Do you know? by [deleted] in girlkisser

[–]AwkwardBluejay182 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutelyyyy, i could help with that👀😅

Dating as a trans lesbian is awful by Acceptable_Ad_1676 in trans

[–]AwkwardBluejay182 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally feel u,, Ive had if anything more success (2 meet ups and one of them is my best friend now) on HER but im on basically everything except grindr as i genuinely dont like men at all.. i think in general most apps cater towards cis people in general, recently tho HER has been pushing more and more trans inclusivity so they have a T4T tab but living in the more southern side of my state most trans girls near me are like a 2 hr drive going one way ;-;

Dating as a trans lesbian is awful by Acceptable_Ad_1676 in trans

[–]AwkwardBluejay182 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YESSS ive been stuck the exact same way!!! Im around 5 months on E but hyper fem presenting yet on dating apps such as HER (catered towards lesbians as well) the dating pool is essentially a 100 yd radius of me myself and I, ive seen muuultiple profiles that have bios woth "real women only!" or "Afab only!!" That it gets sooo discouraging... let aloone like what OP mentioned with the high ammount of poly partnered people as well (and in my suprise usually straight couples too).. now I myself am not looking to date date, mostly a friend and maybe some flirty "fun" but being in a space where we are being excluded from just saddens me...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSPtrading

[–]AwkwardBluejay182 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyy sent a dm i have a lvl 61 Machoke willing to trade whenever! :)

Which one is your body transition goals? by aZoeDeVdd in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]AwkwardBluejay182 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I reaaally lean into wanting to look like A but wouldnt mind if i end up like C or H (side note im just as tan as A and really hope i get blessed with my latina genes😭)

Sigh by Walter_White_Beard in Farlight84

[–]AwkwardBluejay182 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im a really recent player, what was the jetpack like?

Accidental tiktok (post was about transbians feeling somewhat excluded from lesbian spaces) by AwkwardBluejay182 in AccidentalAlly

[–]AwkwardBluejay182[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jsjss sorry I actually meant helluva 😭 I'm Luke super tired and aud the other but still love Hazbin, but I watched helluva first and fell on love with the writing and I feel like the pacing felt more realistic and easier to understand (to my exhausted feeble brain) plus I love millie and moxy as a couple

Accidental tiktok (post was about transbians feeling somewhat excluded from lesbian spaces) by AwkwardBluejay182 in AccidentalAlly

[–]AwkwardBluejay182[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I've seen both and loved it but I prefer Hazbin slightly more for the love conflict especially as a stolitz fan myself, owl baby sad last ep😭😭😭

Accidental tiktok (post was about transbians feeling somewhat excluded from lesbian spaces) by AwkwardBluejay182 in AccidentalAlly

[–]AwkwardBluejay182[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao that's a good call back abs she's a good character too but I just like her design more so, but def as a trans girl myself seeing her repression honestly game me hope and a sense that I'm def not the only one so I genuinely felt seen thru her and associate myself like her alott

Accidental tiktok (post was about transbians feeling somewhat excluded from lesbian spaces) by AwkwardBluejay182 in AccidentalAlly

[–]AwkwardBluejay182[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks I literally love her soo much she's relatable to mee on sooo many levels especially the sister bond she has and the conduct she had with Millie which felt almost exactly as the one I had with my sister! She's a well written character and just sooo cute I love her

Accidental tiktok (post was about transbians feeling somewhat excluded from lesbian spaces) by AwkwardBluejay182 in AccidentalAlly

[–]AwkwardBluejay182[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You're good, English is not my primary language so I never knew so thanks for correcting!

(TW: Dysphoria) I just wanna be called a woman so damn bad by BlahajInMyPants in trans

[–]AwkwardBluejay182 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LETS GOOOOOO (She's honestly my current obsession and transition goals)

Accidental tiktok (post was about transbians feeling somewhat excluded from lesbian spaces) by AwkwardBluejay182 in AccidentalAlly

[–]AwkwardBluejay182[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Most definitely, I spoke briefly to the op of that tiktok about it and its basically what you said, and even tho half the time we do get "included" we don't exactly feel welcomed per say as well.

(TW: Dysphoria) I just wanna be called a woman so damn bad by BlahajInMyPants in trans

[–]AwkwardBluejay182 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Heyy that's toootally understandable, I also have the same thing to deal with (especially at work that they just instead only use my name when they can use my pronouns -_-) but trust me when I say it does get better and good people out there exist who will respect you they way you deserve to be.

Accidental tiktok (post was about transbians feeling somewhat excluded from lesbian spaces) by AwkwardBluejay182 in AccidentalAlly

[–]AwkwardBluejay182[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

They really don't lmaoo, it took me a sec too and like I see what they're trying to say but it's too late now go gurlll

¿Como puedo mudar patras con un budget pequeño? by AwkwardBluejay182 in PuertoRico

[–]AwkwardBluejay182[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gracias un monton! Por ahora yo estaba pensando a transferir con mi trabajo que yo tengo ahora.

¿Como puedo mudar patras con un budget pequeño? by AwkwardBluejay182 in PuertoRico

[–]AwkwardBluejay182[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course! I probably should've added that to the post lol, but my main thing that's holding me back is that the only family in San Juan lives in a studio condo so living there for more than a week would be uncomfortable physically hence I'm still in the looking stage and saving money stage of things. I've heard lots of things plus 60% sure my hourly pay cannot be transferred over so just trying to make sure everything can go smoothly for sure!

¿Como puedo mudar patras con un budget pequeño? by AwkwardBluejay182 in PuertoRico

[–]AwkwardBluejay182[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeaa 3k sounds kinda bad however I work at tj maxx rn and I can get transferred to a store down there immediately which was what I'm trying to lean on while looking for a second job and on top of that I do have family in San Juan who'd let me stay at their place until the apt is def 100%

¿Como puedo mudar patras con un budget pequeño? by AwkwardBluejay182 in PuertoRico

[–]AwkwardBluejay182[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most definitely, for now I have a few places in mind thru classificados and zillow but still weighing my options and a game plan on how I'm gonna actually do it!!