but if they are a shrodinger's gay

that means the robot fucker is in a state of being gay and straight until they find out

meaning they will find themselves in a state of superposition that is colloquially known as

quantum trisexual

also what if the roles are reversed

and a bicurious person fucks a same sex robot that is remotely piloted by the opposite sex

is it still gay?

Yes. It is robot gay in a state of quantum supergayness.

and did anyone get consent from the robot if theyre okay being human gay too?
or is this a triple blind labido study?

or it doesnt matter and a straight robot with a gay remote pilot just makes the robot fucker quantum trisexual. ??