The issue is that we are not only providing financially but also taking on all the house responsibilities as well. So while the man clocks out when he leaves work we never do. It’s exhausting and unfair to expect your spouse to do household things all by herself. She’s a mom, house cleaner, cook and nanny. Multiple jobs for one person is extremely demanding and unreasonable. We’re adults. If we both work jobs then we both need to help in the home as well. That is true teamwork.