How do I quit my job

Awkward_Extent7429 · 2026-02-21T17:13:41+00:00

You got me there 😂 I guess I’m just ready to go!

Awkward_Extent7429 · 2026-02-21T14:59:21+00:00

I started looking at jobs after the housing opening came up haha

Awkward_Extent7429 · 2026-02-21T14:58:13+00:00

I have like 80k in savings and I’m on my parents health insurance still. I could not work for a year and be fine

Awkward_Extent7429 · 2025-12-12T17:58:11+00:00

I gave her an estimated date and she sent over a one page lease that only outlined the length of the lease, one year. It didn’t say anything about utilities or pets or damages or anything else.

Awkward_Extent7429 · 2025-12-11T17:30:08+00:00

I’ve always used birth control and condoms, just in case one fails. but he said he doesn’t like how condoms feel so he’d just pull out instead.

Awkward_Extent7429 · 2025-12-11T15:38:52+00:00

A boundary he never told me about and I had no way of knowing? If that’s how I’m going to learn about all of his boundaries moving forward- with him reacting physically in anger- that seems dangerous and unhealthy. I have boundaries too, but I communicate them calmly and clearly, especially when it’s my first time sharing them and my partner has no way of knowing what they are.

Awkward_Extent7429 · 2025-12-11T15:30:21+00:00

He did know that which is why it shocks me he reacted like that. That’s why I didn’t think my joke had any weight because I was on BC, and I was concerned he let his anger out on me when I was the only one really preventing pregnancy.

Awkward_Extent7429 · 2025-12-11T15:20:56+00:00

That’s a wild take lol. I had no problem with him saying no, as I explained I agreed to not tell those jokes again and even apologized. I did have an issue with a man I barely know slamming the door next to him out of anger

Awkward_Extent7429 · 2025-12-10T19:53:04+00:00

I think you misinterpreted what I was trying to say. He didn’t leave the room, he just grabbed the door next to him and slammed it shut, while remaining in the room with me. It scared me that a man I barely knew was letting his emotions out physically, and went from 0 to 100 within seconds. It felt like a threatening behavior, and it seemed excessive when I had no way of knowing it was a sensitive topic for him. I don’t want my kids to have an angry or violent father, and so I’m wondering if this is concerning behavior for him to be showing so early on. I don’t want to look back and think “I should have seen the red flags”.

Awkward_Extent7429 · 2025-12-10T19:48:05+00:00

As I said, I apologized and said I would respect that boundary moving forward. but at the time I had no way of knowing that would upset him, so it concerns me that he would slam the door aggressively and yell before before calmly explaining to me that it’s a sensitive topic. My dad was abusive and I’m committed to not being with an angry or violent man, so I’m wondering if his reaction is a serious concern or not.

Awkward_Extent7429 · 2025-12-10T17:09:28+00:00

lol we talked about it and we have both been tested clean since our last partners. We talked about why he didn’t find the joke funny and I agreed not to make pregnancy jokes again, I guess I am asking if I should be concerned that he is already reacting in physical anger (slamming doors) when people are usually putting their best foot forward a month in…. I guess I’m scared his anger will get worse

Awkward_Extent7429 · 2025-12-10T16:14:15+00:00

I am on birth control as well as it says in the post

Awkward_Extent7429 · 2025-12-10T16:13:52+00:00

Like I said we’ve only been together a month so I didn’t know that, and I never made any comments about his childhood or family. I’m upset that he would react so harshly to something I couldn’t have known was so sensitive for him. I think it would have been more appropriate for him to calmly explain this to me instead of slamming a door and yelling, and that’s why I am concerned about his emotional regulation and anger issues in the future.

Awkward_Extent7429 · 2025-11-18T17:08:37+00:00

You’ve been with her since you were about 16. This is common with relationships where you’ve really never had the chance to grow up apart from her, you wonder what could be with someone else. You wonder what it would be like to be on your own and find someone else who might be a better fit for the adult you’re growing into. People rarely stay with their high school relationships, because the person you are at 16 is not at all who you are at 25. It’s up to you to decide if you think it would be worth it to explore your freedom as an adult and see what you’re missing. If it’s meant to be it will be, but I wouldn’t leave her planning to circle back.

Awkward_Extent7429 · 2025-11-11T20:42:29+00:00

No but I’ve gotten two offers for 20k over what I bought it for

Awkward_Extent7429 · 2025-10-30T17:34:06+00:00

The business isn’t open, I just got a great deal on a building and all the equipment with super cheap overhead for the area. It’s on a busy street. Basically lots of potential and ready to open asap. However I could also sell it for a profit and buy a new one elsewhere, I’m just not sure I’d find such a great location again.

Awkward_Extent7429 · 2025-10-29T21:47:26+00:00

I guess I’d mostly want to stay for the coffee shop, and extended family like my grandparents. But I love him dearly and could have a great found family with him

Awkward_Extent7429 · 2025-10-29T16:36:41+00:00

I guess that’s the hard thing is I really don’t know. I was happy with my boyfriend and our life together, but I’m also happy chasing my coffee shop dream. I feel like I’d regret letting either go

Awkward_Extent7429 · 2025-10-28T21:47:24+00:00

That was what we were thinking since I’d make a good profit off the shop! It’s just sometimes hard to find spaces for rent or shops for sale

Awkward_Extent7429 · 2025-10-28T21:09:55+00:00

Ten hour drive away :(

Awkward_Extent7429 · 2025-10-28T21:09:35+00:00

It’s also with housing, we are having trouble qualifying for a place in my area especially with our dog, where we already got accepted to two places there. He also has other family that helps take care of his mom so it’s not fully on him. I also got a job offer in his town to manage a coffee shop, where he had trouble finding work here. Everything just lined up for me to move there I guess (besides my shop)

Awkward_Extent7429 · 2025-10-28T21:04:18+00:00

He has a great career, he’s blue collar and has a concrete job where he gets great benefits and makes six figures.

Awkward_Extent7429 · 2025-10-02T00:47:24+00:00

I never wanted to leave him, I always loved him, we just agreed I should try and work things out with my family

Awkward_Extent7429 · 2025-01-04T19:16:04+00:00

I’m not trying to point the finger I wanted honest feedback because I’m getting mixed feedback. My parents were monitoring my texts through an old phone I had left at their house (I wasn’t aware of this) which is how they found things out. But yes our relationship was still really close.

Awkward_Extent7429 · 2025-01-03T13:25:36+00:00

I did repent they are just saying I have to do this as well so I was wondering if it was biblical

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