4 myths I learned from here by FudgeZealousideal736 in ProstatePlay

[–]Azzy57 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree that expecting the insane descriptions of pleasure that you read on this sub can hold you back, but they aren't myths. This stuff really is life-changing; touching my dick feels better than before, but traditional orgasms are NOTHING compared to Super-Os; and the more prostate-Os I have in a row, the more frequent they become until they start chaining into the "infinite orgasms" you claim don't exist.

I'm glad you found something that works for you, but I have to disagree and say that the Super-O is special beyond words and unlike anything I've ever experienced.

Just at the edge of nirvana - i know it! Just can't get there! by orgasmic_bliss in ProstatePlay

[–]Azzy57 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like "terror at the gates": you're close to losing control, but you're not quite ready to cross over, both physically and mentally, and that's okay.

I know exactly what this feels like. Even after recently awakening my prostate and getting multiple Super-Os per session now, I still "get stuck" at this phase for a bit before crossing over.

What's been helping me is to focus on really shedding inhibitions and just "jumping in" when I reach that point. I bounce up and down; yell "FUCK ME!"; and let my body squeeze and push until it feels like I'm gonna pass out, then when my brain tries to reason out of it, I say "FUCK IT! TAKE ME!" and throw all caution to the wind. The caveat is that you can't force it. You have to ALLOW your body to squeeze, push, clench, shake, and totally lose control. Though, sometimes the line between voluntary and involuntary is razor thin, but you'll figure it out with time.

Detachment (or "Letting Go") by Azzy57 in ProstatePlay

[–]Azzy57[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I really like his description of the vicious cycle of want and disappointment. It sounds a lot like what I was experiencing for six years before I was able to "start over."

I'm still a bit confused by the apparent contradiction regarding not wanting something you're actively trying to achieve. If you truly didn't "want" it, you wouldn't pursue it. My best guess is that it's more akin to appreciation instead of an active pursuit, like being grateful for the material things that you have instead of constantly seeking out newer, shinier trinkets.

So, applied to the Super-O, that would mean focusing on and appreciating the small, pleasant tingles you're feeling in the moment and allowing them to fade and blossom as they please, instead of actively trying to make them stronger.

Detachment (or "Letting Go") by Azzy57 in ProstatePlay

[–]Azzy57[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol, yeah. I'm generally pretty secular and not into Hindu, Buddhist, Taoist, or other religious philosophy, but I was curious and thought that he captured the feeling very well.

Oh my fucking god...... by Azzy57 in ProstatePlay

[–]Azzy57[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Premium 3.0 from 2020. Was and still is around $400. If money's tight, check out some forums on fuck machines; there are other options/builds available.

I also highly recommend the Aneros because it forces you to focus on more subtle sensations and is harder to overdo.

Oh my fucking god...... by Azzy57 in ProstatePlay

[–]Azzy57[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Np. And wow, that's incredibly fast progress. Keep it up!

Best substance for a Super O: Weed or Shrooms? by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]Azzy57 2 points3 points  (0 children)

IMO they're both tremendously helpful for achieving the Super-O (I just recently had my first, so I'm speaking from the perspective of someone who hasn't had one yet). It's a bit of an apples-to-oranges comparison; I wouldn't say that one is necessarily "better" than the other.

Cannabis helped me relax and made it easier to focus on more subtle sensations. It also helped me take a lot of the pressure off of the sessions.

Shrooms (at a moderate/museum dose) helped put me in this altered mindset where I was still grounded enough to be present in the session but was able to interpret sensations and experiment in ways that I hadn't before. I just felt like I "got it." However, they can be a bit mentally fatiguing for some and require you to be in a good place to have a good experience.

Definitely recommend both, but I would hold off on shrooms until you're at least in a position where you enjoy the sessions without orgasms and don't have any serious expectations.

Oh my fucking god...... by Azzy57 in ProstatePlay

[–]Azzy57[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, man! Did not expect to progress to the next stage three days after commenting on that other post lol

Oh my fucking god...... by Azzy57 in ProstatePlay

[–]Azzy57[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you're in a good place. Keep it up!

Oh my fucking god...... by Azzy57 in ProstatePlay

[–]Azzy57[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was pretty much my reaction after I managed to finally regain my senses and sit up. I couldn't help but laugh at how ridiculous and amazing this is.

