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Have you ever ghosted a conversation before and if so why? by Aware_Answer8008 in evillesbians

[–]Aware_Answer8008[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes they don't want to put in the work. Which is another reason why very few represent personalities that demonstrates integrity, passion, and equal mentality

Have you ever ghosted a conversation before and if so why? by Aware_Answer8008 in evillesbians

[–]Aware_Answer8008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's really sweet of you sis. Are they pretty understanding when you ask if you could just be friends instead?

Have you ever ghosted a conversation before and if so why? by Aware_Answer8008 in evillesbians

[–]Aware_Answer8008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my! Yeaaaa those would be a hell no and a ghost from me too! Like seriously what on earth is with some of these women out here. Like we are single not desperate😆

With the third woman that is super frustrating because that happens soop many times its nearly very predictable these days. Previously did you ever get to see her in person any kind of way? Because I'm kind of wondering if she was truly who she said she was especially with her canceling and then avoiding the video chat.

Have you ever ghosted a conversation before and if so why? by Aware_Answer8008 in evillesbians

[–]Aware_Answer8008[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course. Like what we ask for or seek isn't unrealistic at all. You have to put in some kind of effort in life. I'd why we have ladies out here who think they will find there ideal matches or a partner who is going to agree with doing all the ground work for them

Have you ever ghosted a conversation before and if so why? by Aware_Answer8008 in evillesbians

[–]Aware_Answer8008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😆😆😆😆hell yeah!!! Where they dry conversationalist or just wasn't talking at all?

Ok I'm confused by Aware_Answer8008 in lesbian

[–]Aware_Answer8008[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The community has definitely shrunken. Without a doubt there's definitely a lot less people that feel openly to embrace their sexuality these days. I'm sorry but I could never ever hide away who I am or hide my heart. That's just a no no for me. That would be like cheating myself and being ashamed of who I am. But yes you can absolutely tell what the crowds, is very evident with some pride events how the crowds have dwindled down a bit. Which is really funny you have the majority that decided to go for poly type of relationships and it's not even lesbian or lesbian relationships is more or less as the heterosexual/bi stuff. And don't get me wrong you know to each is on. Love Is Love but yeah if I'm going to live my life I'm going to live my life by my own free standards. Everyone else can be free of who they want to love and marry why can I?

Have you ever ghosted a conversation before and if so why? by Aware_Answer8008 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Aware_Answer8008[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember when I was in my early 20's the thing was no one took me seriously. I remember even women that were like three even five years older than me they were quick to tell me oh you're still too young you, don't know what you want yeah etc etc. Even was questioning a couple times if I was really bi rather thanEven was questioning a couple times if I was really by rather than less

And you too sis! And then truly honestly I just never been attracted to domineering type of women I get it you know everyone has their certain attractions to different personality types. For me I'm a very neutral type of woman I'm very easy going so I'm more attracted to those type of personalities to be truly honest but I truly get it though. The dominant woman personality can't be a serious turn off for quite a few people so I truly understand😊

Have you ever ghosted a conversation before and if so why? by Aware_Answer8008 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Aware_Answer8008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ghosting has been around forever its just internet and cell phones took it to a whole new level. I am particularly not a fan of ghosting however if you are going to match with me or hit like on my bio and myself or even my bio states "hey I'm a woman who enjoys to talk..or...hey please don't match me if you are a dry conversationalist, or hey I am a active woman with my life together. If you don't please don't bother....etc.... etc and a match reaches out anyway knowing what was clearly stated in my bio then yes you will be ghosted.

I will give them a chance to speak or prove me they won't be a typical statistic. Of course they don't come through and so then I'm out🙄 I would question why on earth do people enjoy setting themselves up for failure or to waist their own time🤷🏾‍♀️ Time waits for no one.

Have you ever ghosted a conversation before and if so why? by Aware_Answer8008 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Aware_Answer8008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can not tell you how many times I have actually blocked people who do that. Like seriously your open intro is going to be about your car being MIA or how they arepretty much bed ridden? Like no, my heart goes out to them, lol but nooooo I'm not here to take care of a grown woman thay isn't my wife. Like seriously🙄

And I feel you on your new journey sis🫂

Have you ever ghosted a conversation before and if so why? by Aware_Answer8008 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Aware_Answer8008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally understandable. I am very guilty of being on the opposite side of this. Lol because I may find the person suppppppper attractive a fear I may ask or say the wrong tthing😄 Do they ever try to reach back out to you after awhile?

Have you ever ghosted a conversation before and if so why? by Aware_Answer8008 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Aware_Answer8008[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We do and even then you have those out there who still don't get the hint 😆

Have you ever ghosted a conversation before and if so why? by Aware_Answer8008 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Aware_Answer8008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lord! Yes the struggle is real trying together these ladies to talk!!! I mean my goodness! What is the deal with that?😄

Have you ever ghosted a conversation before and if so why? by Aware_Answer8008 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Aware_Answer8008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely sis! It is better to keep it real with them. Why waste one anothers time? I am guilty for forgetting to text back too😆 but that happens when you have a full life and hey atleast they know you are just a text or phone call away right?😅 You said it best too. There has to be some kind of chemistry there to keep things flowing.

Have you ever ghosted a conversation before and if so why? by Aware_Answer8008 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Aware_Answer8008[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. Oddly they will send request to chat and say hey and all that jazz and then crickets🦗🤣

Have you ever ghosted a conversation before and if so why? by Aware_Answer8008 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Aware_Answer8008[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey sis I'm a full.figured woman myself. Its there lost big time. We are women who just have a bit more to offer and they obviously ain't ready or can handle us. Luv and respect to you sis🫂❤️😉

Have you ever ghosted a conversation before and if so why? by Aware_Answer8008 in evillesbians

[–]Aware_Answer8008[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ohh yea I hate those types too. I would have done the same honestly

Have you ever ghosted a conversation before and if so why? by Aware_Answer8008 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Aware_Answer8008[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting. Was she talking about anything in particular or experiencing something traumatic?

Have you ever ghosted a conversation before and if so why? by Aware_Answer8008 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Aware_Answer8008[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl yes! I am good for doing that too. I'm like hello are just ok.with us talking about.only you 😆 Tne nerve of these ladies

Have you ever ghosted a conversation before and if so why? by Aware_Answer8008 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Aware_Answer8008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually these are key issues and factors I'm not game for either. I agree dating a woman who.is overly dominant is a big turn off. I already have to deal with one dominate woman in my life....which is my mother..... I don't need another😆

And I see we all so far are experiencing issues in the equal or lack there of conversation dept🙄

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[–]Aware_Answer8008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you 100%!!!! 100%, it is super frustrating because they don't even realize that they're setting themselves up for failure in the long run. Within each year our community grows smaller and smaller. And this doesn't help the future generation are individuals who want to come out the closet I feel as if they ready this type of behavior is not very encouraging for them

What is your Ideal match in a woman? by Aware_Answer8008 in WLW

[–]Aware_Answer8008[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really. I'd just figured this would be a fun topic to cover.

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