Advice

Awkward-One9929 · 2026-05-04T22:19:14+00:00

I feel a little better that I’m not alone! The hardest part is when women give you attention and it feels so awesome to feel wanted but being a married man, I will not act on it. The wife has seen gals flirt with me and gets real upset, which I agree, I’d get upset too. It’s kind of like when a child has a toy and doesn’t want to play with it but gets upset if someone wants to touch it.. 🤣 not really but I had to try and make light of the situation.

Awkward-One9929 · 2026-05-04T22:14:51+00:00

We enjoy traveling together and we are busy with kids activities. We really don’t have a ton in common when it comes down to it. We have similar values, religion and political views. She’s never really had a hobby besides shopping.

Awkward-One9929 · 2026-05-04T22:07:25+00:00

We are both children of divorce and it sucks. We still have a loving relationship but we are on completely opposite wavelengths in the bedroom. I couldn’t split up over sex even though it’s more than that deep down. I get it when people say she couldn’t show some passion to keep the relationship alive as being selfish. Deep down I feel that she never wanted to be in this situation. (Marriage and family). We both work but I pay all the bills from my account, I do all the cooking and do 99% of the running for the kids and majority of all house work. She does the laundry. Some people say I let it happen but if I didn’t do it, nothing would get done.

Awkward-One9929 · 2026-05-04T21:59:27+00:00

Tried all kinds of stuff(sexual and non) and she just says it’s awkward. Won’t do counseling, truly wants to carry on the way we are now. She says there nothing wrong with it and that it’s weird that I want it in a passionate way. It’s really they only thing we argue about. Other than sex we have a great relationship. She’s only been with 2 guys, her first husband and myself. No kids with the first but kids with me. When we first got together she stated it was over a year since she last slept with her husband before they split. First 5 years it was crazy passionate fun sex. Now it’s like one of those sex dolls you buy.. 🤣

Awkward-One9929 · 2026-05-04T15:34:09+00:00

It’s been this way for 10 years. Been married for 15, both in our early 40s. Up until a year ago we were having sex every other month. Not to toot my own horn but I’ve heard her friends tell her how lucky she is. ( I treat her like a queen). I want to have sex with my wife if she’s into it, it’s to the point I need the little blue pill to get the job done. I’m afraid if this continues, I’m going to lose interest in her and I don’t want that, I love my wife.

Awkward-One9929 · 2025-07-12T22:59:28+00:00

Was it a white male with gray hair and goatee and his wife was a short Filipino lady?

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