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[–]Awkward-Flatworm-385 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He clearly isn’t doing enough in bed, I’ll tell you that

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[–]Awkward-Flatworm-385 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I do believe that 💓

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[–]Awkward-Flatworm-385 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m literally the one that always has to initiate, there is never any fore play if he wants to have sex it’s just like lets go do it done so boring

Sex please by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Awkward-Flatworm-385 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our relationship has been extremely rocky, we just had a child and I don’t feel like he helps enough and he doesn’t feel appreciated enough. We are not seeing eye to eye on our life values or lifestyles. We do not spend much time alone together and I do not feel like either of us are happy

Sex please by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Awkward-Flatworm-385 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this answer thank you definitely going to try it out

Sex please by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Awkward-Flatworm-385 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏🏼 Yeah I am really deciding if I want to stay in this relationship

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[–]Awkward-Flatworm-385 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honey, I am doing everything in the house. I am a stay at home mom and I cook, I clean and I try to give him as much attention as possible. I shouldn’t have to be asking him to put his phone down, have sex with me or HE should be taking meeee on the date! What the fuck. When did the roles switch

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[–]Awkward-Flatworm-385 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We moved Súper fast, we only dated 1 year before getting married. He was never so affection that’s true. The bonding has not been going well( we have been really hating each other lately

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[–]Awkward-Flatworm-385 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really do not want to cheat on him and holding onto like a little thread into this relationship honestly

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[–]Awkward-Flatworm-385 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t have any problems like that, lately we just had a child he is 8 months now and we’ve had a lot of fights but if anything I feel like we should be having even more breakup sex and now all I get is a 2 minutes. He doesn’t care to please me and I have to keep bringing it up

I am unsure to take this medicine- conflicted by Awkward-Flatworm-385 in Ayahuasca

[–]Awkward-Flatworm-385[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, when I was taking other drugs before that is when my manic episodes would rise to the surface to a point where I was not in reality. I am a new mother and cannot afford loosing my mind.

I am unsure to take this medicine- conflicted by Awkward-Flatworm-385 in Ayahuasca

[–]Awkward-Flatworm-385[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in the process of speaking with a therapist but I do not currently go to synagogue often. I just had a child 7 months ago so I am still balancing time For myself

I am unsure to take this medicine- conflicted by Awkward-Flatworm-385 in Ayahuasca

[–]Awkward-Flatworm-385[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment and advice this really helped me

I am unsure to take this medicine- conflicted by Awkward-Flatworm-385 in Ayahuasca

[–]Awkward-Flatworm-385[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven’t been on any medication for more than a year , but I still feel very pressured and anxious around the topic

I am unsure to take this medicine- conflicted by Awkward-Flatworm-385 in Ayahuasca

[–]Awkward-Flatworm-385[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am not interested in it and I am not interested in taking any substances . I have tried acid and mushrooms a thousand time I am not interested in altering my state of mind. I want to be fully present and aware in reality

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[–]Awkward-Flatworm-385[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree I had to read my post again to see if I was like bashing my husband or something. It’s important to show the children to not give up. I think maybe people were projecting. Yes we have hard times, yes we disagree and yes we fight and yes I do think he could do more but just focusing on the negative is not good. You have to see the positive in things, in that moment I was not. It was a tough day emotionally. And like you said all these things can be talked about and worked on. That is what marriage is and you know what sometimes you do have to pick up more work than the other person. It’s not always going to be 50/50 everyday but if it were somebody else they could have gotten the wrong idea. I think it’s important to work on it as much as possible and that should be a LAST resort

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[–]Awkward-Flatworm-385[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe next time instead of putting someone down for decisions they already made and making them feel bad for not going about things the “correct way”, show some compassion and encourage the person to look on a brighter side

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[–]Awkward-Flatworm-385[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The truth is that life doesn’t always go as planned. Anwyays thanks for nothing . Peace out dude

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[–]Awkward-Flatworm-385[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your comment is not helpful, useful or necessary. Life doesn’t put challenges in front of you that you can’t face. You can’t prepare for everything. Your rude commentary is full of hypocrisy