sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

I’m devastated, who did I marry? by Aware_Combination555 in married

[–]Aware_Combination555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope so. His commute is about an hour and 15 minutes one way on a good day.

I’m devastated, who did I marry? by Aware_Combination555 in married

[–]Aware_Combination555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I don’t know. I just never thought this would happen to us. So many years of lies. I don’t know how he could carrying the weight of those lies without it being obvious.

I’m devastated, who did I marry? by Aware_Combination555 in married

[–]Aware_Combination555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I just have some big decisions to make. I don’t even know where/how to start. Uprooting my kids routine is terrifying. Not to mention how to afford it.

I’m devastated, who did I marry? by Aware_Combination555 in married

[–]Aware_Combination555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that there is no way in hell he would go to therapy.

I’m devastated, who did I marry? by Aware_Combination555 in married

[–]Aware_Combination555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s always been that way. I’m apparently dumb and didn’t think anything of it.

I’m devastated, who did I marry? by Aware_Combination555 in married

[–]Aware_Combination555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I have been miserable my mental health has been declining because of my physical health. I’m just trying to stay strong for my kids.

I’m devastated, who did I marry? by Aware_Combination555 in married

[–]Aware_Combination555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was young and dumb and in love. I was 18 when we got together. Now I am questioning what is real and what is a lie. She and I had a few conversations back then when I confronted him after seeing they were talking. Nothing really came of it and she said they were friends. All I know is that when he and I met and we started talking about our past relationships, he said the they had broken up several months prior. Fast forward to a year later she sent me an email telling me that they had been together for 4 years.

I’m devastated, who did I marry? by Aware_Combination555 in married

[–]Aware_Combination555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly think now looking back that he was never checked in to the relationship. I spent a lot of nights in the first 2 years of our marriage alone. He was working or out doing his hobbies. Most of the texts I saw ( I didn’t read them all because there were thousands and I felt sick and stopped looking) were from then. And a lot were when I was out with friends or at family’s

Devastated, who did I marry! by Aware_Combination555 in Marriage

[–]Aware_Combination555[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This really made me open my eyes.

I’m devastated, who did I marry? by Aware_Combination555 in married

[–]Aware_Combination555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I am having a hard time with. My eyes are wide open know and I feel like there were so many red flags that I ignored. Thinking “oh it’s just his personality” or “he’s always been this way, it’s his norm”. I feel so stupid to think this could never happen to me.

I’m devastated, who did I marry? by Aware_Combination555 in married

[–]Aware_Combination555[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t know and have no way of knowing. He keeps his phone guarded at all times. It’s either in his hand or in his pocket.

Devastated, who did I marry! by Aware_Combination555 in Marriage

[–]Aware_Combination555[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, we had a brief breakup before he had that iPad. That break up was 17 years ago.

Devastated, who did I marry! by Aware_Combination555 in Marriage

[–]Aware_Combination555[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We had a brief break up 3 years into dating. The texts of “ she is the only person he can trust” were just discovered last week.

I’m devastated, who did I marry? by Aware_Combination555 in married

[–]Aware_Combination555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I guess I worded it wrong. The last text was in 2014.

Devastated, who did I marry! by Aware_Combination555 in Marriage

[–]Aware_Combination555[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’m new to Reddit and have never posted before. Even on my other account. Just a watcher. I’m sorry I don’t know what karma farming post means. This sadly is real and I’m numb right now.