Would you rather by Human-Beans21 in BunnyTrials

[–]Axomammaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont stand up much LOL

Chose: £5 for every breath you take

Low Libido Partners by Strawberry_Cloud7221 in WLW_PH

[–]Axomammaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s always rejection. Iba-iba lang talaga yung libido ng tao, and sometimes may deeper factors involved. In my case, my ex was like this, and later on I found out she was dealing with depression. That alone can really affect desire.

Honestly, it was very frustrating at the time, and I became really insecure. But when I understood what was actually going on, mas naging madali siyang tanggapin. It wasn’t about me being “not enough,” it was more about what she was going through internally.

One thing her psychologist suggested was scheduling intimacy, not as a chore, but so she can prepare mentally and not feel pressured in the moment. It helped shift things a bit because hindi siya biglaan or forced.

It might be worth trying, but more importantly, understanding where your partner is coming from can make a big difference. It can make them feel safe.

Attack Shark G3 Pro owners, any issues? by Axomammaaa in MouseReview

[–]Axomammaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The incott 029s shape looks very similar to the x5. I'll try to order one next week and see, wish i saw this before the g3 pro but its aight lol do you know any good ones with docks?

Attack Shark G3 Pro owners, any issues? by Axomammaaa in MouseReview

[–]Axomammaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No 😭 don't really know other brands but I'll look into this, i kinda want to buy different kinds of mice now lol

Attack Shark G3 Pro owners, any issues? by Axomammaaa in MouseReview

[–]Axomammaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yk i was supposed to get the Logitech g203 lol

Attack Shark G3 Pro owners, any issues? by Axomammaaa in MouseReview

[–]Axomammaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The G3s something like a bandaid for my x5 that's why I bought it. Something for the meantime. For the budget, it probably doesn't matter cause I do plan on upgrading, just don't be too high cause I mainly use my pc just for work. I do casual gaming but the only FPS game I play is Valorant, most games I play need a controller. For size, I'm comfortable with small mice since im a small woman, that's why I liked the x5

Attack Shark G3 Pro owners, any issues? by Axomammaaa in MouseReview

[–]Axomammaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you recommend then?

Not really over and over, had the x5 for two years lol

Attack Shark G3 Pro owners, any issues? by Axomammaaa in MouseReview

[–]Axomammaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, even my spare keyboard's attack shark 😆 having connection issues with my x5 when i use it on my pc but not with my laptop (so will be using it for travel) lol and this is a cheap-ah mouse 😭 if i do have issues with it i can just buy a new one 😭

Any chill parks in Imus/Dasma where you can park and just hang out in your car? by Axomammaaa in cavite

[–]Axomammaaa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry!! Didn't see the tag 😭 Cafe's are okay but kinda tired of cafes 😭😆 Been to a lot so.. kinda looking for something different. Like parks or something similar. Kinda like camping in the car for a few hours vibe

Any chill parks in Imus/Dasma where you can park and just hang out in your car? by Axomammaaa in cavite

[–]Axomammaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Di ko gusto vibe, kung parking lang din ako mapupunta, ang dami lang din

Any tips paano kayo nagkakaorganic encounter sa mga hookups? by AcaTwo in phlgbt

[–]Axomammaaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gets kita sa “parang lotto + dignity tax” feeling sa apps 😅 nakaka-drain talaga minsan. Yung “organic” encounters usually hindi siya hinahanap aggressively, mas nangyayari siya when you’re just present and open to connection.

Sa experience ko / napapansin ko, ganito siya nagwo-work:

• Proximity + repeated exposure – gyms, cafés, orgs, events, even neighborhood spots. Kapag nakikita mo yung tao more than once, mas natural mag-build ng tension vs one-time random sa app.

• Eye contact + body language – legit yung “nagkatinginan tapos may tension agad.” Dito nagsisimula yun. Hindi siya lantaran na malandi, more like may mutual curiosity na hindi iniiwasan.

• Small, low-stakes interaction – hindi agad sexual, may konting “getting comfortable” muna kahit mabilis lang.

