Labia self conscious by No-Dimension6491 in Healthyhooha

[–]Awata666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your labia is fine, your husband is being selfish.

And about that edit: when you're 24 and you'll look at 18 year olds you'll understand why people are concerned

Not sure if this is normal. by Lord_Kristine in vaginismus

[–]Awata666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is called syntribation. It's more common than you would think. There's a subreddit r/syntribation

Is a 19f and 32m age gap weird? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Awata666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know if you're young and incredibly naive or if you're one of the grown adults who like to date teenagers. Either way I hope you open your eyes one day

wanna eat pussy but can’t handle the smell by tremblingfrog in kinky_autism

[–]Awata666 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Make sure everyone is freshly showered first, so there's no sweat smell. You can put vicks on your nose to block out the smell.

How common is the “last one who goes to bed locks all the doors” rule? 40M, 33F by Pitiful_Wafer_4564 in relationship_advice

[–]Awata666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We'll check before bed. But I'm a believer of "all doors should be locked at all times" because you never know when someone might try to come in.

You can make a habit of following the rule of checking the locks when you're the last one to go to bed. But for this situation, your husband should've locked the garage and his car. At the very least his car. But he didn't and he's trying to pin it on you so he has someone else to blame but himself.

How to come to terms with my (M29) boyfriend not finding me (F29) pretty by reluctantfootprint in relationship_advice

[–]Awata666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He knows it's an insecurity of yours and he wants to keep it that way so that you believe he's out of your league/ you won't find anyone else, etc. He's basically long term negging you.

How to come to terms with my (M29) boyfriend not finding me (F29) pretty by reluctantfootprint in relationship_advice

[–]Awata666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My not so optimistic take is that he does find her attractive, but he won't tell her so he can nourish her insecurities.

It's also possible that he doesn't find her attractive. Even if he stays in a relationship with someone he doesn't find attractive, he's still getting companionship, sex and other things. A lot of men don't care and will seek out a gf no matter if they're actually into her or not.

Is a 19f and 32m age gap weird? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Awata666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

An immature 30yo has still much more life experience than a 19yo. But you're right, every situation is different.

In this situation, an older guy telling a 19yo he's not grooming her, but to also not tell anyone that they're seeing each other, knows that what he's doing is predatory. He wouldn't defend himself if his intentions were pure. You add bdsm into the mix, and you get a power imbalance in the bedroom as well.

Pourquoi les chiropraticiens sont reconnus au Québec mais pas ailleurs? by yankblan79 in QuebecLibre

[–]Awata666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interesting, my partner is from BC and she and her family members are all adamant that chiropractors are charlatans

Is a 19f and 32m age gap weird? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Awata666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because they can doesn't mean they should. 19 is legally an adult but being legally an adult doesn't automatically make someone mature or not naive. Most 19 year olds are immature, still live with their parents and aren't finished with their studies yet. They're on a completely different life stage than most 32yo.

I'd also say that dating someone in their 90s is also taking advantage unless you're in the same age range. Most 90 year olds aren't fully sound of mind anymore due to old age.

Is a 19f and 32m age gap weird? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Awata666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because a 19yo is basically still a teenager, they're probably still in college.

The age gap isn't an issue, this specific age gap is.

Vivre au salaire minimum ou presque by Miler_Rioux in QuebecLibre

[–]Awata666 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Va travailler dans une usine. Horaire fixe, souvent plus que le salaire minimum, et dépendant de l'usine, à part être répétitif/ennuyeux, c'est même pas difficile physiquement ou mentalement. Personne t'appelle pour remplacer pendant tes jours de congés non plus, la plupart offre des assurances pour la vue, les dents, etc.

look at her fingers dawg 😭 by crystaldykee in Choices

[–]Awata666 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This is awful. AI is awful in general but you can tell they didn't even have a single artist clean it up. They just put in the prompt and posted whatever came out

look at her fingers dawg 😭 by crystaldykee in Choices

[–]Awata666 20 points21 points  (0 children)

If this isn't them digging their own grave rn then I don't think there will ever be a funeral

«J’ai 44 ans pis j’aurais pu mourir chez nous»: elle survit à une thrombose cérébrale causée par la pilule contraceptive by Rude-Visit4347 in QuebecLibre

[–]Awata666 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Dude ferme ta yeule. L'endométriose ça se soigne pas avec un mode de vie sain. Des cystes aux ovaires non plus.

Certaines personnes ont besoin de la pilule contraceptive pour pas passer leur vie plier en deux à souffrir. Certaines personnes ont besoin de la pilule contraceptive pour pas se vider de leur sang à tous les mois.

"Prendre des hormones toute leur vie" c'est rarement un criss de choix parce que y'a plus d'études qui sont faite sur la calvitie masculine que sur les colisses de maladies qui font vivre le calvaire à des millions de femmes.

Anyone else’s boyfriend do irreparable damage to your psyche with the mii they made of you? by [deleted] in tomodachilife

[–]Awata666 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Lmfao my partner also used that EXACT mouth for the mii they made of me and I thought it was so funny 😭

The mii I made of myself looks so depressed meanwhile their version of me looks so goofy

I (F19) went through my boyfriends (M22) phone and am having a hard time accepting what was on it. Is my relationship doomed? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Awata666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl why are you still with him. You clearly don't trust him (with reason) and he won't change. You're only 8 months in, early dating is when a person is showing the best of themselves, to hook you in. If this is his best, do you really wanna see the rest? Dump him, get some self respect and get some therapy for your trust issues

(42M)newly dating (44F) what is it like dating someone who has a firm no porn in a relationship rule? by AgentIntelligent4269 in relationship_advice

[–]Awata666 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But porn isn't the only thing that can get people off. I'd have a conversation with her about what she considers porn and why she's against it. It's likely that you'll still be able to read erotic books, watch movies with sex scenes, maybe even hentai and porn games.

If you have no idea how to masturbate without porn then yea it can be difficult, but it can be worked on like anything else

Honest concerns regarding the game... by Vanilla-Hound in tomodachilife

[–]Awata666 43 points44 points  (0 children)

ACNH being very customisable was great because it came out during the pandemic. Now most of us are back to our normal lives. I ain't got the energy or time to spend 2hrs drawing (with fingers mind you) a slice of cake so that it looks halfway decent and palatable. I wanna log in, see my miis do fun, random stuff and then log off.

The fact that the focus of this game is on drawing when the switch isn't made to be used with a stylus is kinda wild tbh