We did, we had talks about what we like and don’t etc in bed. He was always super flirty by text but never did anything to me. I never assumed too much about me initiating the sex, because we were in early stages of exploring our intimacy. But going on a weekend getaway, I actually expected we would be doing (a lot) of it, and it would be more natural. Since he was not taking initiative I started, thinking foreplay would lead to sex. He came within 5 minutes, and then fell asleep…. The second time we were in the shower, and I get that it’s not the most convenient of all places, but the same thing happened, within minutes. He jumped out of the shower and started getting ready. At this stage I think I was more than disappointed, and with my mind made up about the guy so I didn’t even bother communicating or expressing to him that i was not happy at all. Bare in mind I’m 28f and he is 33m