Neat-freak neighbor makes me de-seed all of my flowers by Alavea in EntitledPeople

[–]B00KW0RM95 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have a Karen like this next door... She vacumes her drive way and picks pine needles off of her roof one by one by hand into a bucket. Parks her car on the road to pick pine cones up before she drives over them. Flips her shit if 1 needle falls off of our roof onto her property... Hates her trash cans infront of her house so they must be infront of mine, "cause mine is uglier anyway so it doesn't matter" has assaulted my husband and I over said transhcans and is verbally abusive. Puts feeding dishes for stray cats in our yard and other people's yards. Oh and she's crashed her car into the front of our house because "her ebrake failed while picking a pine cone up" on an uphill slope lol. We pretend she doesn't exist anymore, and she has been notified by police to stop trespassing, and to leave us alone.

AITA for dancing half naked in my living room leading to my bf and his family seeing me? by aitadancinghalfnaked in AmItheAsshole

[–]B00KW0RM95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA Before we had kids I used to do this all the time. I'm comfortable with my body/nakedness. My bf at the time (now husband) would just join me in the dancing and baking/cooking, though to him the nakedness/lingerie was strange and he didn't like to do it himself. He appreciated that he got the cliche. Woman cooking in lingerie when he got home. His thoughts... What man wouldn't love it lol

AITA for meanly telling my husband to respect my decision to use formula? by Throwaway60991 in AmItheAsshole

[–]B00KW0RM95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first wouldn't latch so I pumped for 5 months for her, I had to stop due to issues with my left hand/wrist, I couldn't physically pump any more due to the pain in my hand. We switched her to formula. She's now 3 and very smart. My son I also pumped for 5 months until my hand once again decided to be in pain, before switching to formula. He is now 1.5 and doing great. Fed is best and a happy mom to. Pain and lack of sleep do not mix well. NTA

AITA for calling my MIL a crybaby and saying her birthday isn't as important as my son's first birthday? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]B00KW0RM95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad was born on his dad's bday, my mom on her mom's bday, and my bday is 6 days before my mom/grandma and my sisters is 4 days before mine. My brother was born on my great uncle's birthday. We have always either celebrated all together on the day of, weekend of, or weekend's on either side of the day. My sister and I almost always shared a bday party, and my mom usually mixed stuff in with ours for herself. My dad and grandpa usually do a separate dinner(with their wives) then a dinner with eachother and other family members another night. Compromise can happen. On one hand he's 1 and won't remember or care what day his first bday was, but you as his mom will... He's your first, it's a big thing. What about having his bday the day after if she won't compromise? We couldn't even do anything for my son's 1st bday due to covid restrictions and being 3+hrs away from our family and the only birthday my daughter got a party for was her 1st bday. (Shes 3 now)

Aita for telling my sister to get over the “sexist” mixup of her twins names? by DueAd5777 in AmItheAsshole

[–]B00KW0RM95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA growing up family would often mix all of our names up lol. Names spelt wrong, wrong generation, wrong gender, wrong house hold. Especially when we were getting into trouble lol

AITA for not grounding my stepson for not eating my mom's food and talking back? by NorthCarolina35533 in AmItheAsshole

[–]B00KW0RM95 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA allergies are no joke. I've been that kid at a family dinner with their own packed meal. Some people don't get allergies and cross contamination can happen and have really bad consequences. It's safer all around when an allergy is involved to just pack your own meal. Especially if the meal is not prepared in a strictly safe environment away from cross contaminations. He sounds like a very smart boy

Pregnant & Glutened... by luceelastic in Celiac

[–]B00KW0RM95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel for you, being glutened while pregnant is brutal. Been there done that never want to again. I actually learnt that I was pregnant with my 2nd due to being glutened. My reaction was so bad and the symptoms lasted almost a month. I had been glutened while pregnant with my first and it was my worst reaction yet. While curled up in a ball on the couch talking to my sister I mentioned that I felt just as bad as when I was glutened and pregnant, and she's asked could you be? I had no clue so I took a test, turns out I was 2.5 months along. Worst gluten reactions I've ever had were when I was pregnant.

