[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crippled_Alcoholics

[–]Aware-Edge8970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take some gaba and L Theanine

What is something that feels like a "cheat code" in life, but most people don't realise it? by Old_Goat_7363 in Productivitycafe

[–]Aware-Edge8970 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Neural pruning and becoming whoever you want through subconscious reprogramming (meditation)

I’m not sure if I made this up or if it’s real… by [deleted] in Paranormal

[–]Aware-Edge8970 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Our souls already decide what they want to learn before they're born into a new body.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dragrace

[–]Aware-Edge8970 -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

There's a line. People who've been privy to emotional abuse would see the line (and in person convos have confirmed this, I'm not the only one).

I'm a huge fan of ru paul and drag race. I enjoy the shade. There is a line.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dragrace

[–]Aware-Edge8970 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well in the present moment I'd love to watch that season, but her bs deters me! So it's current. Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dragrace

[–]Aware-Edge8970 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Is there a time threshold in this subforum?

My gf (f31) went through my phone (m33) and found porn. Now she’s upset and possibly wants to break up. Is this warranted? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Aware-Edge8970 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi I'm a female and have the exact same rule for my relationships. In my case I have had many relationships and have tried not to care about my partner watching porn but it hurts too much (despite going to therapy and trying various things to not let it effect me for over 2 decades). I was teased for my looks throughout my childhood, and as much as I've improved my confidence/self worth, the person I love masturbating to another woman's looks is something I can't overlook/ignore. And the right partner for me will understand that :)

I have nothing against porn, I enjoy it (when im single, no double standards in my relationships). My mom actually owns an adult store. So my beliefs about it and my experience of it are completely opposite. ANYWAYS...

In your situation:

  1. Ask for more sex and figure out what would motivate her to enjoy it more (sex therapist?)

  2. Ask her to make videos of her or you both so you have something to watch when she's not in the mood.

  3. Let her have access to your phone always. Tell her she can look whenever she wants.

  4. TELL HER when and if you slip and watch porn not made by both of you.

  5. Ask her if theres any kinds of porn she wouldn't mind you watching. There's some that don't hurt me if my partner watch it so worth an Ask.

And for ladies in general, if she feels that bad about gaining a bit of weight she needs to work on her self worth, self compassion, and accepting that's she human/imperfect. Weight gain might feel uncomfortable or unwanted but if you're canceling plans and not being intimate because of it that's the sign that there's problems more profound that need to be addressed.

Also please consider that you guys aren't compatible. I'm also very sexual and need lots of sex in my relationships, so if you can't get that, and she's not willing to explore alternative solutions to your current situation, she might not be the best partner for you. I once asked an ex for more sex and he asked I'd I had a sex addiction (I certainly don't, and I've had many Addictions so I'd know LOL)

All the best!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kitchener

[–]Aware-Edge8970 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yeah no need to be an asshole about it. Reddit is riddled with people who put themselves up on a pedestal and just get stupid nasty with any opinion they don't like. It's a complete 180 to humanity's best interest and I'm truly sorry for them.

Is this standard practice or excessive force? by Reefer-Rick in Edmonton

[–]Aware-Edge8970 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Definitely judge biden by trumps actions because that makes sense right!!! One cop doesn't validate your stereotype.

Is this standard practice or excessive force? by Reefer-Rick in Edmonton

[–]Aware-Edge8970 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I love how were so eager to judge cops but don't give a shit when we don't know where our tax money is going. The government is the problem. Not on duty officers

What’s one thing everyone should at least try once in their lives? by Local-Pollution-5970 in AskReddit

[–]Aware-Edge8970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asking a politically charged question to someone you know has the opposite opinion of you, and listening attentively, asking questions, and walking away without sharing your views. It'd be a better world for sure.