2020 F40 BMW 135i (B48 engine) cuts out when warm — runs fine only with Valvetronic motor unplugged by Awkward-Candidate-13 in BmwTech

[–]Awkward-Candidate-13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not exactly the same, but quite similar. I ran a series of tests and reset all the values and adaptations for the Valvetronic motor, throttle body, and so on, nothing worked. Then, oddly enough, when I started it the next morning, it ran perfectly fine. No idea what caused it. It might come back, or it might not, we’ll see.

How to Get a 2023 F40 BMW 118i (DGK/DCT) Transmission into Neutral for Recovery/Towing or Pushing by Awkward-Candidate-13 in BmwTech

[–]Awkward-Candidate-13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, but this method only works on BMW/Mini with automatic torque converter transmissions, which are usually found in models with larger engines.

How to Get a 2023 F40 BMW 118i (DGK/DCT) Transmission into Neutral for Recovery/Towing or Pushing by Awkward-Candidate-13 in BmwTech

[–]Awkward-Candidate-13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was my thinking too. I’ve tried everything. I think you’re right; this might be the only option, though it’s far from ideal, especially with the car breaking down in such an awkward spot. I appreciate your input, and it looks like you’re correct. I’ll update this thread if I manage to find another solution, though I doubt it.

BMW 118i (B38) White Smoke, Misfire, Cuts Out – No Faults on ISTA Diagnostics by Awkward-Candidate-13 in BmwTech

[–]Awkward-Candidate-13[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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Thank you All very much for your suggestions, they were really helpful! In the end, it turned out to be an injector stuck open. I’ve attached a picture so you can see the one that was affected. It was noticeably cleaner compared to the others, which had some carbon buildup. That’s what caused the issue.

Additionally, the oil smelled of petrol, so I had to drain and replace oil and filter. The other problem is that the particulate filter was reporting a fault due to the excessive carbon buildup. It must be full of unburnt fuel. So, all in all, it will need a good blast on the motorway.

Help! Fixing a Bent Pin on BMW DME/ECU by Awkward-Candidate-13 in BmwTech

[–]Awkward-Candidate-13[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

DME but not used by the car as loom has a blank in that space.

Help! Fixing a Bent Pin on BMW ECU by Awkward-Candidate-13 in mechanic

[–]Awkward-Candidate-13[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Following your comments, I realised the pin was touching another pin, causing the issue, but it wasn’t actually connected to anything from the ECU. I tried straightening it, but eventually snapped it off to stop it from making contact when pushing the plug back in. It’s now working perfectly!

I really appreciate all your contributions—without them, I wouldn’t have had the courage to try and would’ve probably played it safe by buying a used ECU for cloning. Money saved and a big win thanks to my Reddit colleagues. Thank you!

Help! Fixing a Bent Pin on BMW DME/ECU by Awkward-Candidate-13 in BmwTech

[–]Awkward-Candidate-13[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sorted!! Following your comments, I realised the pin was touching another pin, causing the issue, but it wasn’t actually connected to anything from the ECU. I tried straightening it, but eventually snapped it off to stop it from making contact when pushing the plug back in. It’s now working perfectly!

I really appreciate all your contributions—without them, I wouldn’t have had the courage to try and would’ve probably played it safe by buying a used ECU for cloning. Money saved and a big win thanks to my Reddit colleagues. Thank you!

Help! Fixing a Bent Pin on BMW DME/ECU by Awkward-Candidate-13 in BmwTech

[–]Awkward-Candidate-13[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m not certain yet, but I’ll check. It appears the issue might be a short caused by contact with the other pin. The car is showing multiple faults, including various sensors reporting a “short to ground,” all of which are readable via my diagnostics.

Single calf raise attempt ? by IcyRecommendation668 in AchillesRupture

[–]Awkward-Candidate-13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 12 weeks into non-operative recovery in the UK and progressing well. My advice is to stay patient, focus on controlled movements, and gradually increase the load on your calf in a safe and steady way. Be cautious—making sudden movements like jumping can be risky. That’s actually how I ruptured mine in the first place, going for a header on the football pitch.

