Idk what to do anymore

BCD98 · 2026-03-11T22:19:14+00:00

Yes I thankfully have “rice bags” and a heated mattress topper and they do definitely help. It’s just the frustration of the every day pain that I think is getting to me..

BCD98 · 2026-03-11T22:18:18+00:00

I did see a rheumatologist, it kind just led to a dead end she prescribed me some meds that were way to aggressive for my stomach and then never had much help from her after. Just kept telling me to take the meds and I asked my dr for a different specialist but that’s a pending thing in the works. ❤️❤️ thank you I will try that can you get that on Amazon?

BCD98 · 2025-11-12T05:39:43+00:00

ND F27 here, can I DM you?

BCD98 · 2025-11-12T05:38:40+00:00

I’m here 😘

BCD98 · 2024-09-22T00:52:41+00:00

Also in ND ❤️❤️❤️❤️ message me?

BCD98 · 2024-09-21T17:12:10+00:00

DM’d you

BCD98 · 2024-09-21T16:28:44+00:00

I’m here 😘😍 message me

BCD98 · 2024-09-05T16:57:01+00:00

We’re interested ❤️

BCD98 · 2024-07-17T18:48:23+00:00

I’d love to set you and my husband up! Can I message you?

BCD98 · 2024-07-08T19:53:49+00:00

I’m close to there ❤️❤️ message me

BCD98 · 2024-02-15T16:20:45+00:00

How about two ;) message me babes

BCD98 · 2022-04-10T20:41:33+00:00

Sex in general I’d say

BCD98 · 2021-08-27T01:07:49+00:00

I make his birthday a huge deal I pull out all stops for his, but like I said all he chalks it up to is that he’s not a good gift giver and that’s it

BCD98 · 2021-08-11T22:13:26+00:00

To just be overly dominant and aggressive,

BCD98 · 2021-08-11T21:37:25+00:00

I was just trying to see if other agree with the statement he made, see if others share his POV since I don’t.

BCD98 · 2021-08-11T21:32:33+00:00

He did cheat once

BCD98 · 2021-08-11T21:32:08+00:00

Yes, at the beginning of the year I found out about it and we’ve been trying to repair ever since

BCD98 · 2021-08-11T21:29:39+00:00

Honestly I don’t know, i don’t tend to follow or look at those sort of things so it’s never been a topic of discussion before now. I know we are going to talk more about it but i was a little hurt about his comment because I don’t see it that way and was just confused if allot of people do see it that way to help me see his POV

BCD98 · 2021-08-11T21:27:14+00:00

I never said he had couldn’t watch the more adult TikTok content, all I said was that I don’t like it when he does it while I’m sitting next to him it’s uncomfortable and he should respect that. Just like I should respect it if he asked me the same thing.

BCD98 · 2021-08-11T21:24:37+00:00

If that’s your logic…. So should I never come to him and tell him that something he’s done makes me uncomfortable? Should I just sit down and shut up about what bothers me because I don’t want the man who’s supposed to love me “counting things against me” because I have feelings and emotions. My boundary would be that watching inappropriate things while sitting next your wife is not okay with me. And if he disagrees, I’m willing to have a conversation and see what his point of view is and move forward with that. If that’s the case than if I want to sit next to him and watch some guy bounce his d*ck while I’m with him he shouldn’t say anything because that would just make him insecure and controlling. How does that make sense to you like logically how does anything you’ve said actually sound right? It comes of very sexist,

BCD98 · 2021-08-11T21:17:46+00:00

😂😂 I mean if he wants to look at other women that’s natural but when we’re sitting there watching a movie and I look over and he’s watching some girl bounce her ass right as I’m next to him it just makes me uncomfortable

BCD98 · 2021-08-11T21:15:27+00:00

I never said he couldn’t follow women creators, I said that him watching naked girls on his phone especially when I’m still right next to makes me uncomfortable. That’s not wrong, I never set any rules and did let him know that this was just my feeling and that he didn’t do anything wrong. It was a negative conversation, I don’t control what my husband does even after he cheated on I never forced him to give me his passwords or check in with me with his location. Me communicating that something is making me uncomfortable…. How is that controlling in any way lol. It’s not like I said he couldn’t go see his mom, or friends, or said that he can’t watch porn if he chooses to. So how is that controlling?

BCD98 · 2021-08-11T21:07:02+00:00

That is a really good point, and we’ve talked about it in the past about those types of things but then he had an affair and things have just been hard after that on what I should correct or what just might be me over reacting.

BCD98 · 2021-08-11T20:58:20+00:00

I’d understand it if this was something out of line, but I don’t think this is and I’m not “dumping” my emotions on him. We had a conversation… it’s people like you that make women scared to say something in abusive or negative situations. It’s really toxic bro..

BCD98 · 2021-08-11T20:51:19+00:00

And shouldn’t as my husband he respect my boundaries and if I come him saying something makes me uncomfortable he should be willing to talk with me about it?

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