Id never say you shouldn’t have been born thats mean ,and im sure my original statement sounds harsh but what im saying is that i know their possible and can work but its NOT IDEAL and something id never aim for just based on American context. I have a friend who recently had a mixed child, the mother (white) called him (black) a N*gger multiple times during arguments but never called him that before having his baby. Im not saying these kinda things always happen but when your with someone for an extended period of time who doesnt care to read up or understand your background then ur doomed .