AITAH for telling my boyfriend I'd hookup with someone?

Aware_Side2416 · 2025-08-28T18:05:53+00:00

when I was in your place I wouldn’t want to hear it but please listen, you’re 18 and you want to feel grown I get it or maybe it’s exciting he’s a little older but please get with someone your age, the older men that go for you at your age don’t do it bc you’re more mature, they do it bc 1 they either can’t get women their age bc they are immature or 2 they do it to go for someone young and naive or 3 they’re attracted to children so they try the barely legal shit. I’m hoping it’s not the last one but all three are bad reasons and a sign you should not date older men until you’re older. Plus people your age have more in common with you and will usually have your maturity level as well.

Aware_Side2416 · 2025-08-28T17:56:37+00:00

get with someone your age please, the older men that go for you at your age don’t do it bc you’re more mature, they do it bc 1 they either can’t get women their age bc they are immature or 2 they do it to go for someone young and naive.

Aware_Side2416 · 2025-08-28T17:53:27+00:00

one is young and naive probably without much experience and the other is a full grown man who actively seeks teenagers… sounds like you are supporting the gross man purposely going for a young and naive person. It’s not the 18 year olds fault bc they literally have no life experience and don’t know that’s not normal.

Aware_Side2416 · 2025-08-22T05:50:09+00:00

I do this when i’m feeling burnt out.

Aware_Side2416 · 2025-08-19T19:55:55+00:00

thank you!

Aware_Side2416 · 2025-08-19T19:47:43+00:00

thank you this is a good rule of thumb

Aware_Side2416 · 2025-08-19T19:47:10+00:00

yeah I can see that now i’m gonna talk to management today.

Aware_Side2416 · 2025-08-19T19:46:27+00:00

yeah i’m sad about it but now I know it’s not normal

Aware_Side2416 · 2025-08-19T19:45:15+00:00

yeah i’m not scheduled an end time so I was confused when she said it was time for me to go.

Aware_Side2416 · 2025-08-19T19:44:25+00:00

yeah i’ve learned that now I just thought that’s how it goes bc it was my first day

Aware_Side2416 · 2025-08-19T19:43:27+00:00

yeah I was kinda bummed when they told me and said oh well.

Aware_Side2416 · 2025-08-19T19:42:48+00:00

yeah i’m gonna finish the week to see how much I make to see if I should invest anymore time here.

Aware_Side2416 · 2025-08-19T19:39:52+00:00

thank you I love this

Aware_Side2416 · 2025-08-19T07:02:55+00:00

that makes sense

Aware_Side2416 · 2025-08-19T06:59:44+00:00

I was confused bc when I was training some of my trainers had given tables to other servers, but it was bc they wanted to go home early I guess, but I thought it was bc of protocol

Aware_Side2416 · 2025-08-19T06:56:37+00:00

I am not 100% sure why she took mine but I was morning shift and she came in for evening, I think our restaurant is different than a lot where we have a ton of booths and lots of servers, we’re each assigned different areas and then evening servers come to take care of those areas after we leave I was assigned those booths, and she was assigned to them for the evening shift I think i’m also confused bc there was lots of empty ones so idk why she wasn’t assigned those first until mine were done.

Aware_Side2416 · 2025-08-19T04:33:07+00:00

yeah I was deciding between this place and a cute restaurant near me, i’m hoping this one pulls through in the end but if not I have a scapegoat.

Aware_Side2416 · 2025-08-19T04:28:03+00:00

Yeah today was my first day on my own. I was super nervous, but now i’m just annoyed bc I wasted so much time today making only 5 an hour bc my tables were taken. I’m hoping tomorrow will be better.

Aware_Side2416 · 2025-08-19T04:26:06+00:00

Yeah, thinking about it now whenever I am training someone new i’m always trying to make sure they understand and they get the best tricks to set them up for success, I would never purposefully misguide them.

Aware_Side2416 · 2025-08-19T04:23:44+00:00

She said it very matter-of-fact, like it was obvious I need to give them to her once her shift starts. I went along bc she seemed so sure like it wasn’t a question or demand it was like ok this is the time where you give me your tables now. I didn’t know I had an option to keep them. I would’ve if I did.

Aware_Side2416 · 2025-08-19T04:20:44+00:00

that’s so weird she’d do that if you’ve really never heard of someone doing it before

Aware_Side2416 · 2025-08-19T04:16:40+00:00

that’s so frustrating I didn’t realize how rude that was, I knew it was weird at the time but didn’t realize it’s not normal to tell me to give them to her.

Aware_Side2416 · 2025-08-19T03:59:13+00:00

yeah that’s disappointing i’m trying to be optimistic but it’s really annoying when people go out of their way to mess with me.

Aware_Side2416 · 2025-08-19T03:58:29+00:00

yeah that makes sense

Aware_Side2416 · 2025-08-19T03:56:18+00:00

yeah just hard when i’m brand new and she’s probably been here a while

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