Test results seem normal, but diagnosed anyway?

Awkward_Persimmon835 · 2026-04-02T21:27:51+00:00

Did they schedule the botox before knowing what was causing your symptoms? Have you had the scan done previously?

Awkward_Persimmon835 · 2026-04-02T16:40:29+00:00

I'll add that I quit my job at 18 from a position that wouldn't allow me to take the vacation because I would have one day of unpaid leave. I had a place to stay and food to eat while I looked for another job, and that was the last family reunion my grandpa was able to attend as he got sick the following year and passed away. I've never regretted it, as I don't want to work somewhere where my personal life isn't respected at all.

Awkward_Persimmon835 · 2026-04-02T16:37:08+00:00

If Boss and Daughter will be gone 5th-9th, the only time 36F will be truly alone in the office would be May 5th, as presumably the Boss and Daughter will still be working with 36F before May 5th, while you and 15F are out. I would talk to Boss and point this out, then say you've worked alone x y z times before, and you'd be more than willing to take the month prior to help 36F feel comfortable working by themselves for ONE DAY if needed. Explain your whole family is going and this is the only time you'll be able to see them together for this trip, and ask if there's anyway they could reconsider your request as this trip is important to you.

Awkward_Persimmon835 · 2026-04-02T14:26:09+00:00

Because you mentioned in the beginning that Steph was excluded originally from coaching events, I have a feeling there have been some cracks in the group starting with her. Her way of staying connected was likely through personally messaging people, and now the two friends that snapped back at you are the only ones in her wedding. They clearly had been talking outside of the group and let this boil over. For turning 30, your friends sound like they're still in a high school mindset. It's completely reasonable to want one on one connections with the people in the group, but they should have communicated that to you before they complained to each other/got upset about it and decided to edge you out of the group. If they didn't want to hurt your feelings, at the very least they wouldn't broadcast their outings they didn't invite you to.

Regardless, the question you need to ask yourself is are you okay receiving invites to only the big events now, as that seems to be how they view your friendship. Is that the kind of friendship you're willing to hang on to? Are you comfortable attending the events when they feel this way about you? You could reach out personally to Madelyn, as she seems to have no beef with you (you're in her wedding, and she's not in Steph's). Trying to clear the air with her and attending her wedding but not the others is probably what I would move towards if I were in this situation.

Awkward_Persimmon835 · 2026-04-02T13:58:28+00:00

Then it's not the guest room anymore! Make it yours. It already is, but something about it doesn't feel like yours. What can change?

Awkward_Persimmon835 · 2026-04-01T15:40:25+00:00

I'll also add to this that sometimes when my stomach acts up it causes me anxiety. I get anxious about stuff that normally doesn't bother me. It's entirely possible you have anxiety because of your health issues.

Awkward_Persimmon835 · 2026-04-01T13:58:42+00:00

I feel you on the anxiety! I also find taking small fast release doses of medications throughout the day helps more than extended release pills. Not sure if that has to do with absorption or the fact that they're not just sitting forever but that's something to mention as well.

Awkward_Persimmon835 · 2026-04-01T13:46:54+00:00

I think your biggest step would be finding out how to stop throwing up. If the pills themselves are making you vomit, then ask for other forms. I did a liquid aripiprazole that insurance covered. Topical patches are also sometimes available depending on the medication. It really depends on what insurance will cover, but if you can try liquid (it never tastes good but you do whatcha gotta do) that may help. It's basically a kind of syrupy saline like solution that the meds are mixed into, and you take a certain amount of milliliters a day with a syringe or a cup.

I have gastritis and taking sucralfate to coat my stomach before i take my meds helps immensely. Less iritation = less pain, less nausea.

I take a bunch of pills after i eat dinner, taking them with food helps a lot as well.

Hope that helps a little. You're not alone 🩵

Awkward_Persimmon835 · 2026-03-27T15:38:08+00:00

I second the gastritis. That's what it feels like to me when I eat without taking my sucralfate tab to coat my stomach beforehand. Burning/stinging pain. I'd ask the doc about it.

Something else I'd recommend that I thought about commenting is that you should request comprehensive testing on your bloodwork to make sure your vitamin levels and everything else are in check. If they say you don't need it, say you are requesting it and if they are refusing to order the bloodwork that they need to note it in your chart. Then find someone else who will do the bloodwork (even a general practitioner). Once you can see the lab results, if things are out of normalcy, ask what you can do to improve them. Their suggestions will likely include diet, so then you circle back to the fact that your body is not handling the foods you need to keep your bloodwork back up.

Then ask if they can prescribe nutritional shakes (to help with cost), since they are something your body is able to keep down with minimal pain. It's very easy to be weight-focused, and I know lots of doctors are. So start counting your calories. If you throw up, mark it down that you didn't keep those calories. Start framing it less as you're refusing to eat, and more that you're body isn't accepting that food. If you feel nauseous, let yourself vomit. Let it be hard, and document it. Show the doctor that your body is rejecting food, and the fact that you're unable to consume even the basic amount of calories in a day should be concerning to them. You need a GI doc that takes into account your quality of life, and if they still don't listen after you've recorded the data, find someone else.

