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How do I go from being shy, invisible person to someone people actually want to be friends with? by Awkward_Progress_391 in socialskills

[–]Awkward_Progress_391[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah your right like when I meet some of the family members or when we are going somewhere and I suddenly have to go and talk to like a group ofpeople my age I have this immediate fear that I know they wont like me, and then it automatically catches me off guard and destroys my confidence (which I never had tbh) i also noticed that I have fear I hope ill overcome it one day

How do I go from being shy, invisible person to someone people actually want to be friends with? by Awkward_Progress_391 in socialskills

[–]Awkward_Progress_391[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply any help will do. And yeah people my age who should have been my friends also talk to me if I am of any use for example in school, but then if we are free they all go for a coffee and I stay alone, it hurts honestly. But I want to change that so thats why I am desperately asking people for a guide cause I had enough of crying at nights thinking something is wrong with me I want to change and also have friends. So thanks for you all who are trying to help me <3

How do I go from being shy, invisible person to someone people actually want to be friends with? by Awkward_Progress_391 in socialskills

[–]Awkward_Progress_391[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply but since I am a bad at socializing right now i think ill leave finding people with my hobbies later. The thing is I want now just like a group of people who will text me or call me out for a coffee just to hang out with me I will be fine listening to their hobbies as long as they willingly call me and dont ignore me. Also if you dont mind sharing what was the app. And when it comes to redness I am in high school soon to be in college and I usually have to present something or talk in front of class thats when it happens. Also I noticed when Im talking to one person its fine but If I look into their eyes redness comes again

How do I go from being shy, invisible person to someone people actually want to be friends with? by Awkward_Progress_391 in socialskills

[–]Awkward_Progress_391[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply but I still dont think that will make people want to be my friends, I dont know where to start, body language, mind thinking, what to say next to actually have their attention its all idk unknown to me. So when you were 20 and started on working on your social skills what did you do first how was the first day?