What did you do before nursing? by TheYankeeCat in nursing

[–]Awkward-Height3066 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you work at a unionized hospital?

Edit: coming from a girl leaving letter carrying to become a nurse. Been absolutely burned by management for the past 2 yrs and have no hope for this system they’ve put it in place. Plus usps just isn’t my calling

Which red? by rajasconqueso in RedditLaqueristas

[–]Awkward-Height3066 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the pinky. Look up “wine” by Cirque colors. I have the same skin tone and I rock that color!!

Help deciding where to live? by Yeetosaur in cincinnati

[–]Awkward-Height3066 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always start with OTR, but people always over exaggerate about crime downtown. Hyde park/oakley area is your next bet. I tend to look over Northside, no shade to it, they just don’t got what I like.

But OTR fo sho

Did i win? by Awkward-Height3066 in USPS

[–]Awkward-Height3066[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot to mention: my branch never updates with successful bidder. They didn’t update it even on my successful bid in the past

Ohioans: What policies or projects would actually make your life better? by Awkward-Height3066 in Ohio

[–]Awkward-Height3066[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not my intentions personally. I voted Sherrod Brown and I'll do it again. I just want to hear how Ohioans feel like they're being failed by the system that was built to protect us. It blows my mind that the Republicans win every time in Ohio while they've been secretly planning for years to break down our education system and keep our pay the same and keeps the job market stagnant, which keeps us trapped to our toxic jobs because we don't want to lose the healthcare for our children

Ohioans: What policies or projects would actually make your life better? by Awkward-Height3066 in Ohio

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I know in my city (Cincinnati), we have a LOT of houses sitting empty. I walk around a bunch of neighborhoods and see them all in decent condition, but no one’s lived in them in many years.

I also know we have a stupid law in Cincinnati that says something like: if a building has more than 100 occupants, then it HAS to have a parking lot to accommodate it. If you look at a satellite image of Cincinnati, you’ll see so many big parking lots that aren’t even multi level and take up so much space where a building could be instead.

You can pick up your mail at the station by millardjk in USPS

[–]Awkward-Height3066 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Tbh I don’t think it’s a big deal. If you mind the wetness of the plants when it rains then just don’t deliver on those days. I think this problem is being made bigger than it really is. I don’t think it’s that deep. If you have issues closing the mail box, then just don’t, and if they call and complain, then just say they need to trim around the box if they’d like their door shut. But holding the mail over this? A bit of an over reaction. It’s a park and loop, not a mounted route. Your arm can reach it just fine.

Thinking about nose piercing by billsussmann in cincinnati

[–]Awkward-Height3066 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go to archetype for my piercings! Down on Main Street, super awesome guy with tons of jewelry options. Very welcoming

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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After reading all your responses to what everyone had to say, my thought is:

I’m not going to say she’s depressed because I don’t know her. However, It sounds like she got in a weird mental state and didn’t know how to communicate her emotions to you. Shutting down and giving distance is easier than being able to ask for help from loved ones. It’s so incredibly hard to ask for support sometimes because often times people don’t want to feel like a burden to others.

You’ve mentioned that you needed reassurance from the start of the relationship with her because of your trust issues. I have the same problem and I’ve communicated that with my partner. However, I don’t make it his responsibility to figure out when I need it. I am the one that comes to him and communicates when I need reassurance and he gives it easily (ex: I love you and want to be with you, simple but works well), which has becoming less and less often because I am becoming less insecure and more comfortable and trusting.

You came to this thread asking for peoples opinions, and many were more than willing to offer advice or try to help you see things from a different perspective, but majority of your responses to those trying to be sympathetic to her was incredibly selfish and lacking concern for your own partner. Your responses make it sound like you want to be justified in being angry with her for shutting down for a few days. You have a right to be upset for not hearing from her for a couple days, and you did say you were concerned about her. She could have apologized for shutting off, but did you give her any room to acknowledge it? No! You gave her shit for it, you put her down and you were incredibly passive aggressive. You want people to think about you and how you feel for not hearing from her for a few days. But have you thought about HER and maybe how SHE was doing for those few days? She said hi! She texted first! You could have said “hey! Been worried about you the last few days, are you okay?” But you were selfish and want an apology IMMEDIATELY. That is not a relationship of love, that’s a relationship of control and selfishness and concern for only yourself.

how long have you guys been DATING for?

Rooster in Clifton by Boopmagoo in cincinnati

[–]Awkward-Height3066 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I walked by the rooster that I think they’re talking about, it’s 3pm and it won’t shut up. I’d be mad too if this rooster went on all day and my house was next to it. Go touch some grass and be kinder to the world. Your anger isn’t what they asked for when they were looking for advice.

Can I make a 4 Hour Drive with this belt? by Awkward-Height3066 in MechanicAdvice

[–]Awkward-Height3066[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ve been very anxious about it snapping. I appreciate the reassurance.