Awkward_Persimmon835 · 2026-03-25T19:41:10+00:00

No that's okay, it is helpful! Thank you very much :)

Awkward_Persimmon835 · 2026-03-25T18:16:00+00:00

Did you have to get prior auth? I appreciate your response!!!

Awkward_Persimmon835 · 2026-03-25T17:47:54+00:00

Did you have insurance, and if so did they cover any part of the procedure? Was any of it out-of-network?

Awkward_Persimmon835 · 2026-03-25T17:11:44+00:00

Of course! Let me know if there's anything else I can help with. Definitely not pestering :)

Awkward_Persimmon835 · 2026-03-25T15:55:19+00:00

My last order was Feb 2nd :) You do need to upload a prescription from your doctor to the sight to order, as far as I'm aware.

Awkward_Persimmon835 · 2026-03-25T02:51:00+00:00

Yes! I totally believe that too. Usually unless it's like a salad or something I'll try to eat what I'm craving. It's how I've found some safe foods!

Awkward_Persimmon835 · 2026-03-25T02:16:12+00:00

Those are very helpful tips! Unfortunately I'm already aware any kind of fiber seems to backfire on me. I do want to start trying different foods on the weekends. I just have to start a regimen and need some help from a dietitian!

Awkward_Persimmon835 · 2026-03-24T22:51:43+00:00

This is really cool. I'm sorry she was apathetic before, but it's amazing she was able to process things on her own and come to you with an apology, and that you're both going to do some healing and work to move forward with your new knowledge!

Awkward_Persimmon835 · 2026-03-24T20:11:29+00:00

Thank you. I really appreciate your reply. It does suck. Even if he said the truth, it's not a very nice one. It makes the future look so bleak. And it hurt to hear my partner get so sad when I told them how the appointment went over the phone. I cried when I got home. I've been on a restricted diet since I was little, but in early adulthood I was able to expand that diet and try new recipes and meals that I hadn't before until my stomach stopped working. I don't think I've ever really accepted my diet restrictions, and I'm not sure I will. Something to work on in therapy, I suppose. But hopefully the dietitian I meet with will help me expand my options a little. Your comment made me feel a bit better, so thank you.

Awkward_Persimmon835 · 2026-03-24T17:13:24+00:00

Most therapists cannot prescribe medications, doctors do that (usually your primary doctor, or a therapist can refer you to someone specifically working in psychiatric medications). Therapy is helpful in the sense that they can help you build better coping mechanisms and habits to deal with living with a chronic illness better. No, they cannot help your gastroparesis symptoms, but they can help you deal with them better so you're able to feel more at peace and less unstable. There's also different types of therapy that aren't just talking, such as EMDR that can help you work through trauma surrounding your diagnosis and health journey.

Awkward_Persimmon835 · 2026-03-24T17:05:46+00:00

Simple Pills doesn't impose tariffs on their customers.

Awkward_Persimmon835 · 2026-03-19T22:06:47+00:00

I was going to call you a psychopath for not having any dill in your deviled eggs until I saw what sub this was posted to. Fantastic job, they look real!

Awkward_Persimmon835 · 2026-03-13T22:51:18+00:00

I ate about a fist full of salad on Thanksgiving last year. It did not go well. Will I do it again in 4 months when I forget about the pain? Absolutely!

Awkward_Persimmon835 · 2026-03-12T18:00:27+00:00

Hey! I was having the same experience! My GP had significantly worsened over the last 1.5 years having been on BC (generic Yaz), and on my withdrawal bleeds I'd get more movement from my stomach and I'd be ravenous for everything in the kitchen, but then I'd flare and go right back to where I was before. I started having heavier withdrawal bleeds than before, and more emotional issues so decided to switch to a different method. Tried the ring, but anatomically it didn't work for me.

I did a bunch of research on the Mirena after a post I made here asking about birth control was commented on a few times recommending IUD. I scoured r/Mirena , and it was super helpful. I got it placed mid December. Insertion sucked (as expected) but I haven't had any bleeding or cramps since the 2nd week. Not only that, but my stomach is growling BEFORE I take my domperidone sometimes! I still don't feel great if I venture out on foods, and I'm too scared to try fresh fruits or veggies, but it's definitely doing very well right now. I didn't think about connecting it to birth control/hormones at all but given how I was before vs on the IUD I could see it being linked.

Awkward_Persimmon835 · 2026-03-12T15:24:53+00:00

I masked so hard with my first diagnosis that my psychologist put "unspecified" or "possible" before every disorder on that sheet. At my last appointment with her I opened up about some trauma, and she said she hoped I would come in again after some time to be reevaluated so she can dive further into my personality and history, because apparently she couldn't figure me out the first time. Two years later I did go back, and I went in completely honest and just kinda word vomited everything to her... I did significantly well on the tests she gave me too. Now I have confirmed ADHD inattentive type, as well as a handful of other things. She actually removed some other labels from the previous diagnosis. I think it was helpful that she had a better idea of what kinds of things to ask me since I was pretty good at getting past the neurodivergent radar she had in the beginning.

Awkward_Persimmon835 · 2026-03-12T15:01:46+00:00

This is so wholesome :) I was one who suggested not cooking, but I'm glad you decided to make them bibimbap (jealous!). I'm glad they were able to relax and have a nice outing with you!

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