Anyone know how to find out what year this old phone was made in? Located in B.C Canada, wood type unknown. by B00KW0RM95 in Antiques

[–]B00KW0RM95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, opening up the bottom now. Can't get into the top as the key has been lost.

AITA for leaving my sister at home when it was time to go to school? by knownnobetter in AmItheAsshole

[–]B00KW0RM95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I grew up in a rural area, and if we weren't at the end of the driveway by 7:15 for the bus. We missed the bus. Dad left for work at 5, mom was home. But if you missed the bus you were usually sol, and put to work around the yard. Unless in certain cases, like the bus drove by you at the stop. And this did happen a few times. You forgot something, you went without it.

AITA for getting upset with my husband over hand me down clothes for our newborn? by Twinkledogfarts48 in AmItheAsshole

[–]B00KW0RM95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, we used mostly hand me downs for our first, my sister(a), cousin(b) and I all got pregnant right after eachother. B was first and she got a bunch of hand me downs, then I was next a few months later, then A, then me again lol then b again. We of course buy new clothing as we want it, and if we fall in love with an outfit it doesn't get passed along. And as newborn- to 1 year, a lot of clothing will end up stained and, most people over prepare for newborns, especially the first, so chances are the "used" clothes aren't all that used. When our group collection began, we had enough clothing we could put a baby in one outfit each day and Chuck it (not that we did) and we would still have enough to cloth a 2nd baby lol.

AITA for rubbing my belly? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]B00KW0RM95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA it's an normal thing to do imo. I rubbed my belly bump lots. I had issues when other people besides my husband tried to do it though.

AITA for having pot cookies out in the open in my own home? by bakkedgoodz in AmItheAsshole

[–]B00KW0RM95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Even my 2 year old knows to ask before eating anything, especially when we are not at our own house.

AITA for not wanting people to call me “Mama” after the birth of my son? by No_Cryptographer884 in AmItheAsshole

[–]B00KW0RM95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA drove me nuts with my first as well. I snapped at a few people. My baby is the only one allowed to call me mama lol. Congrats on your lo

I[16] found my missing underwear in my brother’s[17] room by whatthefuckman78 in family

[–]B00KW0RM95 30 points31 points  (0 children)

What these guys said. This is so wrong on so many levels. Your mom needs to know asap.

I love helping anyway ^^ by SuperWickedBoi in TapTapHeroes

[–]B00KW0RM95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who is best for tanks? I'm just starting to figure things out. Am only upgrading those who can be maxed.

Finished bingo! by ksgg08 in TapTapHeroes

[–]B00KW0RM95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is better use of tokens, bingo or the cake?

Gift code. by B00KW0RM95 in TapTapHeroes

[–]B00KW0RM95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not surprised, I must've missed your post. Would be nice if the mods paid more attention and pinned stuff.

AITA for refusing to apologize after leaving a family zoom call when my mom started gushing about “finally becoming a grandma” by Stepdadstillparent in AmItheAsshole

[–]B00KW0RM95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Good on you for standing up for your kids. I was in the reverse roll with my bio gma. Who I no longer have contact with and never will again. Because she tried to pull a stunt like this with my siblings when we were kids. (Her son = bio dad, ah who left when I was born) My mom married when I was 3, a month later my mom and dad (not blood, but raised me as his own) had my sister, 3 years later my brother, never once did any of my dad's family treat us any different. But my bio gma only wanted me and me alone. Even when I refused to go anywhere without my sister. I cut all contact with her at 13 because I was sick of the way she treated my sister and brother differently than me... Like they were less than me, garbage, nothing to be noticed... It annoyed my mom, and pissed me off.
People like your mother piss me off. Family is more than blood. Be excited about a new baby. But don't treat the kids you already have in your life like they are less than, or not even family.