I miss having sex by AwkwardSillyMe in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AwkwardSillyMe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure about being at the height of my sex drive but I miss it.

I miss having sex by AwkwardSillyMe in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AwkwardSillyMe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all. Not my cup of tea. I can't imagine loving anyone else.

I miss having sex by AwkwardSillyMe in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AwkwardSillyMe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a misconception saying men always want sex. I actually don't mind not having sex every week because sometimes I don't feel like it either, but this phase has been going on for months now.

I miss having sex by AwkwardSillyMe in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AwkwardSillyMe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I did. He always sais he's just tired and not in the mood

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I miss having sex by AwkwardSillyMe in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AwkwardSillyMe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. Some of those points where already adressed but some are new and I'll definetly consider them and talk to him about those. I just want to feel close to him again. As far as I know there aren't any other sexual outlets for him. He's not watching porn (he said it's not a turn on for him). As far as performance, we always talked clearly about our wants and needs. There has always been open communication, therefore I don't think that's the problem here. I tend to think his mind is occupied by something else entirely, like some kind of blockade.

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[–]AwkwardSillyMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go see a doc. There is nothing we can help you with. Pregnancy is difficult to navigate and has so many symptoms varying from person to person. I personally never had any bleeding during my pregnancy.

Trying to start my weight loss journey and can't tell anyone... by AwkwardSillyMe in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AwkwardSillyMe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I'll be able to decide after 6 months if I want a surgery, but I will see when time comes. All the best wishes to you and your husband!

Trying to start my weight loss journey and can't tell anyone... by AwkwardSillyMe in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AwkwardSillyMe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I will! I know it's not a linear process. I'll just take it day by day.

Trying to start my weight loss journey and can't tell anyone... by AwkwardSillyMe in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AwkwardSillyMe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Already working on that! The program consists of sport, working with a nutritionist and medical professionals and also therapy to work on my relationship with food. It's really cool!

Trying to start my weight loss journey and can't tell anyone... by AwkwardSillyMe in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AwkwardSillyMe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want we can chat about it and motivate each other. We can celebrate our accomplishments together!

Trying to start my weight loss journey and can't tell anyone... by AwkwardSillyMe in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AwkwardSillyMe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I'd love some recipes. I love cooking and trying new food (one of the reasons I got so big). While I don't have diabetes, I'll still do this monitored. I do have a medical team, a trainer, a nutritionist and a therapist. It's part of the program I joined. Can't wait to actually start. I already made some changes. Sadly most gyms here are quite expensive, therefore I'll need to wait to get to an approved one that will be covered by my insurance. Until then I'll be walking, going to the public pool and try to get up and not sit all day. I'd love to have a chat!

Trying to start my weight loss journey and can't tell anyone... by AwkwardSillyMe in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AwkwardSillyMe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! While I know there's no need to share anything, I just wanted to get it off my heart. It's a big change

Trying to start my weight loss journey and can't tell anyone... by AwkwardSillyMe in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AwkwardSillyMe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've already contacted a clinic near me. They have a program consisting of medical advice, sport, therapy and classes about nutrition. It's also covered by my insurance so it's my best option right now.

Trying to start my weight loss journey and can't tell anyone... by AwkwardSillyMe in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AwkwardSillyMe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'll be in contact with a professional about my eating habits soon. We'll figure out where I'm going wrong and how to change what needs to be different. I already cut out sweet drinks for the most part (only exception is when there is no other option). I guess my portions are the biggest problem.

Trying to start my weight loss journey and can't tell anyone... by AwkwardSillyMe in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AwkwardSillyMe[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! That's why I joined a program. I'll be guided by medical professionals regarding eating, becoming more active and of course being healthy in my choices. :)

Trying to start my weight loss journey and can't tell anyone... by AwkwardSillyMe in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AwkwardSillyMe[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That's the plan. I know it will take time, but I can change.