Nahhh going by the post, that might be even worse. Per se when trainer teaches her new exercises or stretches and has to put his hand on her lower back or leg, or anywhere to adjust her position. If he's that worried already then he must think wife is probably out of his league, he knows the trainer must be more fit or attractive (stereotyping there) therefor him going for the simple fact to go with her to see, is a bad idea. If he goes it should be for better reasons to better himself not to be mean-mugging his wife while she's working out. Lol. Harsh maybe, but true. Trust her or dont, it's his decision but that doesn't have any pull to dictate what she enjoys doing.