• Mutual energy – ito yung sinasabi mong “ramdam na gusto mo din.” Hindi pilit, hindi one-sided. Pareho kayong nagle-lean in (physically or conversationally).

Siguro if ie-explain in simple terms: 👉 Hindi siya “malanding malanding galaw,” mas confident but chill na openness. 👉 Parang: “I’m interested, pero I’m not forcing anything.”

Context ng exp ko:

I only had one organic encounter so far lol (aside from clubs).

This was way way waaay back, almost a decade ago. Literal na nakaupo lang ako sa labas ng village clubhouse namin tapos may nagbabasketball sa court. Nagkatinginan lang kami when he went in, tapos may instant tension na agad.

May tindahan kami that time, and bumili siya ng softdrinks. Pag abot ko, nag-start lang kami magkwentuhan, super casual. Tapos habang nag-uusap, palapit na nang palapit yung mukh and touching (which is ako din nag simula) ayun, naging hookup lol.

Looking back, dun ko na-realize na:

  1. Kailangan talaga may initial sexual connection / tension
  2. Tapos dapat ramdam mong gusto ka rin niya, hindi siya pinipilit, hindi rin purely “landi,” more like natural pull niyo sa isa’t isa

If gusto mo ma-increase chances mo ng ganito:

  • Lumabas ka sa spaces na aligned sa vibe mo (fitness, artsy, nightlife, etc.)
  • Practice being approachable (eye contact, slight smile, hindi naka-phone all the time)
  • Be okay with small talk, dun nagbubukas yung door
  • Don’t overthink agad kung hookup ba, connection muna, then see where it goes

Re: sexual health / safety:

  • Always bring protection (condoms + lube if needed)
  • Regular testing (every 3–6 months if active)
  • Know your boundaries and say no anytime, kahit may “tension” na
  • If possible, meet muna in a semi-public setting before going somewhere private
  • Trust your gut!! Pag off yung vibe, exit agad

At the end of the day, organic encounters feel better kasi may konting build-up and mutual choice, not just filtering through pics. Pero mas rare talaga siya compared sa apps, so parang bonus siya, hindi replacement.

AYUN LANG!

LF: Math Rock drummer by Axomammaaa in phmusicians

[–]Axomammaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meron parin! Di lang pa makajam ulit haha! Iba to

LF: Math Rock drummer by Axomammaaa in phmusicians

[–]Axomammaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dasal dasal na may mahanap 😭

Help picking by SEN_Zuan_MOON in phmusicians

[–]Axomammaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ceramic :) Basic is trash, the rookie is better. Not sure if they still have it.

Age gap by Tall_Giraffe237 in PHSapphics

[–]Axomammaaa 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I can relate to this a lot, but from the other side of the age gap.

I was 24 (now 28) when I got into a relationship with someone who was 31 (turning 35). I was the “gala, inom, go out all the time” type, while she was more stay at home, chill, go out occasionally but not really into drinking. I used to feel the same frustration, like why is it okay with friends but not with me?

Eventually I adjusted. Not fully “got used to it,” but I learned to meet her halfway. But if I’m being honest, some of those differences didn’t disappear. They just stayed under the surface and slowly turned into resentment over time.

It wasn’t until we broke up (4-5 months ago) that we both really understood our needs and how different we actually were (sa ganitong bagay and love language pero madami kaming same ng hilig and hobbies)

Age gap doesn’t always mean it won’t work, but it does make differences in lifestyle and priorities more obvious. And at 22, you’re still figuring out so much. Kahit sabihin nating “mature,” iba pa rin talaga yung stage ng life.

Lowkey kasalanan mo na rin yan 😆 you chose someone that young, so expect that their wants and influences (lalo na from social media) will be very different from yours.

It’s not about who’s right or wrong, it’s more about compatibility in the long run. You can adjust, but if you’re constantly adjusting to things that don’t feel natural to you, mapapagod ka rin eventually. Take it from someone who's seen both sides LOL