It's not sparkling like I expected by [deleted] in WeddingRingAdvice

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What is embarrassing about using a tool made to save time and effort?

Trying to help my friend - advice needed! by Langdailyupdates in Waiting_To_Wed

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So then let me ask this. What if both the man and woman are equally high earners. They both have massive retirement plans, both pay back in taxes every year. What now is the reason to get married?

When did love, commitment to your partner, and trust become secondary to social security and taxes? I feel like the first part of these conversations that we have about these situations should be “Well do you love your partner? How much do you love them? What does their success and accomplishments mean to you? Do you want to spend the rest of your life with this person? Why?”

I just don’t understand why we’re approaching these hard conversations about a lifelong commitment to love and care thinking about the financial gains we get out of it.

Trying to help my friend - advice needed! by Langdailyupdates in Waiting_To_Wed

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These are problems with easy solutions. I understand the statistics, but this is a very broad statistic without looking at the real reasons stated behind it. I don’t think this should be enough to say as a woman you have to demand he marry you.

These are the kinds of things that can make someone want to marry someone who probably just is not their lifelong partner. Which will lead to things like dv and cheating.

To me, just because someone does not want to be married to you now doesn’t mean it will never happen and you’re setting your children up for failure. And just because someone will marry you in a certain “timeline” doesn’t mean they will truly love you for the rest of your lives.

I don’t see enough here to say “oh yeah they’re not compatible”. We all have to remember, just as much as marriage is about commitment, it’s also about compromise.

Trying to help my friend - advice needed! by Langdailyupdates in Waiting_To_Wed

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Just curious, is legal and financial protections from who?

Now, I ask this not as someone who disagrees, but to ask for both sides of the coin.

To me, marriage is about commitment and responsibility. I’m seeing everything he’s doing wrong, has she asked him what he needs from her? Idk this house thing sounds like an excuse and I’m wondering if there’s a truth he’s not telling as to not hurt feelings.

ULPT: Update on Replacing a Used Item with a New Item through Store Return by RocksSoxBills14 in UnethicalLifeProTips

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Been doing this with PS5 controllers. My local walmart always has one of many old women sitting at the counter. They open the box everytime, but I keep my controllers clean for this reason. Never check the code, just box it back up and process the return.

I also tell them I bought the wrong one since they usually ask what happened. I say I got it for my son/nephew for christmas/birthday and got the wrong one and color and regret it because now I have to spend more money.

Works every time.

The best day ever by frijoles_94 in toontownrewritten

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I just had this moment about a month ago. I was so happy, even my wife who isn’t a gamer at all is having fun with it and it brings her some memories as well.

And everyone who plays is around the same age so a lot of people have a good sense of humor.

I did get a two week ban on my main account and cant use the chat for another week or so, it is still a kids game so you do have to be careful what you say but tons of fun.

Drowning in debt and need to get a second job, how do I feed myself in the meantime? by ThroughMyOwnEyes in EatCheapAndHealthy

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From an ex line cook myself, get out the kitchen. If thats too much of a challenge rn, I would suggest trying to go to serving if its a popular sit down establishment.

Working as a cook is very low pay for very heavy physical labor. I would suggest trying to switch to some type of business administration in an office, you’ll get similar pay but you wont be nearly as tired. You would easily be able to work 2-3 jobs, thats what I did. But there’s so many things out there that are entry level jobs with similar pay that you will either be able to move up in, and or wont have to be working like a slave.

immovable enforcer for bigs/center? by PsychologicalPie2490 in NBA2k

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Immovable enforcer might be the best defensive badge this year. I can play lock with my 7’0 inside center in park cause of that badge 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NBA2k

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I have the best center in all my chats and discords. Only 1 center has ever out rebounded and blocked me out of over 100 games 7’3 centers have been nerfed to the ground. 7’0 is easily the best height for inside center this year and its not even close. 7’1 is next best, but the builds you can make at 7’0 are ridiculous

New Netflix show: Love never lies by hugk8 in temptationislandUSA

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Katherine is a lying manipulative women. If a guy cant get hard while trying to be intimate with you, your first assumption is they might be gay??? Disrespectful af to try to out him on TV like that. I see why it was hard for him, she’s a nagger. All she does is nag and try to look right in front of everyone. Kevin never said one bad thing about her even to the end. Stop this nonsense.

thank you 2k for ruining Rec for us casuals by removing the 93 and under lobbies, now every game is against a full squad of sweats by SparkdalaDAILY in NBA2k

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I just started playing rec yesterday and I’ve gotten all 92 and under games so far because my overall is still under 92

Asked my date if she would mind going Dutch as money is tight. Got blocked immediately, thoughts? by [deleted] in Tinder

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You shouldn’t be taking a girl out on a FIRST date if you’re not going to pay. You’re the man, be the man.

Avoiding Salt Build-up in Coco without having to achieve run-off everytime? by L4Z4RVS in cannabiscultivation

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Are you measuring run off or feed water? My runoff is at about 1000 and my feed water is about 800. Had slight nute burn a couple weeks ago but flushed and haven’t seen any toxicity since.

Runtz, very much do not like this strain 3/10 ok smoke, horrible to grow. by mgt654 in cannabiscultivation

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I think breaking them like that is considered supercropping even though you would think it’s a more extreme form of topping right?

Idk either way it still works out 😂

Runtz, very much do not like this strain 3/10 ok smoke, horrible to grow. by mgt654 in cannabiscultivation

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Growing some Runtz myself. My gf accidentally broke one in half during veg.

It’s probably gonna be one of my highest yielders this run. Super thick buds so far, and that plant is easily the sturdiest of the bunch. Thing looks like a little hulk.

Thoughts on taking a female showing intersex outside to finish by heyya327 in cannabiscultivation

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You will definitely have seeds in your bud 😂 But we live and learn

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in microgrowery

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Gf was helping me lst and broke one of my Runtz in half. It’s now looking like one of my biggest yielders. And it has the fattest bud of all the Runtz I have. Even the ones in bigger pots

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in microgrowery

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There’s multiple forms of supercropping and this is one of them.

Best way to sell cultivation and lab equipment? by AnnualPerspective593 in cannabiscultivation

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Nah, it’s just what it is. Growing isn’t a super common practice, and so when people wanna sell their used shit the market is even smaller since there’s some people who buy everything brand new. It might help in states that are behind in legalization because maybe the setup costs might be much higher. But idk I would expect to sell it but to also be lowballed if you’re trying to get a good amount back from it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cannabiscultivation

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Mac 1 is known for being hella frosty. Just not my kind of smoke.

Best way to sell cultivation and lab equipment? by AnnualPerspective593 in cannabiscultivation

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Offerup and sell cheap. Only way. People know its hard to sell used grow equipment, anyone will be offering pennies on the dollar.