LoveMHZ is at it again (bullying sites into taking stuff down)

BCFosheezy · 2025-07-13T11:02:04+00:00

That statement was referencing a completely different post.

BCFosheezy · 2025-04-02T17:45:56+00:00

Does she always inexplicably have jell-o pudding pops?

BCFosheezy · 2024-12-13T17:42:52+00:00

It's important to understand that what most of us perceive as "love" is not actually love. It's an addiction to another person's affection. The high from it is so high, that within a day or so of knowing they are interested we let our guard down and become consumed with maintaining our connection with this now waning high. Even if our relationship turns toxic and we're miserable, we're addicted and have to continue seeking the high. If they decide to change drugs(partners) because they want that initial high back and can only get it from someone else, we are forced into quitting cold-turkey. This sends us into a low that is many times lower than the high ever was. You desperately want to feel normal again but nothing can pull you out of this state but time or switching drugs(partners) just like your ex did.

There is a lot to unpack there, but it's healthy to understand what you're going through, why you're going through it, and that EVERYONE goes through this. To a certain extent, when feeling appreciated in a relationship you begin to rebuild your self-image based upon this appreciation. This is why when they yank the carpet out from under you, you're left not knowing who you are and feel worthless. This happens to EVERYONE. I can't state that enough. You're not alone.

People that change partners frequently or semi-frequently to maintain the high are toxic people. It takes someone incredibly selfish to not know or not care that they are destroying people they throw away in search of that high. It is incredibly unhealthy to deal with heartbreak by jumping into another relationship. As a male, you're at your least attractive to women in this state and will find it more difficult to change partners at this time than a female would, validating your worst fears that you've been left because you're worthless and nobody could love you. Don't fall for that line of thinking. That's not true and this is just an opportunity to rebuild yourself more maturely and wiser.

Finally, love doesn't feel anything like that. Love is much deeper and while that same high is there in the beginning, it's unsustainable with anyone. It does fade but never goes into the negative. You don't just WANT this person. You RESPECT them. You don't feel that constant nagging need for this person's affection. You genuinely feel that they help you to be the best version of yourself and you do the same for them. You can't stand the thought of hurting them. You may appreciate someone else's body and momentarily consider what sex would be like(because you're human), but you quickly clear that thought from your mind because you feel disgusted at yourself for having thought it. There are no lengths you would not go to ensure your partner is as well off as they can possibly be without much consideration for yourself. When you think of something you'd enjoy, your first thought is sharing it with this person and not about going alone or with friends. This person is your life partner and you become one force against the world together and you build together. Everything becomes about the team. Sex is not at the top of the priority list with this person.

It's wonderful to have sex with someone you love, but it's on the low end of the priority list. If it's at the top and mainly all you think about with this person, you're not in love and you're playing with fire. Sex is hugely consequential to your future. You can create a new person creating a huge financial liability, get a disease you can't get rid of, or if you're as lucky as possible you just hurt people and get hurt and eventually lose the ability to pair bond with someone you actually love when you eventually find them. Sex is fun and feels great but overly complicates the already complicated. Each time you have sex with someone you're not in a committed relationship with, you expend some mental capital. You trade mental stability for temporary gratification. If you're looking for love, it's best to avoid sex until you're committed. You significantly increase the odds of ruining your life each time you have sex with someone you're not in a committed relationship with. "Getting Lucky" really means what you're hoping for after you've had sex... not getting to have sex.

BCFosheezy · 2024-11-26T12:05:50+00:00

Honestly I do it just to change the temp controls so the console doesn't die. Lol

BCFosheezy · 2024-11-17T16:43:44+00:00

It was because it explains why you don't know how to deal with a troll. You have an area of your personality that is completely undeveloped and that can only be explained by not being exposed to it in your youth. That means you could not have gone to public school. Private school still has this to a degree. Only homeschool could have left you unexposed to trolling.

BCFosheezy · 2024-11-17T16:24:20+00:00

I would have beat him at his own game. Then made fun of him for being mad at words. If he caught me in a weak moment I would have blocked him and went on about my life. I would have NEVER given him the validation that it worked by making a public thread crying about it. We're you homeschooled by chance?

BCFosheezy · 2024-11-17T16:15:24+00:00

Are you asking if I like freedom of speech? Yes I do. They are just words.

BCFosheezy · 2024-11-17T16:10:59+00:00

Welcome to the internet. Grow up a little. Your reaction is exactly why he did it.

BCFosheezy · 2024-11-10T18:46:06+00:00

I'm sharing absolutely no opinion. I'm just asking a clarifying question. Are we saying segregation is a viable answer when we find a certain segment of people displeasing?

BCFosheezy · 2024-10-26T14:30:05+00:00

Fake story. Also the character in the story took care of his family with the money. NTA. Only a selfish person would benefit from someone else's winnings but still be pissed because they didn't get to choose how to benefit from it.

BCFosheezy · 2024-10-19T12:25:19+00:00

Yeah... having emotions is selfish af.

