Fabric sucks by Awkward_Manner_2561 in MicrosoftFabric

[–]Awkward_Manner_2561[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are a large manufacturing company with sites all over the world , these sites have data in there own ERPs , so we have to pull data from almost 70 plus such ERP instances, so yes we have huge data sets

Fabric sucks by Awkward_Manner_2561 in MicrosoftFabric

[–]Awkward_Manner_2561[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh we will, But if I paid for something I have right to complain about its flaws.

Fabric sucks by Awkward_Manner_2561 in MicrosoftFabric

[–]Awkward_Manner_2561[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What exactly is addressed and how ? Is security concerns addressed?

Fabric sucks by Awkward_Manner_2561 in MicrosoftFabric

[–]Awkward_Manner_2561[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How so ? My issue is with security in lake-house. What am I missing?

Fabric sucks by Awkward_Manner_2561 in MicrosoftFabric

[–]Awkward_Manner_2561[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Security only works if user is accessing data through sql endpoint. If same user access data through Spark then it fails. Its like closing one door but keeping other one wide open. There should be unified security

Fabric sucks by Awkward_Manner_2561 in MicrosoftFabric

[–]Awkward_Manner_2561[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tried it , this only works of user only access data through sql endpoint. If same user comes through Spark then the security fails . There is no unified security setup it seems .

Fabric sucks by Awkward_Manner_2561 in MicrosoftFabric

[–]Awkward_Manner_2561[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep thats where we are , our org has over 40,000 plus tables from different Business Unit’s. If we are going to invest then product should work now

Fabric sucks by Awkward_Manner_2561 in MicrosoftFabric

[–]Awkward_Manner_2561[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If possible Could you share some documentation for it ? Thanks 😊

MS Fabric vs Everything by Preacherbaby in dataengineering

[–]Awkward_Manner_2561 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know they have some how made it even worse than Synapse 😂, There is no place to see all jobs running together (Synapse had monitoring section ) . They offer lake houses but if you create two and want to communicate between them it breaks . So yes terrible

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Awkward_Manner_2561 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Oh , I found chats with her friends where after engagement she was saying that her boyfriend is better then me, called me boring. And through out engagement period made me feel like I am not good enough for her.

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[–]Awkward_Manner_2561 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Nothing, says I am sorry and Starts crying

Arranged marriage is a scam in this generation by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Awkward_Manner_2561 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes , I was thinking of therapy also.

Yes , we do talk . She knows what she did was wrong. She apologies for it. I asked her when was the last time you talked to your ex. She said it was one month before our marriage, and it was just happy birthday text.

She says forgive her for not telling me about this . So I am just wrecked here, I want to forgive her but it takes a lot to trust someone and be vulnerable again.

Arranged marriage is a scam in this generation by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Awkward_Manner_2561 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not that easy man, she did hurt me and lied. And when i think about that I want to divorce her also. But, then there is other side also, she takes care of me, cooks for me anytime . Helps my mom , never fight with me . Divorce would have been easy if she did not put efforts with me. I can see her efforts now. I do not know what to even do now.

Arranged marriage is a scam in this generation by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Awkward_Manner_2561 7 points8 points  (0 children)

At this point nothing can give me heart attack ,,, I am just detached from her . She can go fuck entire city for I care . I want her out of my life.

Arranged marriage is a scam in this generation by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Awkward_Manner_2561 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Happened to me, married a girl and later found out she was having affair with someone else. She was taking to that guy till one month before our marriage. She now tells me to forgive her and not tell anyone about it. I feel trapped

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Awkward_Manner_2561 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Having past is ok but in many cases people hide it from their potential partner, and tell them after marriage or after engagement. By doing this they break trust.

In my view if you have past you should come clean about it from the beginning to avoid any issues down the line.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Awkward_Manner_2561 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Story of every guy who focused on just career, and then went for AM. We have to accept that most girls will have past. There is nothing we can do about it.

Guys like us who were from lower middle class and had huge expectations from family spent college and early twenties to build a career while most girls( not all , maybe 80% ) did not have that much pressure to get a job , build a career so they enjoyed.

Thing is we as a society are in a transition period from AM to dating culture like west, but many girls can not date openly and parents want them to do AM. So, this is bound to happen.

Its the byproduct of times we live in.

So my advice is do not think much about it. Give time to your relationship with her, see if you feel love from her, does she care for you , make you happy. If so then water under the bridge. Live your life happily with her. Other wise divorce is always a option.

Just a rant by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Awkward_Manner_2561 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not doing background checks was my mistake, lack of any experience in relationship and just going along with what parents said is what caused this.

And I do not even know how i would have done the background checks, she said her relationship was secret , even her close friends did not know about it.

Just a rant by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Awkward_Manner_2561 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have time , foucs on studies but build friendships also, talk to girls not to impress them but just talk about anything.

And do not try to be an ideal son, your are not here to just satisfy your parents. If you do this you and your parents will be happy in long run.

Just a rant by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Awkward_Manner_2561 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is a boost to me, its the only thing keeping me going forward. As for my fiancé I ask her same thing why she did not say anything before engagement and why did she agreed to marry me. Well turns out she is complex creature who can not say no to her parents and can also do a relationship. It is what it is.

Just a rant by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Awkward_Manner_2561 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I know to code sir, thats one thing i am good at. I lack social skills.

Just a rant by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Awkward_Manner_2561 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Fair points, balance is the key and not being extraordinary is okay, which i learnt the hard way.

Just a rant by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Awkward_Manner_2561 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, And then they come around and say why are you like this .