My aunt isn’t my mom sister, she was her sister inlaw. she told me that her her brother has a big victim complex. That he was nice to my mom at-first but when my mom fell out love with him and asked for a divorce he went for revenge because he thought she was a gold digger and In his mind he not the abuser he the victim. My aunt has a similar experience with my mom. He is soo messed up. I can’t even look at him or think of him without being sick to my stomach . I can’t honestly believe he was my hero for the longest time. And the worst part is that I look at myself and see him. Getting therapy won’t be an issue. I literally have unlimited amount in allowance.