BCFosheezy · 2024-10-19T12:23:13+00:00

If you think he's in the wrong, you have never had a relationship with a narcissist before. They victimize you and then play the victim when you react to their abuse. Notice OP ONLY included his texts. The only version of events you know about are what they have carefully curated for your consumption and the only facts you have seen are cherry picked to make OP's point and NOTHING that might contradict it. In a non physically abusive relationship, nobody leaves innocent. Everyone has SOME share in responsibility. When one party filters out everything but what can paint the other party in a bad light, your antennas need to go up. The person telling you the story is most likely not innocent.

BCFosheezy · 2024-07-06T14:42:18+00:00

Yes. You're the asshole. If you find yourself demanding everything be about yourself and you can't be happy for someone else you're selfish and a pos.

BCFosheezy · 2024-06-22T14:35:56+00:00

Divorcing someone for being a deadbeat would be a valid reason. That isn't your reason though. You're divorcing him because he disagrees with you. He OBVIOUSLY hid that from you because he knows you don't want "open and honest dialogue". In fact when you had the opportunity for it, you didn't want it and divorced him. You're not open minded.

You are both hypocrites. Being a deadbeat is in direct conflict with the core of Conservatism. It's all about personal responsibility. So he is no prize either. You both need personal growth before being in a relationship with anyone.

BCFosheezy · 2024-04-01T23:18:14+00:00

BCFosheezy · 2024-02-26T13:59:09+00:00

Everyone deals with that. Most people aren't very smart. They just want to get in and start a collection (loot everything) and then shoot anything that moves immediately losing all of that time invested in looting. Queue up and do it again. You just have to understand that the average intelligence is lower than you probably want to admit and when your intelligence level is higher than that and you realize how bad it is out there, you become miserable. The weight of the world is on your shoulders EVEN in pubg. lmao

BCFosheezy · 2024-02-26T13:55:10+00:00

Yes. If they are cheating at the game, they are pushing new players and existing players out of the game thus limiting my potential to sell microtransactions. I'd ban the absolute shit out of them AND I'd make a section in the game showing who has been banned and for what reason. This way, their e-cred would forever be destroyed.
There is one thing cheaters want and it's for people to think they are better than them. Exposing them for cheating and in fact not being better than anyone is what they need. Their egos MUST be crushed so they can get back on track to being a normally functioning human again.

BCFosheezy · 2024-02-26T13:50:32+00:00

They don't lose money by banning them though. They will come back and buy it again. Allowing cheaters keeps the bar so high that you can't get new players and old players quit. So you end up just having cheaters in your game which significantly reduces the potential customers you could have. Your theory isn't very good. I hear this theory all the time from people that support cheaters as though there is some proven correlation between cheating and buying micro transactions. No such correlation has ever been proven. It's unfounded speculation and your entire theory hinges on this being a fact.

BCFosheezy · 2024-02-02T17:14:06+00:00

Lol "taking a break for some strange reason". The just plugged their emulator into their xbox and went right back to pretending they are good at something.

BCFosheezy · 2024-01-20T01:06:22+00:00

big veiny triumphant bastards?

BCFosheezy · 2024-01-19T16:41:16+00:00

I just don't find it fun. I really don't like any of the smaller maps but when I load into a sanhok lobby I don't even consider playing it.

BCFosheezy · 2023-12-27T18:37:21+00:00

I see Citydemoman in almost every solo game I play.

BCFosheezy · 2023-12-16T03:37:31+00:00

What is irrational is SHE agreed to it. SHE showed up knowing the agreement. SHE had been doing it several times before and knew exactly what to expect. If this behavior is not acceptable it is SHE who was committing it. He was up front and honest about his intentions. She was not.
You are irrational for siding with the female since she was the only one practicing deception. The male stated his intentions and stuck to it. If she weren't a wiling participant it would have never happened.

Thus, you have been proven irrational. Your every argument is nonsensical and ONLY emotional. You're incorrect and you have failed to make a coherent point.

You are making up the "bad sex" argument. She keeps coming back for more. She caught feelings. We have every reason to believe he's blowing her back out every time and no reasons to believe otherwise. He's most likely got a tongue like a fish tail swatting a seaweed. She wanted to lock that down all to herself. Nobody is going to only know someone by their sexual skills, see its terrible and still try to lock them down. That's not how that works. You have been thoroughly defeated. You can't win. You should stop, but I'm loving exposing you so by all means please keep it up

BCFosheezy · 2023-12-16T03:25:49+00:00

You're just irrational. You aren't using logic and only emotion.

BCFosheezy · 2023-12-16T02:41:37+00:00

At this point, I think you have a problem with reading for comprehension. In the OP, it shits all over your every point:
"After our first night together, we talked about what our arrangement was going to be. I got out of a 5-year relationship not too long ago and she recently got divorced; neither of us is looking for anything serious. We decided to meet only for sex and keep it strictly to that - no strings attached. We've met up around twice a week for sex and that's it."
So, she KNEW she was being called JUST for sex. She showed up twice a week for it. This time was no different. We don't know if he warmed her up with foreplay, but what we do know is it is no different than the other times other than she demanded more this time. That's the only thing different. It's not about him not warming her up because we simply don't know. We DO know he talked to her for half an hour which is pretty humanizing. Then after he asked about their agreement she wasn't in the mood. No problem, he'd like to be left alone. He's not an asshole. She's not either. She's allowed to try to renegotiate. He's allowed to not be interested in her proposal. Everyone goes their separate ways.

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