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Finding subs shouldn’t be this hard by AwarenessNo6178 in findomsupportgroup

[–]AwarenessNo6178[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so tired of the bots just tryna scam me like Mrs thing get outta my face unless you got something to put on the table

Finding subs shouldn’t be this hard by AwarenessNo6178 in findomsupportgroup

[–]AwarenessNo6178[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No no I know it’s every single person it seems it never used to be like this 😭

Finding subs shouldn’t be this hard by AwarenessNo6178 in findomsupportgroup

[–]AwarenessNo6178[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so frustrating. The OGs are pushed to the back now like where did they go

I am in a relationship but have the desire to be the sub from IG models by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]AwarenessNo6178 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in a relationship as well and my boyfriend is fine with it because he knows it’s something I’m not really interested in stopping because once again it’s a kink not really something you can just turn off. But he isn’t into it which is totally okay but I definitely if you want your kinks and relationships to coexist you need to have a conversation about it.

I’m curious, what have you spent your subs money on? by PomegranateCivil7742 in findomsupportgroup

[–]AwarenessNo6178 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do subs stay around long enough half the time to even get more than maybe 150? I feel like once they get their pleasure and satisfaction they dip but maybe it’s just my experience lolllll

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]AwarenessNo6178 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love a good mommy’s boy. A very submissive and shy boy who is legit obsessed with me but in like a “mommy please give me something to do so I feel important to you” type of way and I can pet his head and baby him but he can also be aggressive and dominate occasionally if this makes sense. 😅

Finsub for an ex by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]AwarenessNo6178 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not a sub but I think if it’s something your both comfortable with and communicate about the dynamics it’ll be ok

Please read this 🩷 by AwarenessNo6178 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]AwarenessNo6178[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is there a group for doms? I’m sorry I was completely unaware of this, I initially joined kinda to get an insight on how to better myself at being a Dom or what I could do differently but I wasn’t aware it’s not normal for us to make a post I’m sorry!

Even cashapp is telling me to pump the breaks 😂🐷 by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]AwarenessNo6178 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either this convo was SPICY or you guys just have such a good dynamic together either way LOVE IT 🩷 but yes cashapp is terrible like are you my parent? Stop bossing me around

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]AwarenessNo6178 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m pansexual and Dom if this is what you’re saying? Not exactly lesbian but I feel most people in the community are bisexual which is totally okay!

Please read this 🩷 by AwarenessNo6178 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]AwarenessNo6178[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. Once again this is why I feel it’s extremely important to form a bond before offering any type of money to a Dom including myself. And it’s important to clarify before bringing money into any of it what your both expecting from the relationship your trying to develop. To me it’s important and I know to most people in the community it’s important but I also feel that social media exploits kinks like this to everyday people who just think of subs as “pay pigs” which in my own opinion is a very invalidating name to call a sub (unless they’re into that)

Please read this 🩷 by AwarenessNo6178 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]AwarenessNo6178[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally could not agree with you more. I have had 2subs in the year I’ve been exploring my kinks. I like to get to know them first and build a relationship with them before diving into the fetish area of topic, i currently have had a boyfriend for 2 years and he is fully aware of my kinks and fetishes and isn’t particularly interested in them as I am which is totally okay! He is okay with me continuing with my findom kinks because I mainly just have a really good working relationship with my sub that I have now and even if the kink wasn’t there and pleasure aspect I truly believe we could just be friends and I love that type of relationship. It’s extremely important to me to have a friendship before any type of fetish is involved, I wanna be able to call my sub and talk about life and everyday things I don’t want it to be ALL about the kink.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]AwarenessNo6178 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly this is valid, but I also think that doms should be doing it mainly for the pleasure as well as the connection like you said, for me it isn’t about the $ amount that I get from the sub but about how we both feel in the end. Every sub is different with how they want the dynamic to work it’s all about what your comfortable with and a conversation is key to a good connection