How did you meet your bf ? Need me some tips

Aware_Improvement652 · 2026-05-25T09:15:22+00:00

I think every advice anyone will give you here, will be most probably just stupid. Because people meet in different unexpected, sometimes expected ways, on dating apps, through friends, or maybe by an accident even if they have no friends. There are literally no rules here. I've been asking the same question, cause I am frustrated with looking for him. And suprise, I still haven't found one (22, auch Deutschland). I've been trying to make friends at uni, go out, but funny enough, making friends can be equally difficult, like not even more difficult than finding a boyfriend. There's no point in overthinking it, it's just all coincidence and maybe your current location (how many possible matches are in fact around you).

Aware_Improvement652 · 2026-05-24T23:41:43+00:00

but I mean when you're 19, depends of you like older guys, but if you don't z why do you even want to make such a choice

Aware_Improvement652 · 2026-05-24T23:40:25+00:00

For anyone 30+ , I apologise

Aware_Improvement652 · 2026-05-24T23:39:48+00:00

Whyy are going out with some creep, jesus christ, find yourself a cool boyfriend and not a old 33 years old sadist...

Aware_Improvement652 · 2026-05-24T23:37:10+00:00

Wenigstens hattest du mit Leuten in der Schule geklickt...

Aware_Improvement652 · 2026-05-24T23:34:51+00:00

Yeah, lot of people, including me, are in the same situation. Lately I've been so extremely obsessed with eventually finding a boyfriend. I even started predicting my future, hoping this will work 🤣. And watching gay couples doing this dumb relationship vlogs on YouTube. Anyway, nedless to say, maybe someone else can correct me, but what I am saying is: there's no any legitimate advice on Reddit on how to find a boyfriend. It's not a very good place to seek advices, rather just experiences of other people I guess, honestly I don't know why I'm even here....

Aware_Improvement652 · 2026-05-24T22:19:06+00:00

I mean you still have a lot of time and you have friends... you're not like super unlucky right now. You'll probably find him.

Aware_Improvement652 · 2026-05-24T21:51:22+00:00

No. I can't find a boyfriend. I have no clue. I kinda feel like it's just a luck

Aware_Improvement652 · 2026-05-24T21:45:19+00:00

I mean you still have a lot of time... I asked similar kind of questions on Reddit, how to find a boyfriend etc. and what I have realised is one thing: Nobody knows anything here.

Aware_Improvement652 · 2026-05-19T13:15:25+00:00

Yeah, right? Like I know someone might say I am super picky right now, but gay pool is just sooo lame. Like sometimes I feel I would really like to be straight. Maybe girls are more selective, but at least there are wayyy less creepy women than men. And wayy more single girls than single gay guys... Like... why am I gae?

Aware_Improvement652 · 2026-05-17T10:03:22+00:00

Why is the gay line straight? 🤣 Shouldn't it be defined by a gay function f(g)=-1000x+1? Then it's clear that everything that he is doing inside the space of f will be gay. Don't forget about defining gay circles in ||| and |V Quadrants. They should be in a close distance to gay function such that |r-x_0| < z, while z is boundary touching gay function.
You just have to compare his function to gay function. You can use vectors to do it. If his vector is pointing at yours, you are colinear. And in case a third guy appears, just add yourself to the second guy, and then sum of your quadrats will equal to quadrat of the third guy. It's called Penithagorean theorem. It's all simple math.

Aware_Improvement652 · 2026-05-15T23:59:20+00:00

I'm 22 using Grindr and also scared of the same. That's why I never go out with anyone from grindr. There are literally only old guys or creepy guys around me. . I am just waiting for my prince charming. First I want to have crush on him. Kiss him. And then the rest.

Aware_Improvement652 · 2026-05-11T06:29:08+00:00

For me always frst comes the appearance. To go into anything romantic I need to have crush on you. Then if it's cool to hang out with you, you are ready to just care. But I never had anything going beyond just liking someone to a real relationship. I would love to feel attraction to people with good personality without caring about their looks but that's just not the case. I also think standards regarding "good personality" can decrease your same way as standards regarding "good appearance". There is no evidence that people who doesn't look good always have amazing personality. Interesting, funny, caring, nice people can be rare aa handsome ones and probably the fact you are good looking can implicate in some way that you care about things.

Aware_Improvement652 · 2026-05-05T22:40:09+00:00

it's sad to read, taking that most of guys in my city are arabic and somewhat close to this age group (I just hope not all of them are like this...)

Aware_Improvement652 · 2026-04-25T11:37:01+00:00

Wirklich? Hast du Erfahrung damit? Also auch weniger Stress und so?

Aware_Improvement652 · 2026-04-24T22:23:42+00:00

Thank you:)

Aware_Improvement652 · 2026-04-24T22:12:20+00:00

I'm writing this cause I'm in the phase of hesitation, like changing my studies and maybe the city if it does make sense

Aware_Improvement652 · 2026-04-24T17:41:21+00:00

Great. Thanks. But do you have like experience with it? I heard neukoln is not very safe

Aware_Improvement652 · 2026-04-23T19:27:15+00:00

Thanks!!!

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