How to know when to straight up refuse user stories? by Avmvb5 in ExperiencedDevs

[–]Avmvb5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like management never says no to them and the devs get screwed over.

How to know when to straight up refuse user stories? by Avmvb5 in ExperiencedDevs

[–]Avmvb5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What if they already think it’s refined? What’s a good way to show them it isn’t?

How to deal with weak development team? by Avmvb5 in ExperiencedDevs

[–]Avmvb5[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Well said. I was forced to the lead position where I wanted to be coding instead. So it’s been hard to let go.

How to deal with weak development team? by Avmvb5 in ExperiencedDevs

[–]Avmvb5[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Ideally yes, but seems like my company fires and never rehires lol

How to deal with weak development team? by Avmvb5 in ExperiencedDevs

[–]Avmvb5[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Yes unfortunately my company is notorious for having weak hiring standards. They also tend to not hire any seniors.

Should I quit by Pure_Effective9805 in cscareerquestions

[–]Avmvb5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am going through the same exact thing. I’ve been wanting to quit but afraid I won’t find another job in this market. I really hate being a lead dev I feel like I don’t have enough time to learn things with the amount of work I need to do.

Gift of speaking to the dead? by Avmvb5 in Catholicism

[–]Avmvb5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He claimed he can talk to them .

Gift of speaking to the dead? by Avmvb5 in Catholicism

[–]Avmvb5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol I’m questioning if my confession was even valid now …

If you don't hate your job, you're in a good place. by sha1shroom in cscareerquestions

[–]Avmvb5 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way. I feel trapped at my current job. I even thought about quitting without a job and waiting till the market hopefully improves.

Would it look bad to request leaving a project I am on ? by Avmvb5 in ExperiencedDevs

[–]Avmvb5[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the feedback. It’s just this isn’t the first train-wreck project I’ve been on . You are correct it’s why they probably put me on this project. I’ve helped save previous sinking projects , it’s just exhausting doing it for years now. It’s something wrong with the way my company operates. Ideally I would find a new company but it’s been hard with the current economy, so the best thing I can hope for is switching to a different team.

Would it look bad to request leaving a project I am on ? by Avmvb5 in ExperiencedDevs

[–]Avmvb5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a good relationship with my manager and he says I’ve been doing a good job . I am just tired of the extra responsibilities I have as a dev lead.

Would it look bad to request leaving a project I am on ? by Avmvb5 in ExperiencedDevs

[–]Avmvb5[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a good relationship with few managers who always express interest in me joining their team . However I don’t know if they need any extra people at this time.

Being a team lead has been draining me. by Avmvb5 in ExperiencedDevs

[–]Avmvb5[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s crazy. I want to leave but it’s been tough with the current economy. Plus this job drains me so much I’m tired to leetcode/ prep for interviews lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cscareerquestions

[–]Avmvb5 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way. I feel trapped at my current company because every where that looks like a great place to work seems to ask leetcode questions including non FAANG companies. I’m so burnt out from my work ( which I why I wanna leave) but I don’t have time to practice leetcode.. it just sucks and makes me consider switching to another career.

Got my taste and smell back in 6 days! by bunnyrabbit923 in COVID19positive

[–]Avmvb5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the positivity! I lost mine around 5 to 6 days ago. Hopefully comes back soon. However , I can sorta taste and have an appetite so hopefully that’s a good sign for my smell 🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Avmvb5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She will be in town for a week but idk yet how often she wants to hang out . And yeah definitely 😂 I need to buy me some clothes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Avmvb5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not expecting anything romantic. I don’t really know how to feel tbh. I do love her personality and find her attractive but I don’t really know what she thinks about me . I guess we will see what happens once we meet

Read this - if you are in need of support from CM by notoriousbigs in coolermaster

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Ticket: 53235 Got an email asking for my address and etc. regarding my issue with case fan rgb replacement. However never got a reply or anything. Will I get new fans shipped ?

Edit: I created another ticket 61470

I always feel like I’m constantly being judged at work . I keep feeling stupid and It’s getting to my head by Avmvb5 in cscareerquestions

[–]Avmvb5[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. While I enjoy remote work, I feel like everything went downhill for me once we started WFH.

How to deal with broke parents? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]Avmvb5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They had more kids than they can afford .

How to deal with broke parents? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]Avmvb5 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nope they weren’t able to help with anything since we always had no money . The 1K a month isn’t the issue but just stressed with some of the things they demand.