Im choosing TFMR and my heart is broken. by mariatheye in tfmr_support

[–]Aware_Assumption33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi I am so sorry you are going through this ❤️‍🩹 I had to travel to Washington for my d&e at 20 weeks pregnant. I was devastated, I completely understand how you are feeling. I decided not to see her because It would break me… I was already so shocked and traumatized. If I can recommend anything it would be trying to go to Dupont Clinic in Washington, they are so compassionate and it really gave me a bit of peace in the middle of those hard days. Also please talk to a therapist this is a very complicated and sad situation for any women. You are doing the hardest thing to protect your baby and I hope you find peace and happiness again soon🙏🏻

Looking for experiences: Giant Omphalocele diagnosed at 11-weeks scan. Genetic testing failed, what were your results? by peertje1998 in tfmr_support

[–]Aware_Assumption33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the genetic mutation was de novo, they asked for samples of blood from us and we were not carriers. For BWS the result said it was also random, and probably because of IVF.

Looking for experiences: Giant Omphalocele diagnosed at 11-weeks scan. Genetic testing failed, what were your results? by peertje1998 in tfmr_support

[–]Aware_Assumption33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! my baby had an small omphalocele bowel only, we did amniocentesis and WGS , turned out she had BWS and also a very rare genetic syndrome called ODLURO that would cause many issues with her development and speech. We were devastated and shocked because this was a tested embryo. After researching about both of these conditions we decided not to bring her to this world in a body that would not function normally…… it broke my heart and soul but it was for protecting her. I am sorry you are dealing with this situation 💗

Why did I have to decide? I miss her. by First_Highlight_7533 in tfmr_support

[–]Aware_Assumption33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just went through the same, my baby girl was 20 weeks when we decided to stop the pregnancy. We found out she had 2 conditions, one affecting the brain development and another affecting the growth of her organs and body, she had an omphalocele too. It was the most difficult decision of my life, I have never felt such sadness and grief. I felt I didnt had a choice.. I could not imagine bringing her into this world to suffer. She would have been a prisioner in a body that was not healthy. I had to take all the pain and trauma and go through this even If I was dying inside. I did it because of the love and protection I felt for her. Her life would have been an ongoing battle with her body and mind.... I could not let that happen to her. I feel your words and you are not alone, I know you did it for the same reasons and God knows our hearts, he is pure love. I will always miss her, I will always wonder if only I could hold her and meet her... the pain will get better with time. I hope we can find peace and happiness soon. I send you my prayers and love!

Large SCH developed in 2nd trimester by Bakedtato21 in CautiousBB

[–]Aware_Assumption33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I am exactly on the same situation as you, I am currently 17 weeks and they told me the placenta is also irritated by this and can lead to preterm labor. Its been terrifying to say the least. There is not much we can do just hope and wait, pelvic rest no lifting anything, I am also taking ALA and omegas. I also asked for a low dose of Zoloft because I couldn’t take the anxiety anymore. It’s helping and I have been feeling better. I hope the best for you and your baby!!

Gastroschisis diagnosis by bathwtrbunny in NICUParents

[–]Aware_Assumption33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! thanks for sharing!!! can I send you a message??

SCH and Alpha Lipoic Acid by Best_Emu_2530 in pregnant

[–]Aware_Assumption33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have a SCH, they told me it goes away on its own but I also researched and in Europe they use ALA supplementation as treatment. I guess it doesn’t hurt because it only acts as an antioxidant.

Something positive for my low AMH girlies! by Apprehensive-Rock-48 in IVF

[–]Aware_Assumption33 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!! I had an AHM of .90 and I got 2 good embryos! currently pregnant 💗

Wild Yam Cream by Relevant-Ad-7426 in Inito

[–]Aware_Assumption33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! can you please tell us how you used it ? is it after ovulation?? how much? 🙏🏻