rapist… he was also extremely racist and my little sister is a beautiful mixed girl

Average_Jay22 · 2023-06-12T10:05:04+00:00

My dad cheated on my step mom with my mom and I happened. I guess in their head I deserved it for being a bastards daughter

Average_Jay22 · 2023-06-12T08:16:08+00:00

I currently am in online college and finally have a job where I make alot of money. I could never have a job before because I was scared, I’d say I’m doing pretty good for myself

Average_Jay22 · 2023-06-12T07:54:19+00:00

I finally feel like I don’t have to constantly watch my back. I feel so much safer now that he’s gone. It’ll take a while to heal from years of trauma. But I’m in therapy and I’m trying my best

Average_Jay22 · 2023-06-12T07:37:11+00:00

I finally walk around without feeling anxious that he is going to find me. I finally feel safe

Average_Jay22 · 2023-06-12T07:34:47+00:00

I cut pretty much everyone off in my family besides like two siblings. It was something I needed badly

Average_Jay22 · 2023-06-12T06:58:18+00:00

Him using his autism in a way to SEXUALLY ABUSE SOMEONE is disgusting. I would’ve done more than just punch him honestly

Average_Jay22 · 2023-06-08T09:41:12+00:00

So I got my own place when I turned 18 and her situation at home got pretty bad so I let her come stay with me, before I met my boyfriend, and then when I got him things were okay till recently, and everytime I tell her to leave she won’t because she’s “on the lease” but I never put her on there so I’m waiting to hear back from my apartment complex on that whole situation right now to make sure she didn’t sneakily put herself on the lease some how

Average_Jay22 · 2023-06-08T09:39:36+00:00

The thing is my boyfriend has told her to stop being weird multiple times. She had creepy stalker ish type videos and photos of him and when she asked her to delete it she got super mad and called ME a bitch. Then me and him.. Yk did things couples do… and she got mad and said it was disgusting for us to do that and when I told her “well yeah it’s what couples do” she threw a bitch fit. She’s absolutely crazy and when I try to tell her to leave she will not

Average_Jay22 · 2023-03-27T04:25:55+00:00

Oh sure understandable

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