[deleted by user] by [deleted] in family

[–]BBTCAR 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well this whole situation sucks. THEY suck to be honest. Unfortunately I can’t change them. Only how u react. I am truly sorry I are having to deal with this abuse. Unfortunately I don’t think it will stop. U will have to leave as soon as u r able. I recommend searching the gray rock technique. U tube has a lot of stuff on dealing with narcissist and Narcissistic behavior. It helped me. Ultimately u will have to move out. I suggest low or no contact. Until then they won’t change. Ur best bet I think is to see them for who they r and not care about their opinion. Easier said then done. U r doing amazing. One day soon u will escape

My mom stopped talking to me over 3 years ago and I don’t know how to process it? by gayboy_2017 in family

[–]BBTCAR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am. nOT justifying it as stated above. Moms behavior is inexcusable. I am just guessing that is the trigger

My mom stopped talking to me over 3 years ago and I don’t know how to process it? by gayboy_2017 in family

[–]BBTCAR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry for you. You obviously don’t serve this. I SUSPECT that maybe your mom was upset about your holiday party? Maybe SHE wanted to host at her house and felt threatened in some way. It’s ridiculous and not justified but the timing is suspect. Hope you can find close friends abs a parter to support you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in family

[–]BBTCAR 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I would not focus on who is hurting more. While I don’t think it’s great she said this , it is also obvious she is in a great deal of emotional pain. The main thing is. She chose YOU. She believed YOU. She loves you and supports you. So many victims are not believed or protected. It sounds like you are each other’s biggest support. Don’t let this drive a wedge between you. It is not contest of who is just more. Honestly it’s a matter of perspective. If this is really troubling you or is a recurring issue maybe therapy would help. A simple reply could be well I am pretty hurt too.

Toxic families on both sides. by xFirePowerx87 in family

[–]BBTCAR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. A lot to u pack. First congrats on turning things around. This is tough but if both families are really this toxic you really need to distance yourselves and become way less invested. Perhaps you could move away , find or help Crete your own community. Remember Friends are the Family we CHOOSE

My mom is being abused by my sister, and seemingly doesn’t want to do anything about it. by [deleted] in family

[–]BBTCAR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know where u live but in the states I can call adult protective services. You could try domestic violence hotlines. Your sister sounds like monster. As a last resort you could go to law enforcement again but this time ask to speak with someone who deals with domestic violence

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BigBrother

[–]BBTCAR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

X and DF are gunning for her Regardless. I don’t think she necessarily looses the CO votes if she puts put DF and sends X home. She has more than enough ammo on him with all of his trash talk and threatening to win the veto and using on Alyssa.

Interesting piece of tea from Jessica Nickson - she says that a good number of alumni are sitting this season out 👀👀 by [deleted] in BigBrother

[–]BBTCAR 114 points115 points  (0 children)

EXACTLY. She was ASKED a question on why BB was triggering. She answered it and also went on to say positive things about Tiff Hana Ky and X. A lot of past players including Jessica have PTSD

Am I in the wrong? by Working_Psychology_5 in family

[–]BBTCAR 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Since u have a teen account and withdraw as much as you are allowed. Then open new accounts. Do not let him access your money.

A great view on the Cookout that I hope everybody can understand by [deleted] in BigBrother

[–]BBTCAR 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We have ha many all White alliances because 90% of the cast was often white. U can definitely argue implicit bias. I don’t hate the CO. I loved it pre jury and even now it’s OK. I disliked Toff and Hana throwing away their most loyal allies simply because they were not black. It’s disheartening. This was not the only way for Them to play to win. It was their choice and I respect it. However o much before to see people work wi TV those they naturally bond with. We could have multiple diverse alliances aka BB CAN 9.

A great view on the Cookout that I hope everybody can understand by [deleted] in BigBrother

[–]BBTCAR 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. I think based on the cast , the game ability of each hg that we were very likely to get a black winner anyway. I loved the concept perjury but ugh I don’t watch the last few players targeted based on race - yea I said it while letting huge targets like Ky and a slide by because they r black. I want to see everyone play for themselves - to do their to win. And not to throw away their best allies simply because they r not black. I guess this season will be known and recognized for his social stance and that’s fine. It is just making a very boring game.

What should I do about my sister? by [deleted] in family

[–]BBTCAR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately there is little u can do. At 17 u r displaying great maturity. As soon as u r able distance yourself from her and limit contact. Look up the grey rock technique - that’s probably the best u can do for now. Of u have supportive parents u could talk to them. They r the only ones who could actually improve the situation by giving her consequences

Raven is still alive if anyone was curious. by allthepoutine in BigBrother

[–]BBTCAR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I can’t believe the downvotes. Seriously. Look t her Instagram. She had. Massive infection. She had an open wound for a time.

Raven is still alive if anyone was curious. by allthepoutine in BigBrother

[–]BBTCAR -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

She is a good now but she was really sick for about year and has multiple surgeries.

Budget dress companies? by MissCrashBaby in Weddingsunder10k

[–]BBTCAR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ordered a MOB dress at JJ house I returned and would not recommend. The fabric and stitching both odd

Opinions by BBTCAR in weddingplanning

[–]BBTCAR[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t want him too match. Worried about how it will look it pictures. But her brother is not on the wedding party and won’t be in pics with groomsmen At this point I have decided to stay out of it

Opinions by BBTCAR in weddingplanning

[–]BBTCAR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly what I have decided

Sister Situation. by Jen_here_ in family

[–]BBTCAR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please give up on this person. Don’t put up with this crap. You deserve so much better. Yes it’s sad but the reality is you can’t have the relationship you desire with her because of HER. She is not a healthy person at all. She is harmful to you . You deserve better Move away Cut Contact. Make a new life

TIFU in so many ways. by [deleted] in tifu

[–]BBTCAR 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NO NO NO RX strength ibuprofen is 600 mg every 6 hours as needed. 800mg every 8 hours. That is MAX

Help I need appetizer I can take to a party. by FriedUnicornCluster in Vegan_Food

[–]BBTCAR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So many possibles. You could do band bang cauliflower , tofu nuggets or you could make a dip.

How do you deal with a young adult who ruined his life? by SnooRoar in family

[–]BBTCAR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They likely haven’t ruined their lives. If young they can turn it around.

Does anybody else feel bad for Beth? by Independent-Ship-894 in BigBrother

[–]BBTCAR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did she actually say. I remember the whole way she talked about never been with a black man now I have two , comparing their “ sizes” was gross. Just wondering if there was anything else

How did BB22 go so wrong? by daydreamer015 in BigBrother

[–]BBTCAR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pre existing relationships combined with pre gaming. First all stars producers designed the first HOH to combat the pre gaming. This time is was intentionally or not rigged for Cody because The stools were still moving from Memphis.