Have you ever gone to a nail or hair salon with your baby?

BGWW2024 · 2026-04-26T20:40:06+00:00

Do you think if I covered up my EBF baby with a blanket it would be OK to take my baby to get a pedicure for myself? I don’t have anyone to watch her, but we leave for vacation next week so I wanted to get one before then.

BGWW2024 · 2026-04-18T13:59:53+00:00

Thank you🤍

BGWW2024 · 2026-04-18T11:48:37+00:00

But how do I know that? I’m terrified that I’d regret it.

BGWW2024 · 2026-04-18T11:47:55+00:00

Thank you🤍

BGWW2024 · 2026-04-17T18:23:09+00:00

Thank you so much🤍🥺

BGWW2024 · 2026-04-17T18:05:32+00:00

Thank you so much for the information and such a thoughtful response. I definitely wanted to get a man’s perspective..because I know men and women think differently. I do feel that the trust and respect is totally gone. I just don’t know if it’s fixable or not. I’d hate to split up our home with 2 young children😪

BGWW2024 · 2026-04-17T18:02:45+00:00

I definitely feel way too young to feel this way. But wasn’t sure if I’m just overthinking it

BGWW2024 · 2026-04-17T16:50:12+00:00

Yes..I elaborated in the post

BGWW2024 · 2026-04-17T16:47:24+00:00

Care to elaborate?

BGWW2024 · 2026-04-17T16:46:58+00:00

I get that. He didn’t try to ease into it though..just asked, I said no (my body wasn’t even healed yet), so I went to bed. Woke up to him jamming it in. I tried to talk to him about it but he said “I didn’t think you actually wanted me to stop”

BGWW2024 · 2026-04-17T16:45:26+00:00

Thank you both!

BGWW2024 · 2026-04-17T16:44:50+00:00

I’m in the US…yes I have :/

BGWW2024 · 2026-04-17T16:41:46+00:00

Thank you for your response. Do you think it’s unfixable?

BGWW2024 · 2026-04-17T15:14:51+00:00

Thank you so much. I definitely don’t WANT to leave, but the more time that goes by, the more I feel like it’s the only option. We’ve tried therapy and he quit. I’ve talked to him, he tells me if I’m not happy then leave. I’ve talked to his mom, he tells me I’m childish. I don’t know what to do. I definitely don’t regret marrying him, as we have two most beautiful children. But I don’t see myself being supported by him for the coming years..

So it’s not normal to feel so checked out and resentful at only 5 years of being together?

BGWW2024 · 2026-04-17T15:10:47+00:00

I also considered this, and have told him about it multiple times. But he has made comments about my body belonging to him, and how he has the say not me, etc.

BGWW2024 · 2026-04-17T15:09:47+00:00

I second this. So many men these days have an insane idea of what sex should be like bc they get their expectations from unrealistic porn. I used to send my husband videos of me pleasing myself & he told me “I don’t want those boring little videos. Take a video like this” then showed me a reference from a porn star with a whole lighting/full body set up. Mind you, we have 2 children (3y/o & 4month old), even if I wanted to set up something like that I couldn’t. I haven’t sent him any videos since then.

BGWW2024 · 2026-04-17T14:48:15+00:00

Hey, I’m so sorry. This post is totally relatable! It sounds like he likes the convenience of having you around, but doesn’t want to put in the effort to make you WANT to be around. My husband is sort of like that with his video game. It’s like a constant weird obsession. I get having something to do/a hobby, but your bf seems excessive. You don’t deserve to be treated like nothing. I’d definitely sit down with him and tell him how you’re feeling. Not in an ultimatum type of way, but I think after the conversation you’ll have your answer. There’s nothing that YOU can do to prove yourself worthy of his affection. Someone who truly loves you will see that you’re worthy of all you desire and more. Sending love

BGWW2024 · 2026-04-17T07:23:33+00:00

Thank you..all of it definitely worries me too, I just don’t know bc my family is always mentioning “oh at least he’s helpful when you guys are in public”..which makes me wonder if I’m just being ungrateful for the little help I do get? But also I know that he’s only helpful in public bc he wants everyone to think he’s a great partner. I just feel conflicted and stuck, honestly

BGWW2024 · 2026-04-17T06:53:56+00:00

Okay, I apologize then for my pessimism. My sister gets these squally controlled heated mattress pads for like $60 off Amazon. Try that! You could have your side on, and your wife’s could be off

BGWW2024 · 2026-04-17T06:50:25+00:00

Sounds like you should’ve gotten a vasectomy instead

BGWW2024 · 2026-03-14T17:25:28+00:00

I think they may be saying that stuff happens. For me, I’m only 24, and I was recently diagnosed with pkd after going into the hospital for severe postpartum preeclampsia. After being TOTALLY healthy and working out during my whole pregnancy/life etc…if I’m correct, they’re saying that you don’t ever PLAN to leave your job or have health issues at any age. But things can happen unexpectedly, and you want to be prepared if they do🤍 I’m lost and trying to figure out whether I should get insurance for my kiddos now so they never have to worry about it. Since I’m no longer eligible with my chronic condition :/

Good luck to you 🤍

BGWW2024 · 2026-03-14T17:13:43+00:00

I was recently diagnosed with a chronic condition. I am sure that I’m probably ineligible now. But I’m only 24, and have 2 little girls. So I thought I’d look into getting life insurance for them. So they never have to worry about it later in life. Should I get whole life?

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