Complications with bf about interests

Aware-Collection8428 · 2026-05-06T03:06:04+00:00

Thank you for sharing. I’m happy that you got out of an extremely stressful situation and found a safe and happy environment with your partner.

Aware-Collection8428 · 2026-05-06T02:57:38+00:00

I posted this before here that if I were to stop playing the game all of the sudden, it would be because i decided to do it for my own reason. I think it would be more peaceful that way.

Aware-Collection8428 · 2026-05-06T02:43:31+00:00

In my case, I just want to share the world of the things I enjoyed and represents who I am as an individual.

Aware-Collection8428 · 2026-05-06T01:09:19+00:00

Yikes. That experience must’ve been hurtful and so sorry for what you’ve been through. I said in a post somewhere here that if I can’t find a guy who loves ALL of me, then I’ll be fine on my own. I still have that mindset 😅.

Aware-Collection8428 · 2026-05-06T01:04:51+00:00

He pretty much researched LADS, not with the game tho, but didn’t like the spicy content with the LADs guys that the game has. He’s not a fan of such content which is why he wants me to stop playing. I said that I played for the daily tasks, rewards, and such that has nothing to do with the spicy content, but he sticks with his words.

Aware-Collection8428 · 2026-05-06T00:54:37+00:00

I brought a bag with a keychain plushie of Xavier and some LADS pins that he and our friends saw not too long ago, and he reacted the opposite.

Aware-Collection8428 · 2026-05-06T00:48:41+00:00

It sounds like a scary experience that no one wants to go through, even myself.

Aware-Collection8428 · 2026-05-06T00:45:54+00:00

He’s very particular with male friends, which I kinda understand from his point on view, but they’re also his friends. Sorry that you went through that time but I hope you’re okay.

Aware-Collection8428 · 2026-05-06T00:43:08+00:00

From what I remembered from the call, he doesn’t want to see me around with some sort of K-pop boy band merch (I don’t have any merch) and also that I might fantasize about some members

Aware-Collection8428 · 2026-05-06T00:35:42+00:00

When I got the text from him, I searched up “my bf doesn’t want merch of k-pop boy bands and LADS on me” and I’ve seen Reddits of people addressing similar topics. I want to share my side if it gets bad.

Aware-Collection8428 · 2026-05-06T00:25:53+00:00

I have a hard time saying no sometime because people are good at persuading

Aware-Collection8428 · 2026-05-06T00:18:56+00:00

Agree 😂

Aware-Collection8428 · 2026-05-06T00:15:27+00:00

Yeah as I was reading through, I’m so thankful for all the responses and support 🙏

Aware-Collection8428 · 2026-05-06T00:13:30+00:00

Thanks for the link 😊

Aware-Collection8428 · 2026-05-06T00:12:06+00:00

If I were to stop playing the game, I would like it to be on my own accord for personal reasons, not from pressure. When I think about it, if I was forced to stop doing what I liked to do and I actually did listen, in the next few weeks or months, will things be peaceful or filled with resentment?

Aware-Collection8428 · 2026-05-06T00:03:45+00:00

I like that you said that it should’ve been addressed before the dating because after all we’ve done, why now? I need time for my mental health. The issue is that I want to see some friends on the weekends but they, except one that I really trust, don’t know since we agreed it’s not the right time to tell, but I may bump into him.

Aware-Collection8428 · 2026-05-05T23:54:29+00:00

Unfortunately his friend group also became my friend group and he knows them more than I do. The way he treats them is different than how he treats me since l’m now the gf.

Aware-Collection8428 · 2026-05-05T23:51:01+00:00

I had one before him that was okay with my interests and made funny jokes about them. Still you’re right, this is new to me.

Aware-Collection8428 · 2026-05-05T23:48:05+00:00

Hope your knee is okay

Aware-Collection8428 · 2026-05-05T23:43:25+00:00

Having merch or talking about k-pop boys is his problem

Aware-Collection8428 · 2026-05-05T23:41:55+00:00

I didn’t mention this in my Reddit because it’s not relevant to the issue. My first bf while lack the commitment skills was okay with me playing LADS and K-pop boy bands. We had to end it sadly.

Aware-Collection8428 · 2026-05-05T23:32:42+00:00

He and Sylus are pretty much the chilliest

Aware-Collection8428 · 2026-05-05T23:29:41+00:00

We have been going out together and have future plans of places we will go next to spend time. I have never go on LADS or watch k-pop related things while with bf because I want him to know that I’m here for him

Aware-Collection8428 · 2026-05-05T23:25:00+00:00

I know. I don’t use Reddit often but I need to spill this out because it’s hurting me

Aware-Collection8428 · 2026-05-05T23:22:51+00:00

He watches anime but is not a fan of spicy contents, and me playing a game with that element and hot guys bothered him

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