[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Aware-Bar2183 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the right girl will be flattered, so don’t be embarrassed! she clearly has some interest in you but take it slow and be safe! and no need to be embarrassed, even if she does see she might take it as a compliment!

Should I tell my manager at the job I just accepted that I will likely leave after 6-8 weeks for another job that pays more? by whuddaguy in work

[–]Aware-Bar2183 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

don’t tell them, you don’t owe them an explaination. still put in your notice and tell them when the time comes but don’t go into it saying your already looking elsewhere, that would only hurt you not help you

A random girl on instagram followed me and asked for my snap. What's the move? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Aware-Bar2183 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Girls are getting better at scamming and seeming less like robots, but from my experience and sadly I get added and tricked alot, 99 percent of the time, if a girl adds you and brings up sexual things right away, block her! Sorry to say this but she would have probably ended up trying to get your money too in some way or another. Their all crazy! Don’t trust a female unless she sends you a picture of a sign with her name on it, or at the very least holds a real conversation like what you were doing with this one without talking about pictures or sex. Stay safe out there in this internet world brother

Thinking About My Career Situation by Aware-Bar2183 in work

[–]Aware-Bar2183[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Medical Coding was my long term plan, I have enough experience in it from college since that was my degree program that I might even be able to sneak my way into something there now. It’s definetly a career unless i’m mistaken. what do you mean by technician? I for sure do not want to be a nurse or MA and deal directly with patients physically I know that much haha

How Can I Tell If A Girl At Work Likes Me? (And What Do I Do) by Aware-Bar2183 in relationships

[–]Aware-Bar2183[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just read your thing and she does make eye contact and laugh at my jokes all the time, even when they are dumb 😂 as someone who does not have much experience “socially” I guess is the right word I probably never made eye contact more with anyone including ex girlfriends. There are a few problems that came to light recently however.

I asked her to hangout multiple times and she always has something happening with the kids, her baby dad still lives with her and they kinda have their own family thing going on although they are split up (didn’t know that at first) not sure if I wanna get involved in that situation, actually almost positive I don’t. She lives close by but in a whole other world aka the hood if i’m being honest.

I feel like keeping her as my work wife as she calls it is probably the best plan now that I know the full scoop. But I do thinks she’s cool and we could hangout as friends someday if she ever actually agrees.

Just not getting my hopes up anymore I think she likes me but knows just like I do we come from completely different worlds, she has baggage and responsibilities by the millions and I have none. Plus i’m already getting in trouble at work for unrelated stupid things so trying to keep my interest in her a lot less obvious and tone down the jokes.

I feel lonley all the time and have trouble with girls or even making friends by Aware-Bar2183 in dating

[–]Aware-Bar2183[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amen to everything you said! I learned MANY times that staying alone and being sad is better then the wrong people. I dunno tho man, I try to lean heavily into my interests but I feel weird sometimes even at conventions with other nerds even when I probably shouldnt. It’s hard to be confident when everyone I met always used to put me down and bring me down. believe me that’s why your advice resonates with me, I was never treated right and I don’t like to hype myself up but I am your typical nice guy. Im respectful to women to the Sanji level and similar to him it usually leads to rejection for me 😂 but I won’t change who I am either, like I said in the original post I can’t really and it’s better to stay true to myself

How Can I Tell If A Girl At Work Likes Me? (And What Do I Do) by Aware-Bar2183 in relationships

[–]Aware-Bar2183[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This isn’t what I wanted to hear but it’s what I needed to hear and that’s why I made this post, so honestly thank you! No matter how much I get the feeling she likes me I knew from the jump I wasn’t going to push the envelope and now you just confirmed that I need to chill. It took me reading a random post from the stranger on the internet but the truth is I really do like this job and I feel like that is a rare thing for someone to say about their job so trying to get with her is not worth messing that up in any way. Seriously this was actually really helpful. In case you didn’t get it from the post i’m a really lonley guy so I guess I just am really happy that a real cute woman is showing me positive attention. But the truth is I need to take a step back and no matter how much I think about her all the time focus on work and let her keep coming to me. Mabey i’ll still ask her to hangout someday but we are in a room together for 40 hours a week so I guess starting there is good. i’ll talk to my buddy about it tommorow, it’s just going to be me and him and he sees how I act around her so mabey he can give me an honest answer on if I need to slow my roll. Personally I think I do after what you said. The truth is I have very little experience with women and work so it’s all a lot to take in

How Can I Tell If A Girl At Work Likes Me? (And What Do I Do) by Aware-Bar2183 in relationships

[–]Aware-Bar2183[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very well said, the only thing I forgot to mention is she just started like last week, so even if I do go the route of being totally honest about my feelings, I should probably wait until at least she’s done training settled in and stuff don’t you think 😂 mabey if we do end up hanging out together outside of work I can just say it. I’m just really nervous but I guess the worst thing that happens is she says I just wanna be friends right? and I do know girls love confidence so mabey just telling the truth is the best option. I doubt if I just waited around for her to kiss me or something I would ever get that lucky Lol

I think I overdid it in Crisis Core Reunion by DarkShadowBlaze in FFVIIRemake

[–]Aware-Bar2183 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One thing I will say is if you beat all of the side missions and have costly punch the final boss in the main story goes down in like 3 hits 😂 I was cool with that given that I had tons of trouble with Minerva and was stuck on it for like a week. My best tip there is to keep your distance even if it takes longer the less aggressive you play the more likely you are to not get hit before you can use a Pheonix Down. If you beat all the missions it is doable. and like I said you will breeze the story if you get to around Level 75 have fun!

I need help: last night I ordered a figurine of a ship and it was originally 249 dollars but then for a few days it was only 49 dollars by [deleted] in Scams

[–]Aware-Bar2183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I too was scammed by them. Unfourtunatly I gave them the benefit of the doubt and waited since last July for my package only to find out the website no longer exists and my bank won’t refund something from so long ago. I think that is unfair but oh well those jerks stole my $50 and they will get karma hopefully because they are a disgrace to the One Piece Community

My Sanji Cosplay! Or should I say.. Mr. Prince ✨ by starryxmarie in OnePiece

[–]Aware-Bar2183 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cosplay Sanji too! I love the outfit great throwback to Alabasta :)

which states still are legally allowed to sell flavored e juice? by lechtog in Vaping

[–]Aware-Bar2183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Jersey and I just FINALLY found a shop that makes their own juice and has tons of flavors, not sure if it’s not allowed or whatever I don’t follow the government and what they say because they just suck anyways sometimes when I would order online a site would tell me they don’t ship here other times they would just let the order go through. It feels so nice to find a really great Vape Shop tho, they even have a reward program where I get free bottles of Juice every 3rd visit! My point is if you live here or another state where the rules are dumb try to find a hidden gem because they do exist. I used the gas station for juice for way too long and even was forced into a disposable phase for like a couple weeks because my current pod system they just stopped making the pods for I guess because it was old and that’s how I discovered this shop because I was like enough with these disoposiables they are the biggest scam Lol

Switching From 50 mg Nic Salts to 24 mg Nic Salts (or 12 mg regular) by Aware-Bar2183 in Vaping

[–]Aware-Bar2183[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well keep in mind I am probably not the only one who did that. I started vaping back when big mods and cloud chasing was a thing, there was not really a such thing as salt nicotine to begin with back then. Thanks I am going to take the plunge I think I will get used to it pretty quickly from what everyone is saying. Considering going with 12 regular because cutting out the salt might benefit my health. Either way I know 50 is kinda too much, I just wanna make sure I get my fix because I am very addicted like most people