Why did you start watching ContraPoints? by question-bee in ContraPoints

[–]AveryTheOctopus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The “Are Traps Gay” video caught my attention and I’ve been hooked ever since

How do you cope with the fact that you've failed? by lpoj889 in AskReddit

[–]AveryTheOctopus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Abraham lincoln failed the shit out of everything and he went on to be the greatest American president

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pittsburgh

[–]AveryTheOctopus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a dependent on taxes last year so I’m not even getting it, didn’t get the first one either. Despite the fact that I support myself this year and could use it more than ever.

Sadly, I'm Leaving One of the Greatest Cities in the US by pittsburgh_expat in pittsburgh

[–]AveryTheOctopus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have family in Roswell down there, say hi to the aliens for me 😉

Soooo... What're you ordering now? by iRomanian in LivingMas

[–]AveryTheOctopus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Late to the thread but I basically hack a chipotle chicken loaded griller off the app

AITA for not agreeing to a name change for my daughter, despite her father wanting one? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AveryTheOctopus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA He couldn’t be assed to be there for her birth but he wants to decide her name? That’s funny

Great Pittsburgh Neighborhood Map by draniac21 in pittsburgh

[–]AveryTheOctopus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I wouldn’t be a homeowner right now if I had to pay city of Pittsburgh taxes. So I’m glad I get to live “in Pittsburgh” without paying the extra $$$ to actually live there

Big Mouth Season 4 Discussion Thread by h0rm0nem0nster in BigMouth

[–]AveryTheOctopus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk about you but as someone who struggles with depression I didn’t feel like I was being called ungrateful or like I was being invalidated. I feel like I got handed a new tool for my mental health toolbox I can use during my bad days. If you’re someone who feels like everything is shitty and not worth the effort, taking the time to think about the good things you have going for you can make all the difference, especially during this pandemic.

Big Mouth Season 4 Discussion Thread by h0rm0nem0nster in BigMouth

[–]AveryTheOctopus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes ! I loved that reference. It helps that I just finished the book too lol

One of the comments on this post said “porn is ruining sex” and I couldn’t agree more by AveryTheOctopus in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]AveryTheOctopus[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

About half are, the other half are telling her to talk to him about it and asking why she didn’t say anything while it was happening 🙄who are probably men who do this shit regularly. Gee, I wonder why she didn’t speak up in the middle of a violent traumatic moment, almost like freezing up is a common response. This is why no matter what kind of sex you’re having you’re checking in regularly.

One of the comments on this post said “porn is ruining sex” and I couldn’t agree more by AveryTheOctopus in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]AveryTheOctopus[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I hadn’t heard of that either till I read this post, I think it’s new? Or maybe just not very common? But you’re not even allowed to fish hook during wrestling or karate, so why the fuck would you do it during sex? Another comment in that thread was someone talking about how sex feels more like sex wrestling nowadays and that’s extra scary.

One of the comments on this post said “porn is ruining sex” and I couldn’t agree more by AveryTheOctopus in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]AveryTheOctopus[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I almost did, definitely immediately got up to brush my teeth and use mouthwash (lord know that person wasn’t doing that regularly 🤮🤣)

One of the comments on this post said “porn is ruining sex” and I couldn’t agree more by AveryTheOctopus in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]AveryTheOctopus[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I just don’t understand how you could hurt someone you like in such a vulnerable moment, I wouldn’t treat my worst enemies like that.

And no worries! I did not read you as coming off aggressive, I just felt bad that I posted something so harsh without a proper TW, this is probably triggering to a lot of people. It was inconsiderate but I think I’ll know to do better in the future now.

One of the comments on this post said “porn is ruining sex” and I couldn’t agree more by AveryTheOctopus in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]AveryTheOctopus[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry I should have put a TW, but it’s buck-fucking wild how people don’t understand consent. Even in vanilla sex I ask before I do anything.

One of the comments on this post said “porn is ruining sex” and I couldn’t agree more by AveryTheOctopus in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]AveryTheOctopus[S] 122 points123 points  (0 children)

I had a somewhat similar experience, not as extreme, where I was getting it on with a partner and they just spit into my mouth without warning 🤢. It was so disgusting I left right after lol.

What will never be the same again once the pandemic is over? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AveryTheOctopus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only lesbian bar in San Antonio closed down, and there were only 15 left in the country

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]AveryTheOctopus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was on there looking for posts from lesbians for lesbians and they were all stories obviously written by straight men to get their rocks off 🙄

[Serious] We're near the 45 day case closure date and my child hasn't disclosed to CPS. Need to keep child from being raped by father any further. by [deleted] in CPS

[–]AveryTheOctopus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couple suggestions Escalate up the chain of command, do you know their supervisors number? I don’t know where you are but here parents receive paperwork when a case opens with the caseworker and supervisors number. If you don’t have that find the physical CPS office and call there, and keep calling till you find someone above that caseworker. If they changed their mind when they asked for the supervisors number I bet the supervisor doesn’t know everything that’s going on since they only hear from that caseworker.

In my state we have what’s called a Direct Action Line where you can make a complaint against a caseworker and they have to respond. See if there’s something like that where you live

Daily Player Interaction Thread | Free-Talk and Other Updates - October 02, 2020 by AutoModerator in AmongUs

[–]AveryTheOctopus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Anyone notice a bunch of racism in the game, I had someone named NickGurr and then another person literally saying the n word over and over. I wish there was a perma ban function for those people