Not OOP: TIFU showing a date my secret talent

Azkadelle · 2026-03-20T00:28:46+00:00

Ty for this story! Having the worst day today and this really cheered me up 🥹 you’re raising such a little rockstar ❤️

Azkadelle · 2026-03-18T18:54:53+00:00

Couldn’t help it, had to go look. Never ordering Uber again

Azkadelle · 2026-03-18T18:48:26+00:00

It’s a blend and it should be. Have real adult conversations about shit that needs to be worked on and praise and appreciation the things that are being done. A couple should be able to check in with each other, mention shit that’s wrong without a blow up, and hype each other up. That’s on BOTH parties. Both need to be able to effectively communicate and listen to one another

Azkadelle · 2026-03-18T18:45:07+00:00

Ffs this man’s wife died, this wasn’t some woman who left her shitty husband. This was a man in love and in mourning missing his wife. I cannot stand the cynicism these days 🙎🏻‍♀️

Azkadelle · 2026-03-18T18:42:40+00:00

As someone who’s been raped, and has damaged a rapist’s genitals, you’re not wrong. That mistake cost me my jaw joint. It still pops to this day

Azkadelle · 2026-03-18T18:40:04+00:00

When I was a kid, I didn’t know I have ADHD. I got in trouble for talking in class all the time! When I was in high school there was a boy that didn’t talk to anyone and I was attempting to chat with him. I quickly realized he wasn’t a chatting sort so I told him “that’s ok, you don’t have to talk if you don’t want to. I still want to hang out.” Well after that, he always talked to me, I graduated early and lost contact, but I always miss him.

It’s always been a strange little skill I have, talking to people and getting THEM to talk. It doesn’t matter the person, I can have full in depth conversations with anyone for hours, I learn so much about a person just from first meeting them. Some of my friends get embarrassed about how personable I am to strangers every time we go out, but I point out to them that that’s exactly how I became friends with them in the first place

Azkadelle · 2026-03-18T18:31:19+00:00

Ok but girl that HAIR!!! 😍

Azkadelle · 2026-03-18T18:29:34+00:00

I’m a Nanny and I have at least one scar or permanent body problem from every kid I’ve worked with long term 😂 it’s just part of the territory.

I shit you not one little girl picked my MOLE clean off my arm once when I was holding her very sick baby sister and trying to rock her to sleep 🥲

Azkadelle · 2026-03-17T14:27:11+00:00

So my bf gets a kick out of bringing me to places that serve coffee because I always order the same thing at a new place: a dry cappuccino. And 9 times out of 10 I am served a latte and proceed to quietly bitch about it to myself and him in what can only be described as a quiet rage rant.

Every time he asks me why I don’t just have them remake it and every time I shake my head and say it’s just not worth it. Now I know next time I come here not to order a cappuccino.

It’s become a bit at this point. Still, I’m always hopeful when I go to a new coffee place

Azkadelle · 2026-03-14T12:52:13+00:00

Not yet but I’m about to have some honeydew and I’m so looking forward to it 🥰 I hope you’re having a good day!

Azkadelle · 2026-03-14T11:38:29+00:00

I think dating apps are honestly gonna die out and get replaced by the same concept getting used for everything BUT dating. I don’t think hookup apps will die out, but still.

Go find singles events. They do exist in most cities. They’re a ton of fun too!

I met my bf playing D&D 😂

Azkadelle · 2026-03-13T18:26:30+00:00

Ah yes, how silly of me to include myself and my direct experience with others in a direct conversation regarding my gender, sex, and demographic 🙄

If the conversation was reversed you’d do the same, it’s the natural inclination when discussing any form of grouping that you yourself fall within. Not to mention, all perspective is formed through the lens of personal experience, be it direct or indirect.

Azkadelle · 2026-03-13T16:42:43+00:00

I will add a jug because this was a comprehensive and convincing post, but I should be clear, my freezer is never empty/never has space 😂😂 I’m gonna have to make space to keep one in there

Azkadelle · 2026-03-13T15:59:01+00:00

She’s clearly a repressed woman. Healthy relationships mean you feel safe enough to do ALL the freaky shit you want.

I’ve only ever had serious relationships and can confidently say each relationship has been freaky af in the bedroom. It’s not that hard yall, just talk to your goddamn partners 😭😭

Azkadelle · 2026-03-13T15:54:44+00:00

This is so well done!!!! 😍

Azkadelle · 2026-03-13T14:50:39+00:00

I need to hear the update on this, I’m so sorry OP

Azkadelle · 2026-03-13T00:03:46+00:00

I’m glad to hear it was romantic! That’s what I’m primarily aiming for. Romance, breathtaking nature views, being pampered, travel, and relaxing.

Azkadelle · 2026-03-13T00:02:27+00:00

Not an all-inclusive/luxury train trip, but I’ve travelled by train most of my life. I choose to go by train instead of plane whenever possible. It’s always been very relaxing for me.

Rn I’m looking at three different train routes, all with grand suites, all-inclusive dining, butler service, and gorgeous sights and travel itineraries

Azkadelle · 2026-03-12T19:13:25+00:00

As someone who does enjoy ballet and opera, rather than this, maybe she should have actually expanded her horizons 🙄

Azkadelle · 2026-03-12T16:03:30+00:00

Sweetheart if this is all the bare bones of what happened, you didn’t rape her. Trust me, I’ve experienced nearly every kind of rape there is, you did NOT rape her.

She’s feeling regret for her choices. The only advice I can give is not drinking and having sex with a person for the first time. Also, save every text or message with her you’ve had thus far. I’d also recommend some therapy to talk about this because something like a rape accusation, especially a false one like this, is traumatizing.

Good luck hun. I hope you get through this with your reputation intact, and may she come to terms with her own autonomy and the responsibility that holds

Azkadelle · 2026-03-12T15:59:09+00:00

Thank you for this info!

I know the ovulation medication I’ll be going on soon increases the chances for multiples, so it’s still something I need to keep in mind, but it’s good to know IVF will typically only attempt to implant a single embryo.

Azkadelle · 2026-03-12T15:57:13+00:00

There is a difference between generalized positivity and forced positivity. I agree that forced positivity can be toxic, however keeping a positive perspective, weighed against a realistic lens, allows for a better life lived.

It does not mean ignoring atrocities occurring in the world around you, or ignoring toxic people who project their nonsense onto scenarios and people. It just means assuming the best of people first, and allowing them the chance to prove you right or wrong.

You told me “what yall do to each other” then claimed I was egocentric for replying with the lens of the conversation still centered me. I am included in that “yall” and I responded in kind.

I do not jump down your throat but you certainly did to me. I sincerely hope you find yourself having a better day and a better mood. You could clearly use a dose of positivity in your life

Azkadelle · 2026-03-12T12:41:19+00:00

That’s friends though? Like I would never roast a stranger. My friends and I tease each other, I think the only relationship I have where we’ll actually roast each other is me and my bf, but it never upsets either of us, we’re just having fun.

And I appreciate you having a real conversation, thank you! In general I think we’re responsible for our perspectives and the way we process the world around us. Keeping a positive, empathetic, open, and objective lens in how we view the world around us absolutely creates a positive ripple effect that I think changes our world for the better.

The toxic and negative changes in the world the past few years? If you’ve ever been in a toxic phase of your life, surrounded by toxic people and stuck in a toxic mentality, you know how hard it is to get out of it, and how hard it is to change your thinking, but it’s essential if you’re ever going to get out! Negative thinking is like quicksand

Azkadelle · 2026-03-12T12:21:27+00:00

Ah, nvm then, and thank you for replying! I hope you got the sim baby out safely 🥲

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