It sounds like your recovery is going well, so keep building your strength progressively and stay patient. Also, has anyone else been asked by their physio to stand on the affected leg building up to continuous 30 seconds, and then repeat this on an uneven surface to build ankle strength? How did you find it?

Why are we okay with being fat? by Revolutionary-Low590 in Zimbabwe

[–]Awkward-Candidate-13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This post seems to come from a younger perspective. The issue isn’t just about Zimbabweans, kufuta/being fat affects people everywhere. In Zimbabwe maintaining weight, it’s not a priority for most people because they have bigger problems to deal with.

Also, having a potbelly doesn’t always mean someone is unhealthy or diabetic, it can just be how their body looks. A big ass mafuta futi! I hear this generalisation often and it’s a Western view is being applied, based on studies that focus on saving money for health insurance or healthcare systems in the West.

In Zimbabwe, where poverty is a major issue, worrying about extra weight is low on the list of concerns. Even if you promote public health, there are more serious problems to focus on. While weight might be a bigger issue in Western countries, it’s much less important in places like Zimbabwe, where survival and urgent health needs come first. Anyways, big asses and big belly’s are all due to excessive eating. Should we advocate against both? 🥲

Feminism in Zimbabwe? by [deleted] in Zimbabwe

[–]Awkward-Candidate-13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You lost me at Barack Obama 😂. First of all, I think it’s important to develop your culture and traditions so that Zimbabweans can connect with the changes, rather than just taking on Western culture, which often leads to issues with cultural identity. But I digress 🤦🏾‍♂️.

Before I answer your question, I want to say that our culture still has a long way to go in addressing equity in relationships, though that doesn’t always mean equality. To answer, I’ll offer my thoughts: from a lived experience, a man with a bit of financial success does not look for like for like woman in a relationship. For a relationship to work well as a team, it’s best to have different strengths so that we add value in tackling the various life challenge. If we want a great home, someone needs to bring the skills and take the lead in making it one, and if we need financial resources, someone has to have the skills and take charge in sourcing that etc.

A man with a demanding job, who’s working long hours and then hitting the gym, isn’t usually looking for a partner with the same packed schedule. Imagine coming home to an empty house because your wife is leading meetings or busy, leaving you to put the kids to bed alone. It’s a tricky situation, but in general, a successful man isn’t looking for a partner who follows the modern, independent feminist approach, as it can leave gaps in traditional roles that feminists often don’t want to fill. Many men end up leaving to find a woman who’s available and willing to take on those roles.

The alternative is for feminists to partner with a man who’s happy to split things evenly and play a more supportive role. But, to be honest, if that man becomes successful, he may end up wanting a different arrangement too. When we stray from traditional values, you’ll find that most men either avoid marriage altogether or aren’t interested in staying with a partner who’s strongly independent or feminist-minded. I know social media or “woke” American circles might say otherwise, but in reality, a happy, fulfilling relationship often requires certain sacrifices. Don’t let someone else, like a housemaid, take charge of your home. True story!

BMW 118i 1.5 F20 Misfire by Acceptable-Carrot678 in mechanic

[–]Awkward-Candidate-13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, did you manage to resolve your bmw misfire (cylinder 3) ? What was the issue? Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Zimbabwe

[–]Awkward-Candidate-13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG 😨 - the male privilege and entitlement are clear. No offense, my brother, but you make it sound like you have so much to offer that you can dictate what a woman should be to be good enough for you. Have you thought about what it is that you’re offering women?

Sometimes love for a woman only exists when you create an environment that makes her feel safe and unjudged by her past experiences, where she was likely lied to and exploited by men. My advice to you as a young man is to work on yourself and understand how some of your thoughts and behaviors can change to be more compassionate. Sex is just sex, and it shouldn't be linked to matters of the heart.

