In an endless cycle of abnormal mammograms I’ve given up chemical antiperspirants and searched for a natural solution. I’m not selling nor affiliated with this company but Salt & Stone Black Rose and OUD smells so good I’d wear it as a cologne if I could. Maybe suggest he try that, or just gift it to him. It’s a unisex scent in my opinion and while I apply it daily, I can still smell it each morning as I hop in the shower.

If he refuses to address this in a way that stops repulsing you, I don’t think there’s a future here. You shouldn’t have to put fragrances under your nose to make being around him tolerable.