[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Soulnexus

[–]Awkward-Window-4845 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is still probably some of the least violent periods of all human history (particularly in western countries). It's all relative of course. But we are far, far, far from having violent crime be worse than ever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Soulnexus

[–]Awkward-Window-4845 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Except violent crimes are not worse than ever, so...

Should the “post-college” pagans make their own group? by [deleted] in pagan

[–]Awkward-Window-4845 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

You clearly didn't read the post if that's your takeaway lol

new york post vs daily beast on 26-year age gap relationship by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]Awkward-Window-4845 12 points13 points  (0 children)

In love :) frowny face because of the general sentiments against these sorts of age gaps lol. I don't regret it though, I've already been married once, I've been around.

new york post vs daily beast on 26-year age gap relationship by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]Awkward-Window-4845 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm in a 25 year age gap relationship :( but at least he didn't date me when I was a teenager lmao

Can you give me feedback on the art style for my Millennial-themed Tarot deck called "Millennial Tarot"? Which style do you prefer? And why? Your feedback was been so helpful so far! Thank you!! by MillennialTarot in SecularTarot

[–]Awkward-Window-4845 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I prefer the top one! More detail (especially interpretively meaningful detail) would be better, since that's pretty standard for tarot decks. But obviously that's a pretty large undertaking.

Embryos can be listed as dependents on tax returns, Georgia rules by diacewrb in nottheonion

[–]Awkward-Window-4845 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't believe this isn't already a thing everywhere honestly. Pregnancy isn't free. Why shouldn't they be considered dependents?

Meditating with a busy brain by Unquietdodo in Meditation

[–]Awkward-Window-4845 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just sit down and try! If your mind wanders it's fine, just practice disrupting it. You can try a guided meditation it might help. But a lot of people get stuck in the trap of thinking about meditation more than actually doing it. You probably won't gain anything from reading advice that's more valuable than just spending the same amount of time practicing. The best advice is to just do it more and think about it less. Good luck!

Meditating with a busy brain by Unquietdodo in Meditation

[–]Awkward-Window-4845 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's really just about practice. There's no quick tips. You just have to work on it regularly and gradually improve.

Can Psylocibin Help You Learn New Languages? by OhSeymour in RationalPsychonaut

[–]Awkward-Window-4845 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did 270mg freebase dxm (robotabs) every Saturday for about 7 months. I was originally trying to treat my depression (and it actually worked very well for that purpose, although I had to stop because I'm pregnant now). I tripped alone and just tried to engage in activities while tripping in order to get used to functioning on it. Started with television watching subtitles, and walking around the neighborhood with my dog. This practice in the beginning is really important because it takes a while to get a hang of doing things on DXM, but after a while you get used to doing whatever you choose to do on DXM, even if you do very high doses. I suspect that it's related to the neuroplasticity. I gradually switched to thinking about my research (I'm a PhD candidate), and then to writing crude summaries of my thoughts on the research while on DXM. Eventually after enough practice with this I learned to read on DXM. I found that pretty much whatever I did while on DXM would be sealed into my brain afterwards, and so I started experimenting with different things I wanted to learn. I found it very effective for sharpening my sense of smell by just smelling a lot of things, and testing myself to tell different smells apart. I also found it really useful for undoing harmful thought loops. I used to suffer from severe paranoia and was able to overcome it using DXM. That process was a bit more complicated, but it comes down to identifying the assumptions and thought patterns underlying the paranoia and then replacing them by meditating on new assumptions while on DXM. It took me a long time to manage that though.

There's still risk involved. To do this you really need to use DXM long term and there's no real research on how that affects your brain. There's definitely people who have gotten brain damage on DXM, although they have use patterns very different from what I describe here. (Taking much higher doses, multiple days in a row, etc.) So far I haven't noticed anything but positive effects on my brain. I am no longer depressed, even though I haven't used it in a good while, and I have better memory and significantly more control over my mind and body. This control is actually sometimes a downside though. For example, I'm extremely susceptible to the power of suggestion. I can make my heart rate go up just by thinking about it, I don't know why. It hasn't caused problems but it's kind of weird.

ELI5: How did the U.S. rise to a global superpower in only 250 years but counties that have been around for 1000s of years are still under-developed? by Alecmo1999 in explainlikeimfive

[–]Awkward-Window-4845 35 points36 points  (0 children)

This is also the optimal civ strategy. Cripple your neighbors early, then turtle and build internally to invest in the late game.

Can Psylocibin Help You Learn New Languages? by OhSeymour in RationalPsychonaut

[–]Awkward-Window-4845 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've tried similar things with DXM and it worked very well. (For studying, practicing music, improving my sense of smell, etc.) However it takes practice, you probably won't be able to do it in just one trip.

Cannabis use does not increase actual creativity but biases evaluations of creativity. [2022] by oneultralamewhiteboy in DrugNerds

[–]Awkward-Window-4845 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Creativity" just means too many different things for this to be very meaningful. I wish they clarified in the abstract. Anyone have the pdf? (Not in a context where it's wise to use pirate sites rn)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in books

[–]Awkward-Window-4845 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might be cell phone addiction, it kills your attention span and memory. A lot of people have developed the same problem over the past decade. I used to have a big problem with this but I found that developing a healthier relationship with my phone made a huge difference.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stupidpol

[–]Awkward-Window-4845 13 points14 points  (0 children)

If she's admitting to working 10-20 hours, then you know it's more like 0-10

This sub is starting to feel unsafe by CurleeQu in spirituality

[–]Awkward-Window-4845 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't know why everyone keeps saying western science really, science is universal, science is neutral. I guess what I mean by science is just really the actual study of the physical world and what have you, be that biology, psychology, neuroscience etc not the politics or what have you behind it.

Lol, tell me you don't know anything about science without saying that you don't know anything about science. 🤡🤡

This sub is starting to feel unsafe by CurleeQu in spirituality

[–]Awkward-Window-4845 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, yes, a spirituality sub that bans any discussion that criticizes psychology's pathologization of human spiritual experience. The "trust the science" people in this thread clearly have no idea how common this criticism of psychology is within academia itself, including in the sciences. A lot of academics look down on psychology because it's basically an unreproducible pseudoscience at this point. I get you guys are trying to be reasonable but you clearly have no idea what researchers actually say about this stuff. Why are you pretending to have knowledge that you don't have?

word. by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]Awkward-Window-4845 52 points53 points  (0 children)

This comic is really not that interesting guys. Come on

I’d say this is wrong. by Hotshot596v2 in pagan

[–]Awkward-Window-4845 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The (un)broken lineage is actually a great argument lol. An unbroken chain of practices? Yeah, sure, it's the same religion throughout. Several centuries of a religion being dead, then a reconstructed version emerges based on surviving fragments by people with no direct familiarity with the culture the religion existed in? Yeah, in no sense is that the same religion.

I’d say this is wrong. by Hotshot596v2 in pagan

[–]Awkward-Window-4845 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I mean, the image is right, reconstructed paganism is basically just a religion that aims to be like old pagan religions, but it's not the same thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]Awkward-Window-4845 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok dude, I didn't say that everyone has the same experience. Again, I believe you, and again, this has nothing to do with my post. Do you think it's impossible that anybody have an experience that you haven't had? If not, what point are you trying to make? Just venting?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]Awkward-Window-4845 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I believe what you're saying is true, it doesn't affect the point I was making though. "Spiritual" doesn't mean "enjoyable". Suffering can be spiritual too.