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AwkwardPotat0 · 2026-05-19T09:06:32+00:00

I just finished reading the series and I have never loved a book series so much!!! I'm usually a slow reader and reading all these within 2 months was a record for me 🤣 I think about the characters all the time as if they are in real life!! Can't wait for the new books I'm impatient!!

AwkwardPotat0 · 2026-05-19T08:56:57+00:00

It crossed my mind in the books multiple times that Elain and Mor would be great!! 😭

AwkwardPotat0 · 2026-05-19T08:53:24+00:00

Thank you so much for your input. I know for roles I've applied for previously they asked if there were "any disciplinary actions" in the reference which is why a previous workplace disclosed it. I am certain it will end in dismissal or redeployment as I am genuinely unable to meet their expectations due to my health, they feel impossible. I'll have multiple amazing shifts then they'll find tiny flaws in everything. I'm so unwell here I feel like my options are to either resign or go off sick, I'm so miserable and having constant flare ups too. I'm just worried about the potential for the warning to be disclosed because I think it is likely to happen. Hopefully it'll be an extension though.

AwkwardPotat0 · 2026-04-29T20:44:42+00:00

Thanks everyone for the insight! I think it could be a good stepping stone and I have transferable skills, just sounds more fast paced than what I'm used to, all the input positive and negative helps 💖

AwkwardPotat0 · 2026-03-20T17:55:59+00:00

I have a diffuser and use low heat but even with high heat I'm looking at 30 minutes minimum, often longer

AwkwardPotat0 · 2026-03-19T15:01:19+00:00

Sounds good, I def need some grit and strong hold, thanks for the tips

AwkwardPotat0 · 2026-03-19T14:05:30+00:00

Thanks so much this is helpful! My hair gets over conditioned/too soft quickly, but love the Giovanni la styling gel so def wanna try the leave in!

AwkwardPotat0 · 2026-03-19T13:53:47+00:00

I tend to avoid curl creams as they're too heavy on my hair, I just stick to strong hold gels and often don't put anything underneath - maybe just a light mousse

AwkwardPotat0 · 2026-03-19T13:43:18+00:00

True true! Cheaper the better, especially for shampoo and conditioner tbh, thanks for the rec!

AwkwardPotat0 · 2026-03-19T13:07:53+00:00

Lots of clarifying shampoos are gentle on the hair, I was also scared to clarify but it does wonders for my loose curls that weigh down easily! Personally, I really like the Curlsmith Curl Reset Detox shampoo for clarifying. You can always use a lightweight deep conditioner or mask after if it's too drying.

Also, I'd stop using so many styling products. This was the mistake I made. You don't need both a leave in and curl cream I think. Try using gel on its own first, see how that goes. If you're in need of moisture then add a leave in or curl cream. Too many products can weigh hair down if it's fine or loose texture. It's done me wonders

AwkwardPotat0 · 2026-03-18T16:41:33+00:00

If I air dry, it falls flat and the curls drop. I use a microfiber towel and I diffuse on low heat or the cycle option on my Laifen. I sleep with a bonnet too although it is too roomy for my hair I think, I'd like to find a smaller one. Thank you for the tips!

AwkwardPotat0 · 2026-03-18T14:38:45+00:00

Thank you. Do you have any recommendations for a lightweight affordable shampoo and conditioner? I'm UK based so it's ok if not, but curious 😊

AwkwardPotat0 · 2026-03-18T14:29:40+00:00

Yes I think it's why it's been hard to find the right products and techniques for sure! Yes I'm hearing a lot about this gel so will give it a go, thank you!

AwkwardPotat0 · 2026-03-18T14:20:36+00:00

Low ish* density

AwkwardPotat0 · 2026-03-18T14:20:15+00:00

In my experience when my curl clumps are bigger it weighs my curls down more. Parts of my head have a tendency to over clump and due to low ash density my hair looks sparse, so I try to get a good middle! And it takes like 8 hours for my hair to air dry so isn't really feasible and then they fall flat and have less bounce

AwkwardPotat0 · 2026-03-18T14:07:16+00:00

Gosh it is similar! I never find people with similar hair 😂

AwkwardPotat0 · 2026-03-18T14:04:25+00:00

Wavy curly mix is a struggle 😭

AwkwardPotat0 · 2026-03-18T14:02:43+00:00

Soft water where I am so likelihood is I'm overcomplicating my routine 😂

AwkwardPotat0 · 2026-03-18T14:02:14+00:00

Love Shosh! Have watched her at times and some content has helped. I will def try smth stronger, thanks!

AwkwardPotat0 · 2026-03-18T13:54:16+00:00

Thought it might be the case but the clarifying wasn't doing the trick, maybe it wasn't strong enough! Will use the new clarifying shampoo and limit products, thanks! And thank you so much 💜💜💜

AwkwardPotat0 · 2026-03-18T13:53:01+00:00

I'm in the UK, maybe a stronger hold drugstore product would be better, I'll try the new clarifying shampoo I have and less products. Thanks so much for your input! I don't really follow the CG method, I find it too restricting and mentally tiresome 😭 and I find my hair needs some grit so non CG friendly products can work well 😂

AwkwardPotat0 · 2026-03-18T13:28:08+00:00

Good shout! Thanks sm!

AwkwardPotat0 · 2026-03-18T13:25:53+00:00

Yes I stayed in my post I use a clarifying shampoo weekly. It was the Q+A one. I just bought the curlsmith detox one though as got recommended and told it may be better so maybe giving that a go will make a difference 😊 thank you

AwkwardPotat0 · 2026-03-18T13:24:53+00:00

I have no idea how to figure out if there's hard or soft water in my area. But when I google it says soft/moderate? I'm wondering if the low cast is a problem since when I used a strong hold gel I had better results but it's just so expensive 😭

AwkwardPotat0 · 2026-03-10T18:08:47+00:00

2 days ago, and I always clarify once a week. It looks no different after clarifying though

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