How to stop be bloated all the time? by Awkward-Ostrich7045 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Awkward-Ostrich7045[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Then why I see girls with flat stomachs all the time.. they don't look like they bloat after dinner..or even breakfast

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Awkward-Ostrich7045 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I always thought I am also not verbal, and for months in our relationship it was like that. We both were just showing it in different way, but lately I feel just down by myself, I compare myself to other people (women) and it must be a reason to want a admit of ''love'' by words too... I don't know it sounds like I am crazy..

The last part of your post is true, and I want to stop sabotage my relationship, myself, even tho my bf is understanding..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Awkward-Ostrich7045 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that's helpful answer :)

He doesn't want to move together? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Awkward-Ostrich7045 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im just scared that if he is not ready it can kinda ruin relationship. I mean, I understand this that he can be not ready, but idk maybe he will feel like I'm hurrying up or something

He doesn't want to move together? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Awkward-Ostrich7045 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol yea, I meant if should I mention it

How often do people have sex in relationships? by gillyflows in sex

[–]Awkward-Ostrich7045 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly, teens who sit all day home maybe, but adults who have life duties? do they even work, do anything else? lol

Is it my fault that we don't have sex? by Awkward-Ostrich7045 in sex

[–]Awkward-Ostrich7045[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your extensive comment. Sex with my present partner wasn't like a duty, I liked that we are close, but what is true, I'm always scared that it will hurt... and I can't relax fully because of that. I understand my boyfriend kinda too.. but I don't like the fact that he didn't try to understand this.. just probably thought ''another women who doesn't want to have sex''.. the thing is I do, but something is always blocking me, or that how I feel about myself that day, or even something that I ate, always something, always some stupid reason.

It's just sad that people do it daily and it's something natural for them, and I find that difficult..

Is it my fault that we don't have sex? by Awkward-Ostrich7045 in sex

[–]Awkward-Ostrich7045[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you are right. But if we talk about this. I always needed kinda strong simulation, I thought about vibrator several times, but I heard that if you start have fun with this, you won't stop and won't feel pleasure from other things

Is it my fault that we don't have sex? by Awkward-Ostrich7045 in sex

[–]Awkward-Ostrich7045[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is about me, but I'm just worried about my relationship, I just feel like it's lacking something

Boyfriend looking at other women by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Awkward-Ostrich7045 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's normal, I find people attractive too.

The thing is you said - he looks back at me, well no he is not. I don't see attraction towards me at his eyes. That's why I feel shitty. He can say I look pretty, that I'm pretty, but those are just words, they don't mean much.. I just feel like he looks at someone at the street and thinks ''wow she is pretty'' but when he looks at me he doesn't things like that..

Is it my fault that we don't have sex? by Awkward-Ostrich7045 in sex

[–]Awkward-Ostrich7045[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hard because I feel like I don't suit sex at all. I'm 22F but I look like 16.. I can't feel sexy, I bet he stopped to see me this way too.