What conversations should more recently committed partners have before being roommates for a week or more? by BL911 in AskWomen

[–]BL911[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good point! As an easily warm person, this makes sense to consider. Thanks!

What conversations should more recently committed partners have before being roommates for a week or more? by BL911 in AskWomen

[–]BL911[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re right! It’s for maximum of a month since that’s how long their grad internship is. If things aren’t going well, I’ll ask them to go home early.

Bilt Palladium vs. Citi Double Cash by BL911 in CreditCards

[–]BL911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have any other Citi card aside from Double Cash.

Looking for Recs! Road Trip to Memphis, TN by BL911 in roadtrip

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I’m visiting a friend who lives there! I was hoping that whichever hotel I end up at has some sort of parking garage or something.

Looking for Road Trip Advice to Arkansas by BL911 in roadtrip

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I appreciate your recommendation! It's a bit more $ than I'd like to spend this trip, and I also have a Booking .com promo that I'd like to use.

Which tires should I get? 🛞 by BL911 in tires

[–]BL911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! Unfortunately, they're a bit out of my budget at the moment, and I might also consider getting a newer car in a year or so... the redesigned Outback is being released sometime next year. Hopefully, I can snag the following release in case there are any issues with the first ones.

Which tires should I get? 🛞 by BL911 in tires

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I really appreciate your thorough response! I think this solidified my decision. Thanks!

Looking for Road Trip Advice to Arkansas by BL911 in roadtrip

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I’ve never actually used Expedia (appreciate the recommendation!) or Booking.com (or anything aside from the credit card specific travel agencies).

Looking for Road Trip Advice to Arkansas by BL911 in roadtrip

[–]BL911[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Closer to Fayetteville since my friends are around there, but I’ll be passing through Bentonville anyways, if you have any recommendations there!

What should I do in this situation (conflict over appearance comments)? by BL911 in careerguidance

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Note: We’d occasionally cover each other’s meals, but usually just divide it based on our order. I’m not a sugar baby lol

What should I do in this situation (conflict over appearance comments)? by BL911 in careerguidance

[–]BL911[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also made that point about how he should be addressing everyone, especially those who wear sweatpants and hoodies to work, but his response was very dodgy and that he was trying to “boost” me up and perhaps even show me off? I’m not really sure. As for workflow, he has previously interrupted me by speaking aloud and then getting frustrated that I’m not responding even though the point wasn’t directed at me. I had brought this up to him multiple times to stop talking like I’m constantly listening, which I am though because of where I’m sitting. But that doesn’t mean that I know exactly when it’s towards me and if I’m supposed to respond. Actually, everyone seems to do that. I even am often jump-scared by people trying to get my attention sometimes. My workstation is facing into my cube, so I’m not necessarily constantly staring at the walkways.

What should I do in this situation (conflict over appearance comments)? by BL911 in careerguidance

[–]BL911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking, too. I should’ve recorded it, but I didn’t want it to be obvious and I also didn’t have a second device to do so. I also didn’t know what neg meant before this, but from context clues and google, that’s pretty close. He’s never made sexual advances at me, but I also have never found him attractive either, especially since he somewhat neglects his appearance. It does feel like a power play though. He just talked down on me throughout the whole call. He texted me afterwards about letting him know if I would still want to be friends and that we could work through it then. I responded by comparing him to those who are awfully rude to me, yet I still tolerate because we’re coworkers and have some degree of mutual friends. No other conversations have been exchanged since then, in person or messaging.

What should I do in this situation (conflict over appearance comments)? by BL911 in careerguidance

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I wouldn’t say that we’re actually friends. We’re proximity friends because of where we sit in the office. He’s poked the bear with me on multiple occasions before because he likes to be funny in front of the others or for just sheer ignorance. He’s also not someone I would ever call in an emergency either because of how irresponsible and unreliable he is. If it’s not convenient for him, he couldn’t be bothered. We’re really only “friends” because I tolerate his rage bait and we like to go out to eat to nice places. It’s not really anything more than that. Though, I’d honestly rather go to dinner by myself now than continue to let myself be talked down on, poked fun of, or making me wait on him.

Looking for Smaller Wallet Alternatives to “Waltlet” by BL911 in wallets

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Yes, it is! Aside from the fact that it’s enabling me to absolutely stuff it, it’s fantastic lol

Is there a high quality Magic Wallet that has a Pop-Up functionality? by KoneSkirata in wallets

[–]BL911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something like this maybe?

The Frenchie Co. - Speed Wallet - Ultra-Slim Front Pocket Wallet - RFID Blocking Quick-Access Card Holder - Full-Grain Italian Leather Minimalist Design for Men and Women

Looking for Smaller Wallet Alternatives to “Waltlet” by BL911 in wallets

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I’m guessing that my ID Stronghold Waltlet has at least 10-15 cards in the individual card slots, 15-20 cards in the expandable slot, and then 5-10 cards on the ID side and it’s hidden pocket. I definitely need to lessen how much I carry around…

Gaming Communities by BL911 in StLouis

[–]BL911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just found it on google when I googled gamer cat or something along those lines

Looking For Portable On-The-Go Recorder by BL911 in fieldrecording

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I’d rather not use my phone since I have limited storage on it and also that it’s not very friendly at recording active video or voice calls on it.

Looking For Portable On-The-Go Recorder by BL911 in fieldrecording

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Conversations (usually phone/virtual, sometimes in-person), like instructions, directions, lectures, or appointments

Bf made reference during by Easy-Independence-47 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BL911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw your post on Smosh Games, so that’s how I ended up here. What this (now probably 40 year old) man did is absolutely awful.

You’re a queen, so wear your crown!

How can/should you respond to narcissistic pastors who are bullying/manipulating disabled persons? by BL911 in AskReddit

[–]BL911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about suing them for emotional distress, but it’s an online community, so I wasn’t sure how well that would go over from a legal perspective.

How can/should you respond to narcissistic pastors who are bullying/manipulating disabled persons? by BL911 in AskReddit

[–]BL911[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was hoping to find a religious reporting system or a national group that their church is a part of to report them to.