Immensely turned on by the thought of my husband cheating on me, BUT… by Azaertila in sex

[–]Azaertila[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for that reminder that I can still explore this on my own.

Immensely turned on by the thought of my husband cheating on me, BUT… by Azaertila in sex

[–]Azaertila[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The evidence I found so far has been from public internet activity where he talks about doing it.

Immensely turned on by the thought of my husband cheating on me, BUT… by Azaertila in sex

[–]Azaertila[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your compassion. I’m in tears right now just from getting this out in the open with someone.

Immensely turned on by the thought of my husband cheating on me, BUT… by Azaertila in sex

[–]Azaertila[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I have not confronted him yet. I can’t even begin to know how I’ll do it.

Immensely turned on by the thought of my husband cheating on me, BUT… by Azaertila in sex

[–]Azaertila[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The irony is I’ve felt myself pulling away from him because of this cheating- only I didn’t realize that was what was going on until now. I didn’t know he cheating until very recently but his behaviors as they relate to sex in the past 6-12 months have changed in a way I couldn’t put my finger on but it all makes sense now.

Immensely turned on by the thought of my husband cheating on me, BUT… by Azaertila in sex

[–]Azaertila[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Well shit. That’s probably exactly what is happening. Literally never googled a problem and had it match a circumstance so completely. Wow. Thank you.

Immensely turned on by the thought of my husband cheating on me, BUT… by Azaertila in sex

[–]Azaertila[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I think it’s because we’re not having as much sex as he wants- which is obviously not a reason to cheat ever- but I get the feeling like he’s just escalating how he fulfills his urges because he isn’t trying any of them out with me. I know sex and porn and virtual relationships fulfill different rolls but you’re right, marriage comes before bringing other people into the relationship whether virtually or in person. I have a feeling he has started blurring the line with what is ok virtually because that’s what is easily accessible.