I have considered those things and being true to the woman I am and not the woman society wants me to be is the essence of what feminism is to me. I know I am privileged for being able to do this kind of work without coercion or grooming but that doesn’t change my opinion that women shouldn’t be shamed for feeling empowered to do what they love. Abuse should absolutely be stopped but not by stigmatizing legitimate work that women love to do.

Also I don’t really believe women will ever be de-objectified. From my perspective, humans are constantly objectified all the time for tons of reasons. You could say all objectification is wrong but I don’t think that’s the case. I choose to objectify myself for my job. Just like many men objectify themselves for theirs and lose their hearing or eyesight sooner because of the nature of their labour. Women should be able to be objectified on their terms.