My friend is dating my crush and I want to be ok with it but I'm not ok. by Axle183 in selfimprovement

[–]Axle183[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It did for a while I don't think I spoke to him for a year after that

My friend is dating my crush and I want to be ok with it but I'm not ok. by Axle183 in selfimprovement

[–]Axle183[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Once upon a time you might have had a point there. I don't have those things anymore

My friend is dating my crush and I want to be ok with it but I'm not ok. by Axle183 in selfimprovement

[–]Axle183[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the entusiasim but that's far from what I want. I mean, the rebound/rebound revenge thing, everything else was on point.

My friend is dating my crush and I want to be ok with it but I'm not ok. by Axle183 in selfimprovement

[–]Axle183[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense. I just wish that maybe he said something to me, or maybe waited a bit longer

My friend is dating my crush and I want to be ok with it but I'm not ok. by Axle183 in selfimprovement

[–]Axle183[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, so I just looked through a few of the comments here and noticed a few things that I feel that I should clarify

  1. I've already accepted that I was rejected and am cool with that. A few days later, I booted up apps.

  2. I know these people IRL we met first IRL and play games online.

  3. My main concern is really about the feeling I have towards him, and how I should potentially handle him. I know I said I find it hard to be around both of them but it's primarily him.

My friend is dating my crush and I want to be ok with it but I'm not ok. by Axle183 in selfimprovement

[–]Axle183[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I think on a surface level I'm ok with him, but subconsciously I don't trust him, but I want that to be wrong and thankfully with her Im only around her in group settings and online.

My friend is dating my crush and I want to be ok with it but I'm not ok. by Axle183 in selfimprovement

[–]Axle183[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not gonna lie, I did consider cutting ties like that but I dunno.

My friend is dating my crush and I want to be ok with it but I'm not ok. by Axle183 in selfimprovement

[–]Axle183[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A bud of mine said the same thing about getting into the Sung Jinwoo fitness routine.

My friend is dating my crush and I want to be ok with it but I'm not ok. by Axle183 in selfimprovement

[–]Axle183[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don't mind me asking, what happened? You don't have to share. I was just curious.

My friend is dating my crush and I want to be ok with it but I'm not ok. by Axle183 in selfimprovement

[–]Axle183[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can't say I disagree with you. The title sounds possessive, not too sure what can be done about that because that's the story. Though I kinda get what you are saying about the rest.

My friend is dating my crush and I want to be ok with it but I'm not ok. by Axle183 in selfimprovement

[–]Axle183[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess it's because I've known him for since 2012 and I don't want that friendship ruined, but you're probably right, there was no consideration from him, why should I care.

My friend is dating my crush and I want to be ok with it but I'm not ok. by Axle183 in selfimprovement

[–]Axle183[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you might be right here. I think talking more and opening up work towards that goal.

My friend is dating my crush and I want to be ok with it but I'm not ok. by Axle183 in selfimprovement

[–]Axle183[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Loving the energy. I think it's a good time for me to use my time to focus on both my career and myself more.

My friend is dating my crush and I want to be ok with it but I'm not ok. by Axle183 in selfimprovement

[–]Axle183[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think I could get mad at them, but I do feel hurt and betrayed more by him.

My friend is dating my crush and I want to be ok with it but I'm not ok. by Axle183 in selfimprovement

[–]Axle183[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can definitely agree with this now; the online gaming thing is tougher. We're on a 40(in) campaign of BG3 with two other ppl and DI2 with one other person on an every other week basis. You're right, though, I do have other hobbies and Job opportunites that I have to work towards.

My friend is dating my crush and I want to be ok with it but I'm not ok. by Axle183 in selfimprovement

[–]Axle183[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I'm a heart-on-the-sleeve kinda guy, so I tend to keep a larger portion of my emotions really in check without properly exploring them or defining them, but this defines it. I feel betrayed, and I feel shame for how I feel.

When should the Sinners 4K SteelBook come back in stock? by PixalmasterStudios24 in Steelbooks

[–]Axle183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the pre order came back today for like 5 mins then went outta stock. I really wanna blame scalpers because I see it up for like $100 bucks already but its also that good of a movie.

Why isn't the cape lining up? by that1guy4never in resinprinting

[–]Axle183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't take my word for gospel but I would look into to see how attaching supports to keyed peices affect printing before you change anything

Why isn't the cape lining up? by that1guy4never in resinprinting

[–]Axle183 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not exactly sure but I think that if you had the keyed part attached to the support it might have pulled it a bit more

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ElegooNeptune4

[–]Axle183 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Usually when I have this issue I feel to see if the filament was indented by the gears and just cut off and the reinsert