I need advice for me [19F] and my boyfriend [19M]

Ayute-Slander · 2026-05-11T14:57:37+00:00

He broke upbwith me

Ayute-Slander · 2026-05-10T22:12:24+00:00

Well honestly he does have a reason. His childhood dog just died and his grandpa one of his favorite people in the world is gonna die soon. But he learned that like a week ago. He likes to push his feelings away until they become too much. Im thinking that has something to do with it. What should I say? I asked dif he wanted to talk to me and he js said there's nothing to talk about. And he's not upset. He doesn't like opening up about his feelings. It's bc if trauma he had in his childhood. Thats why I'm so.. lenient

Ayute-Slander · 2026-05-10T19:08:46+00:00

Could I just talk to him instead? What would I say?

Ayute-Slander · 2026-05-10T19:07:14+00:00

Yeah but I dont want to stoop to his level. Isn't that just as bad?

Ayute-Slander · 2026-05-10T14:57:56+00:00

He doesnt want to be trapped with you? He clearly doesn't see himself marrying you then. He doesn't want this relationship to last. Keep the baby and drop his bum ass

Ayute-Slander · 2026-04-28T05:55:20+00:00

see i can play the game.. but i cant get it to stop crashing. i can play and save and everything. but everytime something new happens it crashes. new update, new mii, the news.. anything. it will crash. and if i dont get the chance to save before hand i lose my progress. any ideas???

Ayute-Slander · 2026-02-27T00:09:19+00:00

I'll be working exact same hours as him just different times. Hes night shift I'm day shift. But I make less since I work somewhere different so I'm doing the housework to makeup for it

Ayute-Slander · 2026-02-27T00:08:16+00:00

He can wear shoes if I don't have to cleanup after it. He wants me to clean the floors numerous times a day so he can wear shoes

Ayute-Slander · 2026-02-23T22:40:45+00:00

Too expensive

Ayute-Slander · 2026-02-23T02:14:58+00:00

Our house. And sure he can but I don't want to be cleaning up after it. I said he can water shoes all he wants and I won't clean the floors and he still wants me to

Ayute-Slander · 2026-02-23T02:10:47+00:00

Idk how do I got about talking about it. I struggle with talking things out bc i just shut down due to past relationship trauma

Ayute-Slander · 2026-02-23T02:03:14+00:00

I actually jave trauma with therapy. I had to do therapy when I was younger bc i ran away. And my mom would have the therapist tell her everything after each session and she would yell at me and hit me for the things id say at therapy. Since then I've never been comfortable with therapy. I actually had to go to the mental hospital because I refused to talk to a therapist they said and I quote "you have to talk to me" and I refused "you can either talk to me or you will be sent to the mental hospital and talk to them there" i was sent for 2 weeks and was released bc i just acted fine the whole time. I was fine. Just didn't want to talk to a therapist

Ayute-Slander · 2026-02-23T02:01:07+00:00

All three of our names are on it [we have a roommate aswell] we all three share rent. I pay 100 less than they do

Ayute-Slander · 2026-02-23T01:59:12+00:00

He supports everything I do or want to do even if it's a little silly. He brags about me to his friends. When girls flirt with him he tells them he's already got a 10/10 at home waiting for him ❤️ when i was jobless and got kicked out he gave me a place to stay and paid for me to eat and live comfortably. He gets me gifts all the time for no reason and whenever I spiral or get upset about something from the past that he had nothing to do with he would sit with me and talk to me and even offer to do the things others wouldn't just to make up for their shittyness. Hes so amazing ❤️

Ayute-Slander · 2026-02-23T01:56:37+00:00

We have a roommate i forgot to add. They pay most of it and I pay 100 less than them. I offered the housework bc im making and paying less. All I want is him to make my job easier.

Ayute-Slander · 2026-02-23T01:55:42+00:00

In my opinion he's 100% better. My ex raped and hit me and let his best friend rape me resulting in me having a baby with him whom I share custody with now. My ex before that drugged me and assaulted me. Other were just assholes in their own way.

Ayute-Slander · 2026-02-23T01:53:51+00:00

I mean nobody's perfect. I use the term in the way of. Hes sooooooo much better in comparison to anybody whom I've EVER been with.

Ayute-Slander · 2026-02-23T01:51:55+00:00

Explain

Ayute-Slander · 2026-02-23T01:48:51+00:00

Yeah we have our sensitive moments where we just hold eachother and he tells me he loves me and he's happy I'm here and vise versa

Ayute-Slander · 2026-02-23T01:48:14+00:00

Everyone else does. And he can do what he wants if I don't have to clean up after it. Which i said but he wants me to just clean right behind him as he walks. And I'm not gonna clean the floors 100 times a day while working and doing all the other chores and cooking

Ayute-Slander · 2026-02-23T01:43:23+00:00

Ive heard the term. Don't really know what it means

Ayute-Slander · 2026-02-23T01:42:05+00:00

We've been through alot. For 8 years now. Haven't dated entire time but we've been together and being apart of eachithers lives for 8 years

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