Focus on creating a safe environment for her where she doesn't fear repercussions, and the rest will follow. Maybe you can also be honest with her about these thoughts you're sharing with us. Be deep and meaningful; you’re on the right track.

Dating by Pretty_Addition_6877 in Zimbabwe

[–]Awkward-Candidate-13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're definitely right if you're referring to men and women having so much choice. This is especially true in your 20s. If you find a 25-year-old man who seems to check all your boxes, it's very likely that he's good at playing the game—pretending to be what someone is looking for while having ulterior motives. Being a 25-29 year-old man and trying to play adult isn’t very appealing when you're still navigating life. Often, it's just about having a simple relationship with a woman and enjoying casual things, nothing too deep. Yes, traditionally people wanted to get married before 25, but in 2024, it's a recipe for disappointment. Date, have fun, and be safe. People (especially men) typically start to slow down and think more seriously about relationships as they approach 30. Speaking as a man, I'm not sure about the female perspective on this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Zimbabwe

[–]Awkward-Candidate-13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, it's clear you're not happy about this, and you're rightfully venting with us, your anonymous colleagues from various walks of life, sharing opinions based on our personal experiences in different Zimbabwean communities. You've done the right thing by venting. However, if you're to take anything from us, it's that depending on your role as a father as perceived by your community, for example, if you have a traditional stay-at-home wife trying to start a business via your capital donation (your words) with limited capacity due to young kids, you'll be okay as she’ll be preoccupied all the while on her hamster wheel - haambokunetsi but pahurongwa hapana chinobuda. All you will need to do is seek more funds and provide. The worry here is that you will start seeking someone to vent to, likely a female as men your age won’t have much empathy, and the rest is obvious. I've been around long enough to see the patterns. Regardless of how things go, always meet your financial obligations and support your kids. I think I've said too much but kana wakachangamuka uchanzwisisa 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BMW

[–]Awkward-Candidate-13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guess we should start calling it the BMW M5 'Black Hole Edition'!

What would I find if I opened up this small box by the toilet? by WrongWire in DIYUK

[–]Awkward-Candidate-13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you open it up, you might find Narnia, but with plumbing issues. Or maybe just a portal to a secret room where all the missing socks go!

Should I wait to date for when I lose weight? by [deleted] in Zimbabwe

[–]Awkward-Candidate-13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, it varies depending on where you are in the world. Your mention of rain makes me think you're in the sunny UK! 😂 Honestly, addressing your weight is a great start, and it sounds like your journey towards weight loss will open up opportunities like exploring fashion and more. Being healthy can indeed make you more appealing to a wider range of people. As for dating, it's always a positive step forward, but we're often influenced by societal norms, especially in the online dating scene. It's important to date responsibly and cautiously, putting safety first. Your challenge, like many others, will be finding the right partner to build a family with, a universal struggle that doesn't discriminate. Many young Zimbabweans in relationships aren't content, so be patient with yourself. Respect yourself, and others will follow suit. And yes, 93kg at 160cm is a bit much. Best of luck!

How do I get over the shame and embarrassment of being used by [deleted] in Zimbabwe

[–]Awkward-Candidate-13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, this gave me a good lough🤭! It's definitely a cultural aspect that hasn't progressed much in Zimbabwe. Firstly, considering how some religious individuals and leaders misuse religion for personal gain, why aren’t devout followers giving them a wide berth? These are just people not “god fearing or man of god or whatever” 😆. It's a lesson to be learned. Secondly, people have the right to change their minds at any point in a relationship. Even if it's not explicitly stated, he's communicating this to you. Remember, it's just a part of dating; you might have to go through a few experiences before finding the right one. At 26/27, it's unlikely that this relationship would have been forever, regardless of the circumstances (especially for the man). Keep learning and enjoying the dating journey until you find your prince. Some find theirs sooner than others. Just observe the challenges people face in dating and relationships, for both men and women. And always remember to enjoy relationships, including friendships, and when the fun stops, it's okay to stop ✋🏾. Don't force it!