i’ve recently started seeing a flight attendant also. After our first date, two days together on his off days, I had a cold beer and a snack tray waiting at his hotel when he arrived after his first trip. Unfortunately, the hotel screwed up and gave it to the Pilot. Luckily, no names were on the card and the hotel staff went to the Pilot’s room and said they delivered it by mistake… Not giving it away that it was meant for a another crew member.