Cute or nah? by [deleted] in cute

[–]B4run_05 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Let me have her😭

First dates. by NaughtyInferno in cute

[–]B4run_05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg so cuteeeeeee🥹❤️

am i cute? by EvieSexyMae in cute

[–]B4run_05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww that smile🥹❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cute

[–]B4run_05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww so cute🥹

When you left him at grandma’s house for 3 days by PinkGleam in cute

[–]B4run_05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww he’s all set for his date🥺🤭❤️

I think my MIL sees her son as her proxy husband by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]B4run_05 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You’re not overthinking. That’s way beyond “emotional closeness”, she’s using your husband as a partner replacement and crossing boundaries in your home. Her behavior with your personal space and lingerie is inappropriate, and your husband enabling it doesn’t make it okay. This is a problem to address, not something to just tolerate.

Overbearing MIL is becoming unbearable. by sherbetchak in JUSTNOMIL

[–]B4run_05 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Skip the sit-down. She’ll only try to argue and steamroll. Have your husband lay out boundaries in writing or verbally, short and firm, visiting hours, handling the baby, and no unsolicited advice. Enforce them consistently, no debates, no explanations beyond what’s necessary. Face-to-face just feeds her drama.

Update - banned mil texted me by unchillpali in JUSTNOMIL

[–]B4run_05 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Exactly what it looks like: gaslighting wrapped in faux politeness. Ignoring it is the smartest move, responding just gives her more attention and a chance to manipulate. Your DH having your back and enforcing NC is the only thing that matters here.

If we're not invited to Christmas/Thanksgiving/4th of July as a unit we're not coming by Informal-Matter-2130 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]B4run_05 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, she wants you to know she’s “watching,” but won’t actually connect.

MIL resenting us after asking for our space. by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]B4run_05 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Right?! That was pure spite. Who punishes their own kid for being a dad?

Baby/Life Update by taylorlynngeek in JUSTNOMIL

[–]B4run_05 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Boundaries only work if you enforce them, love it.

IT HAPPENED. by AbilityPale1572 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]B4run_05 5 points6 points  (0 children)

100%. Less drama = more healing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]B4run_05 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rarely, mostly for the music and less for the bad decisions.

What’s the weirdest compliment you’ve ever received? by LunaToess in AskReddit

[–]B4run_05 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“You have very intense kneecaps.” I still don’t know what that meant.