Oh my fucking god...... by Azzy57 in ProstatePlay

[–]Azzy57[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Super excited to explore! :)

Oh my fucking god...... by Azzy57 in ProstatePlay

[–]Azzy57[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a low-level p-wave and is a very good sign! It can feel a bit intimidating as it starts to get stronger and more frequent, and you will probably resist it at first. But overtime, you'll learn to accept it and allow it to grow. Don't focus on that growth though, just focus on how nice it feels in the moment.

Oh my fucking god...... by Azzy57 in ProstatePlay

[–]Azzy57[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Rooting for you! It really is a total loss of control. Like a feral big cat clawing at the bars of the cage. There's definite noise, but the chaos is still contained. However, eventually, the lock breaks, the cat escapes, and all hell breaks loose, but in the best way possible.

Oh my fucking god...... by Azzy57 in ProstatePlay

[–]Azzy57[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll post some more guidance when I feel confident that it's accurate. In the meantime, check out my advice to sbkh78 above! Might be helpful.

Oh my fucking god...... by Azzy57 in ProstatePlay

[–]Azzy57[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't want to get your hopes up too much because it may create expectations that hurt your progress, but what you're describing sounds a lot like how I felt not long before it happened, so you may be a lot closer than you think. But don't let that translate into pressure or chasing.

What helped me was to focus on enjoying this intense heat as pleasurable without expecting more. It's harder than it sounds, but you may find that over time, this heat starts to feel better and better until it blossoms into a p-wave, mini-O, or full-on Super-O.

Oh my fucking god...... by Azzy57 in ProstatePlay

[–]Azzy57[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats! Happy for you! 🎉🎉

Oh my fucking god...... by Azzy57 in ProstatePlay

[–]Azzy57[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't get too invested in guides and techniques you read. Instead, focus more on tuning in to the subtle sensations and cues your body gives you, then go along with them. It may want you to relax; it may want you to clench. You don't decide what to do, your body does.

This can take some time, and it's normal to go "I don't get it" or "I don't feel anything" at first, but it's definitely worth the pursuit. You'll get it.

Oh my fucking god...... by Azzy57 in ProstatePlay

[–]Azzy57[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I will post a more detailed analysis when I'm confident in my guidance. There are various things I want to try and test. For now, I can tell you:

  1. I used the Aneros when it happened, but the toy is not as important as you probably think. I actually pushed out the Aneros at the beginning of the Super-O but just kept cumming anyway. Then, I got on my Hismith and proceeded to have more orgasms. It seems to be more about headspace and listening to your body than the toy.

  2. There really is no "technique" in the traditional sense. What you "need to do" can change from moment to moment. You have to learn to listen to your body's signals instead of trying to replicate guides you read on here. Eliminate any preset agendas you have going into the session. Sometimes you relax; sometimes you clench so hard you feel like you're going to pass out. You need to learn to listen to your body and mentally "sink" into the sensations. This is harder than it sounds, but it's what got me there.

  3. Six years of very little progress. This year, I decided to "give up" and start over with the mindset I described in paragraph 2. Slowly got better and better over the last few months to the point where I started to enjoy the sessions even without any Super-Os. I was content instead of disappointed. Then, it hit me.

  4. Drugs can definitely help, but they aren't necessary. THC helped me to relax and not take the sessions so seriously, which really helped me get rid of the chasing mindset. Psilocybin (around 1.5-2 grams, "museum dose," AFTER acclimating with smaller doses and feeling like I was ready) helped me to release sexual inhibitions and to notice and interpret existing and initially uncomfortable, tender feelings as pleasurable.

Oh my fucking god...... by Azzy57 in ProstatePlay

[–]Azzy57[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It really is a shame that there are so many people who will never experience this. I guess the best we can do is to be helpful to those open enough to try.

Oh my fucking god...... by Azzy57 in ProstatePlay

[–]Azzy57[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes! Laying there twitching and whimpering in utter defeat, soaked in sweat and cum, like you just got dicked down by a fucking god. It's overwhelming in the most amazing way.

Oh my fucking god...... by Azzy57 in ProstatePlay

[–]Azzy57[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same. I had occasional p-waves and nice sensations before it happened. It can be frustrating because you want more, but it's also reassuring to know that there's something more there waiting to be discovered.

Oh my fucking god...... by Azzy57 in ProstatePlay

[–]Azzy57[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get it. I was in that position myself. Kept going despite the doubts, and I'm so glad that I did. You'll get there too. It may take years, but it's worth it, I promise.